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Flora3333

@Flora3333

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Posted: 12 years ago

This is my 2nd post about Anshuman not deserving Paakhi as his wife.

After 14 days had passed of the challenge, I started to feel he is falling for her and won't let her leave. But I was wrong. If he has anything for her, that's only sympathy, and a lot of respect of course. But he doesn't love her. He doesn't have the courage to love her.

One reason could be his guilty feelings. Because he knows that he deceived with her and he doesn't deserve her. That's why he wants her to leave so he doesn't have to live with the guilt in his heart anymore. But also, he doesn't want to ruin his image in front of Tanya and Rana. He can't say no to Tanya as he promised her that he'll marry her as soon as Paakhi leaves.

In short, he's listening to what the majority of people around him are expecting him to do, only to save his image. He didn't change at all. Maybe he has something for Paakhi in his heart but he's not brave enough to listen to his heart. So, does he deserve Paakhi? I don't think so.

I'll be happy if Paakhi signs the divorce paper after getting to know about Tanya and the engagement. Anshuman can later repent and bring her back and marry her again with the love and respect she deserves. 🥱

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-mango-

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Posted: 12 years ago

Bang on! He doesn't have the courage to love Paakhi because of his intentions. He only brought her home to get rid of her. Even if he falls for her from now on, he will live with his guilty conscience of his past intentions. With all due honesty, I was him to get engaged+married to Tanya because they deserve each other. I want Ayaan and Paakhi to leave him and never come back.

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Flora3333

@Flora3333

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: -mango-
Bang on! He doesn't have the courage to love Paakhi because of his intentions. He only brought her home to get rid of her. Even if he falls for her from now on, he will live with his guilty conscience of his past intentions. With all due honesty, I want him to get engaged+married to Tanya because they deserve each other. I want Ayaan and Paakhi to leave him and never come back.

@Bold, absolutely 🤣 😡

and Ayaan can leave with Paakhi too! Because I don't think it'll matter to Anshuman because the only thing he cares about is his image! 🤢

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nicki11

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Posted: 12 years ago

i think he does her but don't have courage to admit his feelings?

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Dolly-heart

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Posted: 12 years ago

You are right Flora that Anshuman does NOT deserve Paakhi.

And Anshuman refuses to let himself be loved because he actually does not love himself.

In his all consuming worry about his Image he has not realized that he does not have a good Image of himself even in his own eyes.

Ayaan has now put Paakhi in a dilemma where she has to choose between a promise given to a child and the promise given to her by Anshuman which turned out to be completely false and dishonest.

So if Paakhi does the same with her word given to a child , will Paakhi too not be just like her husband that has no value to a promise given to anyone.

Paakhi is in a situation like she is between a " Rock and a Hard Place".

Her decision will decide whether she is more hurt or does she really love Ayaan.

Her ignoring Anshuman will not bother him as much because right from the start he has thought of nobody but himself .

It will be interesting to see where the CV's of this show are going to go in their decision.

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-mango-

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Flora3333

@Bold, absolutely 🤣 😡
and Ayaan can leave with Paakhi too! Because I don't think it'll matter to Anshuman because the only thing he cares about is his image! 🤢

He has been a shit husband and a shit father. According to me, Paakhi and Ayaan don't need Anshuman. You're right, if Anshuman's image is taken away from him, he doesn't have anything in life.

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PSharada

@PSharada

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Posted: 12 years ago

Exactly. Anshuman turned out to be a coward who doesn't even want to face what he is feeling. Somehow I am feeling Paakhi walks away with Ayaan too and then Anshuman will realize that the kid that was not even close to Paakhi is now respecting her as a mom and staying with her and he will figure out what exactly he is. I would say Ayaan is much more brave than Anshuman at this point. He admitted his mistakes and corrected them. But Anshuman still is stuck in the false impression of his image and what he can do to save his image.

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Flora3333

@Flora3333

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Dolly-heart
You are right Flora that Anshuman does NOT deserve Paakhi.

And Anshuman refuses to let himself be loved because he actually does not love himself.

In his all consuming worry about his Image he has not realized that he does not have a good Image of himself even in his own eyes.

Ayaan has now put Paakhi in a dilemma where she has to choose between a promise given to a child and the promise given to her by Anshuman which turned out to be completely false and dishonest.

So if Paakhi does the same with her word given to a child , will Paakhi too not be just like her husband that has no value to a promise given to anyone.

Paakhi is in a situation like she is between a " Rock and a Hard Place".

Her decision will decide whether she is more hurt or does she really love Ayaan.

Her ignoring Anshuman will not bother him as much because right from the start he has thought of nobody but himself .

It will be interesting to see where the CV's of this show are going to go in their decision.

You're right! I had almost forgot about her promise to Ayaan. As she promised him, she's not gonna leave the house. And I don't think Anshuman or Tanya will get engaged/married after all that'll happen on monday. So basically, Paakhi will stay in the house but isolate herself from Anshuman. I want her to move to Ayaan's room, and I'm sure Ayaan will love that. 👍🏼

On the other hand, Anshuman and his sister needs time to realize their mistakes and repent.

I hope he regrets later and apologizes to Paakhi and maybe we'll get to see a remarriage and honeymoon? 😳

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Flora3333

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: psarada
Exactly. Anshuman turned out to be a coward who doesn't even want to face what he is feeling. Somehow I am feeling Paakhi walks away with Ayaan too and then Anshuman will realize that the kid that was not even close to Paakhi is now respecting her as a mom and staying with her and he will figure out what exactly he is. I would say Ayaan is much more brave than Anshuman at this point. He admitted his mistakes and corrected them. But Anshuman still is stuck in the false impression of his image and what he can do to save his image.

Absolutely! Even the kid is braver than the man himself! The reason why he cares so much about his image is because he's a coward who's insecure about his own existence. 🤢