Marriage and love

When I see posts on how Nikhil should fall in love with Laajo and then help educate her, it does not seem okay to me. May be you guys are younger and understand love and marriage in a more fantasy way.

The plot of this story is definitely unique.However, I feel the creative team is making Ishana a vamp for no reason.

She is jealous, yes any lover would be in her situation, she is now plotting, yes but also realizes that her actions are mean, she is confused, anyone in her situation would be.

Lajjo is a real character too. She is a beautiful human being as per her nature and her brought up in a simple world. She is sacrificing because that's what women do in her village, she started loving Nikhil, very obvious in her situation.

Nikhil, as I see it, is very clear in his mind, can not and does not love Lajjo. He truly until now loves Ishana ( that's what he has been believing so far as there was only Ishana and no other girl in his life). He is missing Lajjo as in his situation anyone would, she was taking care of him without any expectation and he is also concerned about how her family would react to her going back. For that reason he is feeling bad, he is thinking that he pushed her to the edge that she made a decision to go back for good.

Now, most of us want Nikhil to miss Lajjo, fall in love with her, compare her with Ishana and bring her back and educate her.

In real life, at least that's how I believe, the interaction that leads to love is physical attraction, the compatibility and then come other things like status, education and family.
So far I have not seen any physical attraction from Nikhil's end, we have not seen any compatibility and the two families have a very different outlook towards life.

On today's date, Ishana and Nikhil match much better than Lajjo and Nikhil.

In my opinion, Nikhil should own up to his marriage with Lajjo, whether he loves her or not, give her proper chance to get education and have a smart outlook at the world and then consummate the relationship and eventually fall in love with her for who she is. To me, this is more realistic and a good answer to some of the snob members of his family.

Ishana is a beautiful girl, she will find love again once she gets the signal that Nikhil is not available any more.

I apologize for ranting my opinion here but would welcome criticism and comments with open heart.

A very nice post.

Yes agree. Nikhil is not yet in love with Laajo. How can he be? He has been with Ishaana for a long time. And it IS his mind set to love Ishaana and only Ishaana. Laajo , at the moment is an obligation. A duty. Something he Had to do, to feel human. Of course , he misses Laajo---- who wouldn't. She catered for his and his family's EVERY need. But so far, he has been too busy trying to get Ishaana back too intensely, to even think about Laajo. However, he will start now. Mission of getting Ishaana back in place is accomplished. He has free time now and his mind will soon be consumed by Laajo. I actually feel sorry for him for he is basically a very good man. And being good , he is torn between the right and wrong. Who does he choose -- his wife or the woman he has been going out with for many years.

As for Ishaana--- I agree she is just trying to get her love of many years back. She is not a vamp but a girl trying to grasp at any straw to hang on to it. But I cannot sympathise with her tooo much, for the simple reason that she has not done anything right. kind or good. She might have felt guilty but that's not enough. To use Kunal was mean. He did not desrve that. And to belittle Laajo, trying to crush her, was another unacceptable act. She will very soon be paying for it. evil never pays.

Laajo ,on the other hand should have left immediately. She should have more faith in her parents and herself. Easy to say, I know --- but it could have been done. Staying with Nikhil was hurting too many people. His parents and his love. Not fair to think of your family and not his. I know the wonderful girl did the right thing in the end but a tad late. The evil snowball had grown too enormous.

And yes I agree with your conclusion. He should stay married to our Laajo(am a Laajo fan), and walked with her through life.

Again , nice post enjoyed reading it.

I truly love your post. There is a big difference between love and marriage. Even if a marriage is based on love, it requires to fall in love with the person over and over again. Love changes in time, especially with responsibility.

@ TM

nice post and follow up views

Fantastically written. I totally agree . Now a days TV trend is like marry a girl then regret and then take off your all frustration on her ... I don't like this .

I have no positive feelings towards ishaana . In my opinion if a person sincerely loves in pure
love there is no place for games , cheating , playing mind games , cheap tricks to win the love.

This is what ishaana did and doing until now . She was a selfish woman and she is and will
be selfish . Ishaana's ugly worst cheap behaviour cant be supported by saying that because of her
love she is doing all that . No good person will behave the way she is behaving cheating
everyone mostly she is cheating nikhil by going on his back , plotting . Is that behaviour all
called love ? 😕 No its definetely not love .

And Nikhil yes u r correct he has no feelings towards laajo . she is his responsibility thats it
and about attraction in few scenes nikhil strongly pulled towards laajo deeply atttracted by her
beauty , innocense . He got confused so many times . To be frank nikhil got attracted to laajo
more than laajo to nikhil . Attraction, responsibility, caring , protecting
is what he felt towards laajo .

And last but not least in my opinion Laajo is the most beautiful girl than ishaana . She is more
prettier than ishaana in all ways . Ofcourse she is not sophisticated and educated as ishaana
but in terms of beauty laajo is the most beautiful girl noone can beat her.

And about nikhil falling in love with laajo its hard to believe that he ever fall in love with laajo.
Its unbelievable . He does not even respect the institution of marriage , he did nt even
recognise the great sacrifice of laajo . There is a long way to go . And personally as of now i
hate nikhil and ishaana so much . they deserved to be with each other . selfish people
who can do anything can harm anyone for their so called love . Made for each other
selfish couple in love .

Originally posted by: ziks

I have no positive feelings towards ishaana . In my opinion if a person sincerely loves in pure
love there is no place for games , cheating , playing mind games , cheap tricks to win the love.

This is what ishaana did and doing until now . She was a selfish woman and she is and will
be selfish . Ishaana's ugly worst cheap behaviour cant be supported by saying that because of her
love she is doing all that . No good person will behave the way she is behaving cheating
everyone mostly she is cheating nikhil by going on his back , plotting . Is that behaviour all
called love ? 😕 No its definetely not love .

And Nikhil yes u r correct he has no feelings towards laajo . she is his responsibility thats it
and about attraction in few scenes nikhil strongly pulled towards laajo deeply atttracted by her
beauty , innocense . He got confused so many times . To be frank nikhil got attracted to laajo
more than laajo to nikhil . Attraction, responsibility, caring , protecting
is what he felt towards laajo .

And last but not least in my opinion Laajo is the most beautiful girl than ishaana . She is more
prettier than ishaana in all ways . Ofcourse she is not sophisticated and educated as ishaana
but in terms of beauty laajo is the most beautiful girl .

I agree yaar bang on this attraction he feels, I was watching their scenes yesterday, the pull Lajjo has confuses and consumes him, once his brain starts working he would be able to see it ...Lets see who will guide him, his own self or someone else Lajjo as Nikhil himself says is beautiful both from inside and outside...inner beauty brings glow to her outside self and she is stunning in the process...hope to see makers exploring this amazing chemistry between the leads. BTW today's episode sans Ishaana was such a relief. Finally Makers please don't feed us overdose of Ishaana,its getting poisonous