Pri,
Like you said, this is about humanity and to me it is about right or wrong. To me it would be very wrong of JW doesn't allow her to call him Papa (I want the father to be Pooch as well and I belive it, but, JW doesn't know it yet).
Hypothetically, how would JW tell this child in her face, don't call me papa, I have nothing to do with you birth, to me your happening is just a nightmare and you constantly remind me of the stain to my dignity brought on by your mother? You can stay in my hose and be looked after, just as well as my own twins, but, don't call me father because I didn't want to be your father? Unfortunately, I just am and I want to forget that fact?
I would not like my Cuddles to be this way.
Sonia.