Mother understands her kid very well. - Page 2

Originally posted by: Mages

then why she is not sitting down n discuss the issue with him...if a mother knows her child is disturbed...its her duty to discuss n sort it out...instead of that she is supporting raman's action towards ruhi...n blames ishu's bad behaviour towards raman...ishu really raised some valid points b/w father-daughter duo but Mrs Bhalla neglects her words...n ask everyone go to sleep...when raman enters...shower him with love n ask him to go to sleep...

whether its raman's arrogance...anger...towards everyone...she supports him...what kind of mother supports her child bad manners...

this Bhallas can never change raman becos they support his actions...they don't tell him the right n wrong...at times I feel they are afraid of his anger

Ishu doesn't understand raman...I agree but she is the only who can change him becos she doesn't support his actions neither she is afraid of him...she is the only who raise her voice n make him shut his mouth

I agree...a mother knows her child well...but its her duty too...discuss n sort out the issues...Mrs Bhalla knows raman was wrong in pushing his daughter yet she supports him...she knows something is troubling raman...yet she ask him to go n sleep...not even once enquire what compel him to take such action towards ruhi...


sorry guys...I have a different POV...

well written.i do agree wid u partially.yah mrs.bhalla knws something bothering her son bt she dont dare to ask him whats that.as u said maybe scare of his anger.its wrong indeed.not nly ishu,MR.Bhalla too raises his voice most of the time against Raman.but its not necessary to shout all d time,why dont mr.bhalla discuss?if they behave the same wid Raman that ramand does to them.what wil be the differences among them n R?u can win ur enemies heart too wid ur gud behaviour.why ishita dont try this way.thats my nly complain abt her.she too shouts all time.

Sorry, I disagree. This is how Indian mothers spoil their sons, they like to deny the reality. I think this is a huge issue in the indian community, I never see mothers correcting their sons. So what if he's going through an emotional crisis, he needs to resist his emotions when he is around his child. If I was Ishita, I would react the same way as her. I cannot tolerate a kid being manhandled; despite any reason. Sorry to say I'm not liking how toshi ji's character is shaping up, she's really beginning to annoy me. She obviously failed somewhere as a mother, Simi and Romi are the results of it. I thought what Raman did today was extremely embarrassing, I felt so sorry for Ruhi, Ishita, and Mr. Bhalla.

Originally posted by: sumatra1234

Finally someone watching from every angle it ... Ok I agree that Raman did not need to push Rohi, but it's not just his fault, no one but his mom did not bother to find out why he did it ... At least his wife should try to find out, if not for him, not least because Rohi ... I love the scene when his mom defends Raman, the reason is that finally someone to Ishita torn .. mrs Balla took another to berate Ishita, she somehow make it clear he did not even bother to find out the truth .. Ishita constantly talking about Rohi, if she ever wondered what is the Raman ... Whenever Raman tried to explain it, she just said I Rohi mom, and for it is that every story ends ... Ishita has another bad side, much like holding lessons, and does not know the whole situation ...

exactly.agree.ishita should try this 4 ruhi's sake atleast..raman is ruhi's father.thats d biggest fact.no matter what happens ishu cant deny n ignore this truth.

Originally posted by: tulsi003

Sorry, I disagree. This is how Indian mothers spoil their sons, they like to deny the reality. I think this is a huge issue in the indian community, I never see mothers correcting their sons. So what if he's going through an emotional crisis, he needs to resist his emotions when he is around his child. If I was Ishita, I would react the same way as her. I cannot tolerate a kid being manhandled; despite any reason. Sorry to say I'm not liking how toshi ji's character is shaping up, she's really beginning to annoy me. She obviously failed somewhere as a mother, Simi and Romi are the results of it. I thought what Raman did today was extremely embarrassing, I felt so sorry for Ruhi, Ishita, and Mr. Bhalla.

I don't know why people keep on blaming Ishita for not trying to understand Raman; he's so bitter that nobody would like to get to know him better. I feel he needs to change a little in order for Ishita to understand him.

tfs ur pov.really appreciate it n love reading different pov's..but i dont get how come ppl expecting Raman to be behave decently n nicely who learnt another bitter fact of his life recently..shagun betrayed him badly,it take yrs 4 him to digest it.he is d same raman who was crying to get his kid back.after getting the kid some1 telling him the kid never belongs to him.and he has every reason to believe it.he knws shagun could go this extent too.though he dunno its a lie ashok told him.its worst behaving rudely wid kid but at present Raman has lost his mind n sense of judgement.we should give him some space.

Originally posted by: Snigdha_Khanam

tfs ur pov.really appreciate it n love reading different pov's..but i dont get how come ppl expecting Raman to be behave decently n nicely who learnt another bitter fact of his life recently..shagun betrayed him badly,it take yrs 4 him to digest it.he is d same raman who was crying to get his kid back.after getting the kid some1 telling him the kid never belongs to him.and he has every reason to believe it.he knws shagun could go this extent too.though he dunno its a lie ashok told him.its worst behaving rudely wid kid but at present Raman has lost his mind n sense of judgement.we should give him some space.

I just really liked that finally someone realises that something is bothering Raman... so glad it was his mother to sense it and say it

ya moms understands their kids well.as ishu understands ruhi n toshi her beta but some moms when understood wat bothering kids tries to talk,clear n sort them out n guides wat is right n wrong n tries to keep them on track n in right path.can understand where mrs bhalla coming frm as ishu said as moms like adults lets talk n try to find solution of case raman rude behavior towards ruhi but mrs bhalla brushed off.raman pain is understandable n he is not like adult trying to talk n share to his closed ones.all can see his pain but case is his pain is not excuse of repeating rude behavior towards his innocent kid n kid is sharing her pain n fears n trying to talk n understand n evolving.mr n mrs bhalla n ishita all ve their own pains but they r considerate to innocent kid which is no mistake of her.kid is in tender age n needs healthy environment to grow with healthy mind.it affects on kids brain n also it bring distance btwn raman-ruhi as dad-daughter relation n ruhi will become like raman.so mr.bhalla n ishu r talking sensibly n trying to talk n sort it out n find solution by discussing d issue but raman is running away n mrs.bhalla as mom not helping his son n his son family for his son happiness.running away frm pain n problem r issue is not d solution.no wrong in discussing negative emotions as it helps to see wat it is n can try to overcome it tat is wat ishu talking n mrs.bhalla n raman perceiving as society generally perceives tat ppl expressing their neg emotions as weak r wrong ppl but escaping won't help as to try to understand those neg emotions n try to express it n try to overcome it.

Originally posted by: tulsi003

Sorry, I disagree. This is how Indian mothers spoil their sons, they like to deny the reality. I think this is a huge issue in the indian community, I never see mothers correcting their sons. So what if he's going through an emotional crisis, he needs to resist his emotions when he is around his child. If I was Ishita, I would react the same way as her. I cannot tolerate a kid being manhandled; despite any reason. Sorry to say I'm not liking how toshi ji's character is shaping up, she's really beginning to annoy me. She obviously failed somewhere as a mother, Simi and Romi are the results of it. I thought what Raman did today was extremely embarrassing, I felt so sorry for Ruhi, Ishita, and Mr. Bhalla.

I don't know why people keep on blaming Ishita for not trying to understand Raman; he's so bitter that nobody would like to get to know him better. I feel he needs to change a little in order for Ishita to understand him.

I think she would be the catalyst in bringing out the truth from raman's mouth and make everyone see his real pain and love for ruhie hidden behind it😆

Originally posted by: Tahitien-moon

I think she would be the catalyst in bringing out the truth from raman's mouth and make everyone see his real pain and love for ruhie hidden behind it😆

hope ur words come true😛