~*PSH WU 2nd Aug- Adi's suspicion increases *~ - Page 2

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks a lot for the written update
Adi looks shocked to see Mami ji
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Posted: 13 years ago
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A lot of negative things are said of Gulabiya. Rightly or wrongly, we must admit that Gulabiya does love her daughter Sugni. A mother's love is the highest love, no one would love you (save yourself) more - no brother, no husband, no father even (there are exceptions i grant). Gulabiya not only love her daughter but she had dreams for her daughter, she found against the bedni tradition, she gave Sugni the freedom to choose - Gulabiya bucked tradition and that she had passed on to Sugni. She had hopes for Sugni - big hopes - she wants Sugni to have a good life but she does not want Sugni to live the life of a second wife. Yes i know TVS can hide Reva - but how long - one day Sugni is bound to fiind out - then what?!!! Forgive TVS that he hid his mentally unstable wife - forgive that he had hidden such a great event in this life from her (whom he professed to love so much) - forgive him that because of this she was estranged from her mother? I am just stating the facts barely and possibly hurtiing to many of TVS fans.
Put yourself in Gulabiya's shoes - picture yourself how you love your daughter and want the best for her - and picture a person of TVS's character - would you want that for your daughter - be honest about it!!
I am a little disappointed in Sugni - in her encompassing "love" for TVS - i put love in inverted commas because i personally think Sugni was lured into thinking it is love (I may be wrong because this is screen life and course of life and love changes with the stroke of the CVs pen). In her encompassing "love" for TVS she was willing to leave her mother - the very mother whom she had shared dreams with - where are those dreams now? Where is the bedni that was going to buck tradition and be a person in her own right? What happened to that dream Sugni? Is marrying TVS going to be any better than a sadarkai (or whatever the title is)? I wonder... You are so young Sugni and you are giving up your dream to be a woman of substance, a woman who dared the break the bonds of tradition and earn the respect of socieity for doing so. YOu gave up your dream because TVS showed a lot of kindness to you and made you feel special and make you think you are in love... are you Sugni? Do you truly love TVS that way or is it the love of gratefulness making you feel that it is LOVE? Look into your heart Sugni and you will find your answer...
That is MY POV... and i know Sugvi fans are going to hate me for this :) ... : ) ... (:
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I have no doubt Gulabiya loves her daughter and should do all she can to help her no matter what.

Gulabiya never had dreams for Sugni let's get that straight it was Sugni that help her to realize her dreams. Even G said it how can I not see you fulfill the dreams you've shown me. If Sugni wasn't a strong girl even she give up too at one point until TVS showed her a that no matter what you should never give up on your dreams, her sardhaki would've been done by now and Gulabiya wouldn't have stopped it.

Gulabiya loving her daughter again isn't the issue but her tactics of not understanding her daughter is my problem. We all love our parents but no one here listen to there parents 100% of the time. TVS is a stranger Gulabiya give birth to Sugni so she know and understand her daughter better then anyone. How can she forget her daughter doesn't take well to pressure and Sugni is only going by the principles her mother thought her so how do she expect Sugni to just go by her word and turn her back on her first love without proof. Please someone tell me what's realistic in that 😕

"YOu gave up your dream because TVS showed a lot of kindness to you and made you feel special and make you think you are in love... are you Sugni?"

Ok now with these question you ask will Gulabiya get her point across with bullying tactics or will it push Sugni further into the arms of the man she's trying to open daughter eyes to?.

My point here regardless if we think her love is real or gratitude or whatever name we want to called it is her feelings and as a mother Gulabiya failed to understand. Gulabiya tells Sugni on hand she believe TVS loves her and but doubt he'll fulfill Sugni dreams. So how do you expect a young impressionable girl like Sugni to react.


Gulabiya know how it feels to love somebody cause the thought of being separated from TJ almost broke her heart when they were doing her second sardhaki. And this is the same man she Gulabiya crept out of her house in the middle of the night to sleep with for some money to buy food for her hungry family.

Sugni hasn't committed any crime that warrant society or her mother to make her an outcast. The girl fell in love period and as a parent even if you don't agree you be there, letting them know your door is open no matter what and you'll always be there for them that's being a parent. Not bullying or ultimatum just be there with open arms and shoulder to cry on when they need it. We all have to learn pain and disappoint in life our parents can't do that for us, cause that's how we grow with our own experiences as human being .

I don't hate anybody for sharing there honest and healthy pov 😳

Edited by pyar-ishk - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sugni is not giving up on her dream with TVS. Part of her dream was always marrying someone one, rather than having to live as a Bedni.

Now yes, the fact this would/can be considered essentially a Sardhakai is one thing. But she from what she knows and sees as the truth, this is not giving up on her dream. In fact, it's her dream come true.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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WOW! i read the wirtten updates but yet to see episode...
happy that finally Adi traces his Reva mami. now he will bring her to haveli..but what about Dhannu ma... if she will inform TVS that Adi had taken Reva...nooo😡
Edited by crazzykuri - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Vikram is better than Gulabiya's thakur. He is not doing sar dakai he getting married

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