So why don't u guys like Pakhi?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Why are u guys so against pakhi? How's she a selfish person?she never hurt or took anything forcefully from anyone until now. You can't say a person is self obsessed & possessive just cause of how she behaved when she was 10 years old! Pakhi is a lovely, lively, naive & slightly pampered girl with a big heart!! some people also saying she behaved like a jealous gf after seeing raghav & kalpi together! Well if u go on a date with your dream guy & he books the whole restaurant for u, dances with u & just leave you without saying anything (when he's about to kiss u!) then wouldn't u want to know why? If you follow him & find him in some other girls arm wouldn't u be angry as hell & hurt that he led u on ? I know you guys are crazy about kalpi but I think pakhi deserves & needs love more than her. I know for a fact if raghav tells her now he loves kalpi & vice versa then she won't come between them! But by the time she finds out raghav's been using her she's gonna be in too much love & pain to forget & forgive! I won't blame her at all that time!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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right now she is in no pain and has got all she has wanted.

and nobody dislikes her ,its just that most of us like raghav and kalpi together thats it

agree with u she has been sweet and nice to all and would like to see her remain the same when things dont go according to her...coz that will be the real test of her character and if she still remains sweet and nice to all...then we will see.

plus i dont feel she will get much pain ...coz her great kamla maa is their to save her and will even raghav ...one lecture of kamlaa maa will be enough to bring raghav to senses and he will say ...dear paaki we r friends and pls dont take my actions as a gesture of love and so that will be the end...and i can see it coming very soon

we criticise paaki more coz she is always in confertable zone and gets it all in her plate while kalpi has to work hard for everything ...and even those who love her r never their to say i love u to her coz they r too busy with other things.

anyways all i can see in future is that both paaki and kalpi will be used as pawn between raghav and kapoors fight ...so both girls r going to bear the burn of this rivelary ...paaki coz she is kapoor weakness and kalpi coz she is raghav weakness
Saniqa thumbnail
Posted: 11 years ago
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We can't hate her for being born with a silver spoon! What do mean always get what she wants? Her own
family doesn't understands her or there for her when she needs them.
There's no need for her to work for a living but she's still & gives her all!
A child no matter what's the age always gonna go to his/ her parents for help! I don't see Pakhi running to her kamla maa for small things anyway selfish!she treats everyone well.pakhi might look very happy from outside but I refuse to believe a child who thinks her biological parents doesn't really love isn't in pain. Also she didn't made a fuss when kalpi won the swimming competition so that proves she's a graceful loser! We all know when it comes to matters of the heart we r hopeless though! So we might see a different Pakhi in the future but she's perfect now!! Well maybe she could work on that IQ!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Personally I don't have any grude towards her but still I don't like the self obsessed behaviour of her which sumtimes sounds like a pyscho lover n THE OVER THE TOP THE BIGGEST REASON IS: I LIKE KALPI even its kalpi who always suffers no matter wat the reason is either it's a case of her mother partial n blindlove 4 her , or a case of her exam sheet missing scam she always suffer n now raghav I mean y pakhi behaving as she own him (it's a different call dat he's giving lately some mixed signal)but atleast she could have a hold on her I mean y she's behaving like despos
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Posted: 11 years ago
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As a child she had purposely manipulated Kamala in staying with her ignoring Kalpi.. remember the Pen incident .. how she threw tantrums and shed fake tears when she saw Kamal with Kalpi .. The biggest fear is she will repeat it again .. Group Pakhi has been sweet so far, hope she continues to be that way

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Don't hate pakhi just raghav is not doing right by both girls u shouldn't use someone for revenge and u shouldn't tell at someone because u can't control the fact that u love them. Both kalpi and pakhi r going to suffer but pakhi us by no means someone without family love they always give her whatever she desires she just has to throw tantrum like she was upset how raghav would see her after prem stole her presentation and she was throwing huge tantrum and then raghav was brought in to calm her. Pakhis Saadi loves her like crazy and Neetu is constantly babying her and today she even described how prem buys her whatever she likes. But the sad thing is she even wants what little kalpi has also
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree Pakhi is a sweet girl but she has always gotten what she wants!!!! Kamla ma has always love and supported her[Pakhi] yes she loves Kalpi yet somehow she always overlook Kalpi in favour for Pakhi the cvs have shown this bias many times since the start of the show!!!!Kalpi always feels left out and she has to prove herself to her mother achieve her dream in order to be love by her whereas Pakhi has to say jump and Kamla Ma says how high!!!! I believe both girls have a hidden sisterly love for each other [my pov] This revenge track will be a testing point for all will Pakhi remain a sweer girl or become a vamp after she finds out about Rags love for Kalpi, and his intent to hurt her family using her as bait!!! The kapoors love Pakhi alot the may have a strange way of expressing it and may be a financially greedy but they love their daughter!! Pakhi should be a little more respectful !!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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it is not that we don't like pakhi but she has always gotten everything even kamla's love..kalpi makes more of a sacrifice...and yes the pen seen is very important as children don't always grow out of character...the behaviour is always there good or bad...did pakhi ever give the pen back to kalpi...if she did then it tells she listens and understand the right thing to do...if she didn't give it back even after kamla spoke to her it is in her to be mean and selfish...so you have every thing in the world and you still want the poor mans pen that is greed...as for the dinner conversation with the brand name stuff really why would you speak to your boss like that...he invited you to dinner and you dressed as if it was a ball...t was the first time going out with raghav as a boss and pakhi became personal...yes it is was what raghav wanted but she should know better oh and you have a sprained ankle and you still want to dance...get real...in kalpi's case she is too nave but that has a lot to do with her upbringing so everything will be good for her even when dumbo raghav abuse her...they remind me of asad and zoya at the start of QH...he was in love with her and did not want to accept it and found everyway to keep her with him...like raghav is doing with kalpi...pakhi is not taking anything serious...raghav never said he love you he is your boss and you need to draw the line...so you had an intimate dance which you could have controlled...and there was no reason for her to be upset with him...but this is the pen seen again...as for her mother neetu she loves her daughter but it is paki who is ill mannered towards her mother hence the reason I don't feel sorry for her...you have the love of everyone in your family but your arrogance is to much...kalpi loves her mother no matter what and all she is asking is foe her mother to show that love...and dumbo raghav need to show kalpi some respect...stop abusing her because you are consumed by her...its not her fault...I said to much...

Saniqa thumbnail
Posted: 11 years ago
#9
Actually even though Pakhi slept with that pen
as it meant a lot to her she gave it back the next day
cause kamla said it's the right thing to do.
Pakhi been in love with raghav forever. It's
not like she's all over him all of a sudden.
It's really sad cause he won't ever
like her cause he alway disliked her
cause of her parents.its true she treats
her parents badly but it's their fault as
they didn't brought her up to respect them at all.at the end
of the day her parents gonna choose
power & money over her though.what's gonna
be interesting if someone asks her to choose
between Kamla or Raghav!! I know everyone thinks
she's selfish enough to choose raghav & even
Kalpi might give her that choice!


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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Saniqa~

Ya, what u mentioned might happen on the show. Someone brought up how Kapli may not be interested in Raghav. So far, I can't say that Kalpi obviously has a serious crush on Rahhav. Plus, even if Kalpi did like Raghav in the romantic sense, what happens if her & Paakhi have a conversation & Kalpi finds out that Paakhi likes him in the romantic sense more than she likes him likes this, I really do wonder if Kalpi is gonna back out. It's obvious that Kalpi loves her mom & that she seriously has issues if w/the way Paakhi & her mom interact w/each other & how her mom showers all this love & attention on Paakhi but how aggressive is Kalpi gonna be when it comes to Raghav & even if she ends up being more aggressive when it comes to him, if he doesn't quit this using Paakhi for revenge plot, it's not like there's zero possibility that Kalpi will dump him or reject him. Kalpi can be a tough cookie & part of me is saying that Raghav is not gonna quit this revenge plot of his😕.



I feel both Paakhi & Kalpi are able to help our dear Raghav come out of his shell but the CV's overall have not shown that much in this aspect so far other than him falling for Kalpi but I wouldn't expect him to confess his feelings to her anytime soon.

People feel that Paakhi gets everything she wants but I don't know about this. She never wanted her dad, bro, & her mom to bettray her but hey did betray her. All though she seems like she has pretty much given up on Neetu, there were most probably times when she was younger especially more deep down inside that she wished could get more love & attention from her. My mom didn't raise me w/much affection & this is partly why I feel I had emotional issues growing up. I kind of know how she feels & my grandma was kinda like how Kamla is to Paakhi. If I cried, my mom wouldn't console but my grandma would. I honestly feel like my life would have been definately more pleasant if & been more emotional issues fee if I were raised differently & like Neetu & Sahil w/Prem well my parents really spoil my brother at times who like Prem is the only son in the family. I am the eldest by the way & have a younger sister as well😃. Anyways, me, my sister & other members of the family have seriously worried about how he will turn out in future😔. He gets his away A LOT a lot of the time but I still love him. He also usually doesn't openly show affection towards me like the way Prem is to Paakhi.

The only thing that lacks in Kalpi's life in terms of her family is the lack of affection & attention she gets from her mom. W/Paakhi on the other hand, there is relationship issues w/everyone in her family except her grandma. It's sad that if Raghav gets revenge on the Kapoors through her & leads her on, he will end up in the same category as her bro & her dad. The category that's called the men who have betrayed Paakhi😭. Most of her family has betrayed her & her mother neglected her, no wonder why she made such a tantrum in her room w/the door locked that day. In her eyes, she might see Raghav like her knight in shining armor who will sweep her off her feet & rescue her from this wretched family. Honestly, I feel like Raghav himself in a way needs saving. Prem needs to be saved as well & one of the perfect ways that will ignite the start of him getting saved is if he falls for Kalpi & Neetu does something bad to her or attempts to do something bad to her at this time. Then Neetu will get a taste of her own medicine. After all when Prem gets mad, he can get really get mad. I honestly don't have much remorse for this woman. She has failed in raising both her kids & Kamla is part of the reason for her failure.

No offense but on this show, I prefer more dark romance. I know this is quite bold of me to say at this point of the show but I am still for Paakhi ending up w/Raghav w/both of them being in love w/each other of course.

Now I am not gonna get into chemistry between them since I blame the CV's for this matter. Just because we haven't seen much sweet, heated stuff post him resuming from falling off the cliff doesn't mean the CV's are not gonna show us any of these type of scenes between then in the future.

Can't Paakhi be the dark horse rather than a vampy female when it comes to Raghav? I feel the CV's really need to be more on the careful side w/her. Besides, I feel that both Raghav & Paakhi haven't opened up to each other much so far on the show but there's more of a chance Raghav would fall for her if this happened, especially if she doesn't throw herself at him. In my eyes, so far she is not a psycho. A psycho would would behave even more worse & crazy than has behave so far on the show. Especially after following a few Indian serials & I still watch the American soap opera, "General Hospital" for example, I know what a psycho character is & Paakhi definately isn't one in my opinion.

In conclusion, I really like Paakhi & I understand how she feels sometimes & I really don't wanna see her turn into a vampy girl😭.
Edited by edabella - 11 years ago

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