Two sides of a coin of love by pride and ego to lead life-love/hate

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Posted: 11 years ago
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EBP must say very very and ever best episode in social messages and story wise too.

The love word is very hard to say describe and what it is..some say i love shouting out thru their lungs..some say by actions and gestures of expressions,,and it can be secure by caring and concern isn't women and men type of love..and often imbalance in realtions..loved the story part of saying two sides of coin..one part of women talks where the other part of men seeks and express in action..typical way of couple living..emotions said and felt shows love in two ways.like our ashlok or ourselves..defiently a missile couple to show all what love is and how it is in life in real..ASHLOK A unique way of love and no name for it..
The truth of the EBP chosen ASHLOK pyaar as message for all of us..is fighting back the egos and and pride both ashlok in love of care and concern which is secure and other side of love and don't need expressions of feelings common ego of man and the other side asking to express and accept the feelings(VERY POSTIVE dialog of AASTHA SAYING SHE knows SHLOK feelings and expecting to express) the common way and tought of man thinking women wants all the time I love you word..but in real the emotional attachment women seek and it's always seen as women complaints.
Shlok complains all saying AASTHA wants me to say I love you and blames back complaining job is women job..the female chauvnist shown as common man.

Aastha saying the love was do instead by hate very apt quote for every couple again the egos getting adjustment and balancing in pride often falls in MU and say hate word immediately forgetting the old love.not even seeing why said love and why so much in worship for revenge in for baba.the hidden truth didn't show up as the love said hate and didn't give a chance to realise why hate. The hate might later show up in life used first to secure forever and shlok did prove and acheive his goal of giving idenity and secure in family as Bahu NA accepts Aastha as perfect Bahu..so the past experience might made shlok think and realise seek from mistakes..doesn't want Aastha to change and late say hate like the past love said in slefish shlok selfless in love said selfish and made Aastha see the hate of realtionship first and of us messages this is what realtionship happens later in life when not seen the hate later forms in life which are of egos.

The trust SHlOK has on Aastha is very huge and and when AASTHA was hesitating to say and accept love SHLOK took over and nicely said AASTHA emotions of wanted to hear I love you all the time as women wants to hear all the time. LOVED AVI expression and gestures and showing happiness when Judge was saying the love is clearly shown in care and concern to secure.and if this is not love what shall I name this love.

JUDGE words were very good message the base and foundation of marriage he knows and the experience he has in relationship in marriages and love of illusions like hate or MU is all because of influence of egos..saw the true love and said not seeing his self ego living under illusion of baba worship and secure the bond forever not seeking present love, and maturity of not knowing two side of coin the other part of heart is always MU of ego. seek inner love and show the world..now passed MU and hate hardship will see how to come out MU as it's your own life and you seek from your experience..

SHLOK me say is seeking inner love now as learn from mistakes he moves and in path of baba principles in his way we saw and will might see like previous track to secure as perfect BAHU first then seek love..spoiler videos are saying too as predicted.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Most couples start with illusion love like our ASHLOK and end up in MU when others characters Of family impacts and adjusting in life starts living in together ..often ego and pride clashes as changing for each other and transforming new habits..our shlok made Aastha adapt all changing by not changing habits and principles which the Agni house needed so had to use MU and hate to make Aastha succeed if not the adjustment and transforming for shlok had been long done..now the name MRS.SHLOK AGNIHOTRI perfectly fits Aastha as for Agni house as got the Bahu rights and identity to seek back the turth of relationship in trust. Both in seek for Anjali and in love seek way like VARAD said,bring back love in love way by showing your rights in love?CVS showing of ANJALI on one side and VARAD on the other side was very nicely shown and signified. AASTHA in same way both of baba AVADOOT principles and MOM KALANDI way of seeking turth in relation when some attachment and emotions shown the magalsutra significance explained in seek of love in first..then build trust..was clearly signified well.

No matter what we are seeing ashlok slowly ans silently balancing their ego and pride and was almost confessing but destiny said time to confess but balance as you have been made for each other...the significance of the magalsutra stuck was very apt portrayed by the director and story writer..the OM in behind symbolised the peace they will have and the trust in BAPPA will lead their life ..making the magalsutra stuck and time moving ahead for further step...lovely waseemji..saying east or west be it magalsutra or ring the vows of love and life make it even in leading in balance and trust.

SHLOK today was shown in a new way must say from yesterday probably in new way of mission to show what real love is..in twisted way as usual..the six month given by judge he is will see to last forever..the spoiler video said too.

Loved CVS POV again how children tiffs creates more tiffs in opposite parents families. The insult ANJALI saying and how if effected her thoughts and her intentions. KALAANDI mom saying prayers to see her daughter happy and seek divorce was well replied by JUDGE again ..it would have been good if you had seen your daughter thoughts and seen ways to patch up ASHLOK. Loved the message again parents don't take haste decisions in one angle see two ways.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lovely post Madhu. We expressed the same thoughts in our posts. It was a great episode. The very basis of marriage is love, trust understanding and balance everything. Ashlok will do that now and the nasaamji and nadaani will go .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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awesome analysis madhu Di
loved it
nice post
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Originally posted by: Sg2013

Lovely post Madhu. We expressed the same thoughts in our posts. It was a great episode. The very basis of marriage is love, trust understanding and balance everything. Ashlok will do that now and the nasaamji and nadaani will go .


Thank you..SUCHI.

AASTHA openly accepted that she feels SHLOK feelings and wanted him to express..SHLOK as usual twisted AASTHA thoughts of seeking love in I love you'll?was very nice.
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awesome analysis madhu Di
loved it
nice post


Thank you.
NIKI
How is NEHA doing..love to,her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Madhu excellent as always!
I posted briefly on suchi's and also sort of one-liner for 3 pics in that pov. We are just about discussing the same relationship issues with different language probably based on our own personal life experiences.
That said, here's c/paste.
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Suchi you echo my thoughts yet again and have the patience and wherewithal to write in such minute and practical way. Why? Bcoz while watching the epi, the thoughts were swimming in my head not only about how these situations are being handled back home but out here in the west too.
The two words that you even highlight nadaan and naasamajh for ashlok are the key words that the judge said emphatically. And we as viewers know it too, plus how their egos and parental upbringing is influencing their day to day nok jhonk fights MUs and each upholding their parent. Shlok his baba and astha her mom. Why bcoz they are not listening to the voice of their hearts and out of sheer respect for each parent, have taken the steps that they have.
We know neither astha nor shlok want the divorce except astha's reason is different from shlok's. Yes they both want to appease one of their parents, but shlok is doing out of his worship for baba while astha by mere trust for kalindi at the cost of sacrificing her own feelings for shlok.
avdhoot and ajju kind of know that astha is struggling inside but not kalindi. kalindi's past has become her present while completing ignoring beti's current present emotions. Thank god judge tells her to not get so excited.
okay me being visual, below are just 3 pics and brief pov for each. But before that i am putting in bold 2 main salient points above. Hats off girl! Ego has no place in nourishing relationships, no matter what kind, couples friends, neighbor, since relationship IMO involves only 2 people at a time.
There is no place for ego and pride when love flourishes. A true journey of Ashlok is now going to begin and flourish in their inner room , their hearts
below is c/paste from new vol 4 musical-pov thread that i wrote 3-4 hrs ago thereabouts.
shlok calm down, dont get so excited just bcoz your "plan" matches with judge's decision just by merely reading the newspaper about how commendable ashlok married life has been? Paper media will print the sensationalism, not the reality in 99% of the cases.
Regardless me glad that from tomorrow it will be one big family where a samdhi will live with daughter and her sasural. That will be the 1st 😲 But luv it!


kalindi dont be so hellbent on breaking relationships just bcoz your past has become the present ... let children live their present w/o your interruption, even judge said so
Interesting shot camera angles, the legal setting goes to show rather two lives hanging in the balance while the judge holds the reins and decides in favor of the institution of marriage itself. kya baat (ie what to say, the phrase that mukunda made universally popular😉)
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Originally posted by: radev24

Madhu excellent as always!

I posted briefly on suchi's and also sort of one-liner for 3 pics in that pov. We are just about discussing the same relationship issues with different language probably based on our own personal life experiences.
That said, here's c/paste.
~*~*~
Suchi you echo my thoughts yet again and have the patience and wherewithal to write in such minute and practical way. Why? Bcoz while watching the epi, the thoughts were swimming in my head not only about how these situations are being handled back home but out here in the west too.
The two words that you even highlight nadaan and naasamajh for ashlok are the key words that the judge said emphatically. And we as viewers know it too, plus how their egos and parental upbringing is influencing their day to day nok jhonk fights MUs and each upholding their parent. Shlok his baba and astha her mom. Why bcoz they are not listening to the voice of their hearts and out of sheer respect for each parent, have taken the steps that they have.
We know neither astha nor shlok want the divorce except astha's reason is different from shlok's. Yes they both want to appease one of their parents, but shlok is doing out of his worship for baba while astha by mere trust for kalindi at the cost of sacrificing her own feelings for shlok.
avdhoot and ajju kind of know that astha is struggling inside but not kalindi. kalindi's past has become her present while completing ignoring beti's current present emotions. Thank god judge tells her to not get so excited.
okay me being visual, below are just 3 pics and brief pov for each. But before that i am putting in bold 2 main salient points above. Hats off girl! Ego has no place in nourishing relationships, no matter what kind, couples friends, neighbor, since relationship IMO involves only 2 people at a time.
There is no place for ego and pride when love flourishes. A true journey of Ashlok is now going to begin and flourish in their inner room , their hearts
below is c/paste from new vol 4 musical-pov thread that i wrote 3-4 hrs ago thereabouts.
shlok calm down, dont get so excited just bcoz your "plan" matches with judge's decision just by merely reading the newspaper about how commendable ashlok married life has been? Paper media will print the sensationalism, not the reality in 99% of the cases.
Regardless me glad that from tomorrow it will be one big family where a samdhi will live with daughter and her sasural. That will be the 1st 😲 But luv it!


kalindi dont be so hellbent on breaking relationships just bcoz your past has become the present ... let children live their present w/o your interruption, even judge said so
Interesting shot camera angles, the legal setting goes to show rather two lives hanging in the balance while the judge holds the reins and decides in favor of the institution of marriage itself. kya baat (ie what to say, the phrase that mukunda made universally popular😉)


Didn't know SUCHI was doing a post..but am liking all of your analysis PREMU DIDU with pics..
Lovely..you conclude in your analysis well..and in brief..
Very nicely given DIDU.
The two words that you even highlight nadaan and naasamajh for ashlok are the key words that the judge said emphatically.

Lovely SCRPIT in regards to judge words...as always the ego in haste is always NADAAN and pride always says mature more.

Loved your ending phrase in reality...two lives hanging in the balance while the judge holds the reins and decides in favor of the institution of marriage itself. kya baat (ie what to say, the phrase that mukunda made universally popular😉)...very nicely quoted .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very Good post Madhudi..you have a very positive outlook towards life.
Shlok definitely knows that Astha is still blindly in love with him, so he played his cards very well. In a way he said that she wants him to confess in front of everybody that he loves her and also mentioned by saying "You know how we men are!!" , that means men doesn't want to confess Tfeelings out in open!! that way he won the half of the battle by confusing her and judge that he need not confess it openly. In a way he challenged her!!
And the other half of the part of the battle was won by the media coverage of fire accident. He used the entire situation to his favour and sealed the deal... He got an extension of 6 months!! Very smart player he is indeed !!! He is such an opportunist I must say!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very Good post Madhudi..you have a very positive outlook towards life.

Shlok definitely knows that Astha is still blindly in love with him, so he played his cards very well. In a way he said that she wants him to confess in front of everybody that he loves her and also mentioned by saying "You know how we men are!!" , that means men doesn't want to confess Tfeelings out in open!! that way he won the half of the battle by confusing her and judge that he need not confess it openly. In a way he challenged her!!
And the other half of the part of the battle was won by the media coverage of fire accident. He used the entire situation to his favour and sealed the deal... He got an extension of 6 months!! Very smart player he is indeed !!! He is such an opportunist I must say!!


Thank you JIA, must say nice point in yours too.
My own life seek and learn. Can say most men doesn't know how to express feelings but seek much in high he win half the battle to secure Aastha as Bahu in family by NA laws by making Aastha worship baba and respect..the same respect given by shlok above all relations made things easier for shlok to move forward and even spoke for Aastha confusing words and admitting both ashlok words in his compliance saying Aastha is the one in need of divorce and Aastha is the one always seeking love in heights not seeing the other side..remember our talk of two side of a coin and the positive always covers negative as at the end positive rules same way the care and concern seen by all to secure will say love in couple POV it's egos not valanced in hurt say hate..shlok the twisted guy took in advance and secured his life first in family saying the future hate right away taking his past EXPEREINCE..shlok learns fast from experience and his loved one pain and seek solution like typical family oriented person..so this time he will see two ways like the spoiler videos..going against ANAJLI and giving back rights of Aastha as shlok wife and Bahu of Agni clan and might as well teach the love bug to all family. First one be it VARAD who said seek love where he itself away from love..seek and give,.
Opportunist will make Aastha the tune to tunist.
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