A better Life really?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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The producer of the show says "that his show motives is to help the women in Madhya Pradesh to have a better view to life.!"
So I guess Showing Kuhu dispite being ill treated, beaten and having a father in law who watches her with lust...her having a better life means going back into that house...Because being treated like dirt, and sticking with it is a sign of a good woman... If a woman decides not to live in that situation dose that make her bad?
I guess Champa Accepting the fact that she was raped , so easily...even allowing Digvijay to do her Sardakhi and be happy about it...is showing a better life...because not for anything should she fight the man who hurt her and took her dignity!?
Dose he beleve the crap he is saying? or just paying Lip service? A better view of life would allow these women to regain thier dignaty by making the men who hurt them seriously pay for thier crimes!
Not just fold thier hands and say "Sorry"!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Vinnie these people are really sick. I don't know how showing a woman who knows her husband raped another woman and forced her to perform sardakai, abused her and she still wants to go back to that husband, is showing any woman, yet alone a bundelkand woman, a better way of life.

Had he wanted to show that, then Kuhu would have taken Champa to the police to report the rape. She would have taken the second chance that she was blessed to get with open arms and made good use of that.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agree. I hope Cvs will do right by society. Hope they will not perpetuate the myth that a woman must standby her man despite being abused by him.

I hope they will show that standing by your man means overcoming problems together. Helping each other to bring up a family with dignity. Man to respect his wife and to safeguard her in every way. Similarly a woman to do the same for her husband. Trust and respect.

Women empowerment is not enough if men is not able to respect another human being. Men must learn that a woman is a human being.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The whole drama of Sugni, DV, Champa was created to show Sugni mahan so MS will accept Sugni as her daughter in law nothing else. No wonder after today's episode Digvijay's family would disappear from the show like Rattu and Dhannu Maa, or Cvs could portray Digvijay's family the most decent people in the village.😡 They just hell bent to show Vikram as a worst human being on the earth so viewers can accept Adini and😡 Sugni can kill TVs that's only cVs motive nothing else Otherwise how else they will justify Adini's pair.😉 CVs are not interested bringing any reformation in Bedni tribes they just want to get approval of Adini's pair, so TRP will go up..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Exactly Julie D. ! And even more stupid is Kuhu's logic that all thakurs behave that way and their wives don't leave them.
Sugni saying Kuhu is acting like a "dharmic patni" is crap. Women are not door mats..and the fact that this show continues to portray women in a bad light is horrible. Yes we know that their are sick people in society and these things do happen...but I think since the producers intention is to show people a better life...he should show them that it is wrong to accept abuse. Stand up, know your rights, use the justice system! Instead the message I am getting here...
1.Divorce is bad even when you are abused. Or stuck in a dead emotionless marriage.
2. The rape of a woman is acceptable to other women, even the victim, because of ones class . {nothing was more disgusting than watching Naginya tell Champa to accept her fate!}
3. Humans have no right to fall in love
4. When you are being emotonally tourtued by people who claim to love you and respect you...stay quite, accept it and smile...because that is what good people do!

It is high time India's views on women change and I mistakenly thought this show would help in that , but all it seems to be doing is making a spectacle out of these peoples lives in a very bad way! . As a producer, given the recent events that took place with that poor girl, he should feel ashamed of himself!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: goldhorse

Agree. I hope Cvs will do right by society. Hope they will not perpetuate the myth that a woman must standby her man despite being abused by him.


I hope they will show that standing by your man means overcoming problems together. Helping each other to bring up a family with dignity. Man to respect his wife and to safeguard her in every way. Similarly a woman to do the same for her husband. Trust and respect.

Women empowerment is not enough if men is not able to respect another human being. Men must learn that a woman is a human being.


They are already perpetuating the myth. In the beginning we thought we had that in Vickram and Sugni...Where he stood up for her, respected her , declared she was not a toy but another human being. But that was to good to be true so they had to take the only strong male character and turn him into something negative.
Now His wife was one who was willing to kill her husband...but to divorce her even if he dose not love her is bad so they did everything to keep them together. The result he is now some psychopathic lovesick person...who they a valiantly trying to paint as a villian and failing!
All the Thakurs wives in this show are either manipulative, stupid or brainless. With the exception of Sugni., who is just vengeful and wants to be an ideal wife, Also failing badly because the same producers messed up here character as well!
All the thakurs in this show, are either looking for revenge, a bedni , or abusing their wives. And the joke is this is all regular behaviour that to them their is nothing wrong.!


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Great posts! Vinnie, JulieD, goldhorse and sunnyroshi. I must say that TVS is the most unluckiest man in that village. The other thakurs are getting away with all their horrendous deeds but our TVS is the only one being treated like he has committed murder. Why didn't they show him evil like the rest from the very beginning then I wouldn't have felt so bad. I so wanted that TVS married that Sugni dame and together they changed the lives of all the unforunate women in that village. When the previous Adi left they could have phased out that character. The more I see this Adi the more my blood boils. Varun should leave PSH like Narayani. I'm sure the latter got fed up with the crappy plot and left but the producers don't want to reveal this news.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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may be whatever he saying, don't know meaning of this, himself...
he is pretending and trying to do face saving... nothing else...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Vinnie
One lady who's name is sugni is shown to fight vikram
who loved her and is not like JT OR DV and just because he loves her allot and can't let go he is bad man for them
man like DV is great man and man like Thakur vikram singh is bad
why is bad ???
Did he try to rape any one ???
did he try to do sirdakaii of any lady ??
but he is bad for them Just because he never accepted adini marriage!!
well done cv U rock
They never try to open REVA'S truth about trying to kill vikram but yes they are opening vikram's truth trying to kill aditiya
Adi is hero for what ?
what is his aim in this show ??
did he fight any one ?? No Never ... he stole his uncle lover and left amu his lover and then is called great man for what ?? DEAD MARRIAGE ??
Why divorce is bad but woman who loves her self more then any one in her life is good
CV need to open their eyes and see that
TRP of the show PV who comes b4 PSH has good trp 1.6-1.8 and some times more then that ... why ?? wasnt it cold that time ??
when its cold people use to be in their bed and on the tv watching ... so what happened why people prefare to shut their tv and go to sleep or change the channel ??
ITS easy to blame us for their mistakes
did they listen to us ?? did they read what we said?
they were blind and deaf to us now they want to say that we are the reason why their trp is low but they dont see what is going on on their show
I Salute to Varun who came here and said sorry and knows better why this show has low trp ... sorry to say Gulki and CV didnt see it or its easy to ignore us and say what is in their mind just to keep their show On tv !!1
Edited by ronshaan - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well said Ronshaan, couldn't agree with you more.

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