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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

@hina thanx 4 the update.

i think J& G both r rite & wrong @ their places. G shudn't'd given that responsibility 2 that nurse & instead asked J or sum sr. nurse abt it. & J is also wrong thinking that shes only roaming wid abhi. tho hes rite in scolding her abt leaving patient but wen she was trying 2 tell he didn't listen & i think he was apologising 4 that & also 4 he reacted @ home.

and btw ganga is on leave. she only assisted him as shes there. if she was @ home & such situtn'd arisen wat J'd done?and no mother can live widout thinking abt her kids esply such small kid.so i can understand her situtn but still she shud'd atleast inform oder sr. rather than that nurse. and i think if that nurse wud'd been there situn wudn't b so worse. its her fault also.

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tellygeek

@tellygeek

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

If Dadisa had not talked to Jagya, would he have realized Ganga's complex situation so nicely and so soon? may or may not. Well, he is also a father! so if other nurses are around (as he himself mentioned to Ganga while scolding her), before asking Ganga for support, he should have thought about his son too !

I am not against what Jagya did, but what Dadisa did was also not wrong, she did this out of love for Jagya and Ganga ! Dadisa wants Jagya to be happy always and doesn't want any misunderstandings between the couple, this was the affection that Jagya craved for during his bad days. I won't name this as interference but an elderly concern. And Dadisa also regreted her own behaviour before advising Jagya.

I read somewhere a comparision with Ansh. Well, Anandi, Dadisa and Bhairon were illtreated by Shiv and Ira during Jagya-Sanchi times on several occasions, I wished Daddu had intervened like Dadisa did yesterday on those occasions.

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Andriaa

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: tellygeek
If Dadisa had not talked to Jagya, would he have realized Ganga's complex situation so nicely and so soon? may or may not. Well, he is also a father! so if other nurses are around (as he himself mentioned to Ganga while scolding her), before asking Ganga for support, he should have thought about his son too !

I am not against what Jagya did, but what Dadisa did was also not wrong, she did this out of love for Jagya and Ganga ! Dadisa wants Jagya to be happy always and doesn't want any misunderstandings between the couple, this was the affection that Jagya craved for during his bad days. I won't name this as interference but an elderly concern. And Dadisa also regreted her own behaviour before advising Jagya.

I read somewhere a comparision with Ansh. Well, Anandi, Dadisa and Bhairon were illtreated by Shiv and Ira during Jagya-Sanchi times on several occasions, I wished Daddu had intervened like Dadisa did yesterday on those occasions.

ur post answered some of my questions.thnx 😊

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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: tellygeek
If Dadisa had not talked to Jagya, would he have realized Ganga's complex situation so nicely and so soon? may or may not. Well, he is also a father! so if other nurses are around (as he himself mentioned to Ganga while scolding her), before asking Ganga for support, he should have thought about his son too !

I am not against what Jagya did, but what Dadisa did was also not wrong, she did this out of love for Jagya and Ganga ! Dadisa wants Jagya to be happy always and doesn't want any misunderstandings between the couple, this was the affection that Jagya craved for during his bad days. I won't name this as interference but an elderly concern. And Dadisa also regreted her own behaviour before advising Jagya.

I read somewhere a comparision with Ansh. Well, Anandi, Dadisa and Bhairon were illtreated by Shiv and Ira during Jagya-Sanchi times on several occasions, I wished Daddu had intervened like Dadisa did yesterday on those occasions.

@bold 1 i think your post in answer to my post so assuming it is for me i will say i might be in minority but my opinion is different Why he cannot realize without Dadisaa's lecture ? When Ganga will herself talk why he won't realize ?Can't Ganga talk ?The thing is its not tiff between two siblings that dadisaa is jumping in to solve the matters Its a tiff between husband and wife . Every where tiffs happen between husbands and wives Adults interference snatches their privacy from them and this has been major flaw of Dadisaa from the beginning She likes to herself interfere instead of advising the couple to solve your matter yourselves and if here she would have asked Ganga go and share your problem with him that would have been more nice than her own lecture 100 percent out of which she was trying to prove you did wrong in scolding her she is a mother much similar she was lecturing him to take the baby out of incubator because maa ki shakti this that That was by no means logical even this wasn't . Ganga will be treated same by every doctor everywhere if she does this mistake

@bold 2 There is no point of thinking about his own son or not and Ganga has so many responsibilities etc etc Ganga surely can work if she wants and assists anyone and the mistake she did was not in seeing her child , mistake she did was not informing anyone before leaving. Not only Abhimanyu but even Mannu needs her Both children need her at same level but she cannot completely sit at home and get stagnant till the children grow up to this level Keep working slowly side by side but be a little careful How many seconds would it take of her to inform before leaving so how we are trying to connect it she is a mother such mistake happened Her complex state needs to be understood while same Ganga herself was telling another nurse you should keep your emotions out of hospital door when you enter in otherwise it will affect our patients At that time too Ganga was a mother of a very small child Mannu ? Ganga did a mistake not following her own standards . A human being does mistake i accept even she did , accept , apologize , next time be a little careful Go to meet your child but before leaving inform the seniors thats it No one will scold her or be angry at her, All what was needed was this so Dadisaa 's lecture was unneeded . Cvs wrote the scene poorly I would have praised Dadisaa and said she has truly redeemed if she would have asked Ganga go confidently and talk to your hubby instead of jumping herself where she once again proved some traits in her same as before in JaAn Interference where she is not needed She cannot allow even husband and wife to solve their tiff themselves ?

Tensions related to work come in house its natural Its nothing about perfection or flaws in a person Its a natural phenomena Every person if gets some tension at work cannot be coming home cheerful He will be tensed but home is a place where he relaxes I don't understand why Jagya is being termed as failure as a husband in here by some while same we won't be calling him failed as a husband if this tension would be associated with some other nurse and Ganga would be making it easy for him ? This time the tension is related to Ganga herself so it will come out on her too That does not make he failed as a husband but what lacks Ganga's same spirit with which she makes his tension go with talking to him , present her explanation etc same cvs did not give her chance this time but forced Dadisaa in here and she was unneeded and so was her lecture

@bold 3 This example is not suitable here Daddu was himself ill-treating Bhairon and Dadisaa thats why he didn't interfere For him Shiv and Ira were not wrong that time though they were and i think you misunderstood people are comparing this situation with Shiv angry at Anandi during bridge collapsing when she turned off his mobile in emergency situation so that he can sleep Shiv scolded her in front of every one there , her mistake could cost many lives but AnSh solved that tiff themselves not their elders jumped in . Cvs could be a bit same fair even here then it would be great 😊

Edited by sidra08 - 12 years ago

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RainbowKitty

@RainbowKitty

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Totally agree with you Sidra Same views i have

Jagya asking Ganga to assist him was not wrong i dont understand why he should be thinking of his son here 😕when mostly nurses working in hospital would be mothers 🤔and he said i would have asked any other nurse if you had to go just tell him naa? This is the mistake that Ganga did and that brought anger for her and that was justified anger all she needed was talk when matters cool down

Sumitra was more apt than Dadisaa and in my view too Dadisaa's interference was unnecessary and all she was lecturing him you did wrong in scolding her Understand she is a mother Her being mother does not justify her mistake

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tellygeek

@tellygeek

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Sidra - Ofcourse Ganga and Jagya can talk and sort the matter themselves. Since Dadisa was involved in this incident from the beginning and also she noticed that both Jagya and Ganga were very upset, so she would have thought of sorting this out. This is just my interpretation. But you are right, the director could also have done it without Dadisa's intervention, this is a common husband-wife tiff afterall if we overlook their working relationship. Well, thats how Dadisa is!

I quoted Daddu's example to express my opinion that I wanted to see him act like Dadisa, as the head of the house, in those scenes when Dadisa was getting humiliated in the hospital by Ira, or when Shiv insulted Bhairon by being very cold to him, when Bhairon had visited KB during Jagya's case.

Coming to the specific Ansh scene, thats a good example. I guess since Shiv had made it clear to his mother that he can himself handle his affairs with Anandi, she would not have intervened, and the rest, anyways won't. But I agree, this scene could have been done on similar lines, it depends what exactly the director wants to show, Ganga's struggle between maternal and professional commitments, an understanding JaGan, or a peacemaking matriarch. With this approach, they are showing a bit of each, just my thoughts.

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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

@Tellygeek ...I think Dadisaa was only involved with her own matters not in this The one she was discussing with Sumitra and Gehna that was ok and fine I liked Sumitra's approach more than Dadisaa To be honest i would have preferred if she would not have intervened and they would have solved the matters themselves and become happy like many other couples This was not this big tiff that she became so worried they are very upset and only she can make them happy She has nothing to do with Ganga's mistake and Jagya's anger on it . i don't think Shiv has told his family i will handle my own matters but family gave them the needed time and space to solve their tiff Dadisaa was more like my grandson i will handle him and 99 percent of things she was saying were not in right context so i believe director forced her in here 😆

Edited by sidra08 - 12 years ago

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