What does Sandhya untying saree from K's watch mean

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Posted: 11 years ago
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So the red saree Sooraj has bought for Sandhya has got entangled in Kavitha's watch. And as per precap Sandhya is removing the saree from Kavitha's watch. From a story point what does this signify. For me it signifies 2 things
One the scene shows Sooraj coming with Saree and Sandhya observing him and moving towards him. Kavitha gets in between and saree gets entangled in her watch. It means before Sandhya came into Sooraj's life Kavitha had a chance to be his better half. Watch signifies the time she had that oppurtunity.
Kavitha trying to take that saree from her watch is the missed oppurtunity. She desperately wanted to remove that saree and maybe at that time Kavitha somehow wanted to escape the marriage.
Then Sandhya coming and taking the saree unstrapping the watch. That means Kavitha has lost the oppurtunity. Unstrapping the watch means the time has gone by. Now saree is in Sandhya's hand and she is the right person for that. Kavitha can never ever hope to get back that lost oppurtunity.
The next symbolism is that Sooraj was a very simple guy. He had very little dreams and he was happy giving happiness to others. It was when Kavitha ran away from mandap he heard so many taunts. That entangling of saree in the watch signifies from the time he got engaged to her and then she ran away some part of him was crushed. Somewhere he developed an inferiority complex when HG people mocked at his profession and lack of education. Some where he felt incomplete. Somewhere he felt he wants to achieve more. But he didnt know how to go about it.
Sandhya taking that saree and unstrapping the watch means Sandhya will ensure that with time whatever negative emotions Kavitha had imposed on Sooraj she will erase all of them. She will be the balm to every wound the society had put on him. She will become the identity of Sooraj.
So what do you think?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post shruthi
I dont think CVs will show that sandhya helping suraj to comeout of that wound.
It already happened during WTC.
Dont knw whether they will show it again or not.

For me IT was like
K coming in RP and Sandy will remove her and save the family.

no hope for surya scenes 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with u shruthi

the attempt seems more to show Sandhva's calm and firm mind

not jealous or aroused by Meena's tales

I hope Sandhya answers Kavita firmly

i however did NOT like Bhabo firing her so much for a simple mistake in the ghee gass ritual in front of so many guests

the way she yelled at her is unpardonable

so she made a simple mistake

so

is this the way

she is big bahu of the house

she has come for 2 days from the training to the great wedding of Chavi for this ,,,,,,,,,,,,,to be yelled at in front of guests and understand that saas has invited that very girl whom Suraj was to marry to the wedding

here is where Babasa and Suraj come in . none corrected Bhabo and Kavita thanked her stars that she was not in Sandhya's place

Sandhya was humiliated in front of her

Officer Singh was btw correct in each word she said about priority and 9 to 5 jobs and IPS being a vocation where only the security of the country heads the priority list .






shruthiravi thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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oh Hemaji you became so hopeless kya? WTC is the only contribution of Sandhya to Sooraj. There will be something more for sure😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yes shruthi, the way they are moving decreases my hope,
see today they will start wedding preparation
when will they get time to discuss abt that.

but i was wishing to see a change in suraj from the beginning and sandy helping him .
let us see whether they give that or not.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@koolsadhu this is where I say Bhabo wants to show power. Meena's mother was telling Sandhya and Emily does not know to do things properly. Emily asked whether she could bring the rasam thing. She could have done it, as she is a good home maker the way Bhabo wanted.

But Bhabo wont understand she wants to prove to everyone Sandhya is best. As expected Sandhya messed it up proving Meena's mother right. Bhabo's ego got hurt when everyone told Sandhya when becomes IPS she will forget all rasams.
Bhabo needs to udnerstand Sandhya can never become that ideal bahu. She is tomboyish. If she tries to mould her it is unnecessary pressure for both of them.
Sandhya is for society, Emily is for family and Meena is good for nothing neither benefit family nor society. The sooner Bhabo understands it better for everyone.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@hemaji what ever improvement come to Sooraj will come post Sandhya IPS not before that😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Sandhya is for society, Emily is for family and Meena is good for nothing neither benefit family nor society.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Meena's mother was telling Sandhya and Emily does not know to do things properly.

Infact i have not seen a bahu from another culture who has adapted to the hindu culture so well ...Emily not only left non veg but even dresses according to Bhabo's illiterate preferences inspite of being a beautician and knowing latest fashion . Mohit does not behave particularly loving to her like Suraj does to Sandhya but she has no complaints , she makes the best out of what she has got . She has learnt every detail of housekeeping AND manages parlour and brings in money AND takes excellent care of her baby . What Meena's mother said was so rude and unfair and Bhabo who heard it could have stepped in and given her some credit , she truly deserves it . She had ground the haldi to perfection . Bhabo had approved . Its Meena who shirks work and runs outside to do timepass . Not once did Emily complain of work load of the wedding saying if Sandhya was there she would have less workload . How difficult it must have been , managing even that parlour . What was Bhabo's useless daughter doing , increasing expenses of the budget by breaking expensive perfume bottles and putting her in embarassing positions .Then she was laying last minute impossible wishes that were sure to wreck the hard work of a bhabi's career .She was also back sassing Bhabo that ur rules r for beendnis not daughters . These r Bhabo's sanskaars ...the daughter she has raised is selfish and spoilt . The girls that have come from outside , Sandhya and Emily r decent girls .

And Sandhya is not inefficient in the house as they make her out to be , she is normal . Even elderly ladies ask pundit ten ten times about arranging for rituals as they slip up . Even on the day daisa came for lunch , she had made all the other items except the bajra rotis .I find her normal . Here so many ladies don't become proficient in cooking even after ten years of marraige though they r housewives .

Shouting at beendnis in house full of guests is simply not done , rural or urban . How will Bhabo feel if Babasa does that in front of the guests . She too does mistakes , much greater than ghee gaas thali , she had lost bag of all important certificates of Sandhya . Truth is she does not give credit to Emily or Sandhya coz she does not even recognize their value . She deserves tricksters like Kavita , Chavi and Meena .
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shruthiravi thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@koolsadhu well said. I had really wanted her to call Emily and show Meena's mother wrong. A good saas who knows her bahus strength will only do that.
Bhabo has never praised Emily once in public for the excellent housekeeping she does. Instead decided to throw out that girl for egg fiasco without any solid proof.

Sandhya is a normal housekeeper lady whereas Emily is excellent in this area. But Bhabo choose to humilate Sandhya is what I dont like.

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