8 yearss ... :/ like Really .. and Mehbeer :O - Page 2

Originally posted by: -ParAnJas-

That..i agree ... divorce changed everyoen ..Meher becums mature and Abeer becums more of rebellious ... but still 8 years ... i dun know ... i usually ignore dat Part and alwayss thought.. 3 or 4 years ...

@bold : pace ...😕 i think time is way too long ... 8 years...

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

]I don't really see what the problem is with the 8 years of separation. It is more than enough for them to come out of their struggles and break up. They are now at the point where they both have reached high success and were able to manage fine without each other. Yes, there are still some things that need to be sorted out between them but even without the other in each other's life, they were living.[/DIV]

And there is no fixed time for when a person becomes mature. It is all subjective. Meher became mature early on in her life due to the circumstances that were present in her life. She had to struggle and saw her whole family struggling just to make ends meet. Abeer didn't go through that. He was probably born in an hospital with a functioning AC. Yes he has had to work to pursue his musical career, but even that wasn't a necessity. If his musical ambitions didn't pan out then he always had his dad to revert back to and gain a job. Meher did not have that option available for her. Everything she is and has done is with her toil, blood and sweat. These two are on opposite ends of the spectrum when it comes maturity. There's no need to analyze this further. It is crystal clear from their actions alone.

Originally posted by: -Ishana-

Moment of silence for how perfect this is Gur ⭐️

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Aaww, thank you Ishu. 😳

Originally posted by: Savz_Startling

they were not in relationship for 11yrs. it said tat they met 11 yrs back,fell in love 10 yrs back n married 9yrs back n took divorce 8yrs back,so they were in relationship 2 yrs r so only if not wrong n ya in dis 8yrs abeer didn't mature as in show they were making comparisons btwn shyam n abeer,shyam even at old age he is not mature n not reposnisble but no comparison btwn him n abeer. ya it differs frm person to person as he is now like dis even after 8yrs of divorce means then how he is when meher married n they were in relationship as dis was d main issue in their mrg n might be reason for their seperation n ya d way things people takes also differs but in tough times only strength of d person character is known.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I don't really see what the problem is with the 8 years of separation. It is more than enough for them to come out of their struggles and break up. They are now at the point where they both have reached high success and were able to manage fine without each other. Yes, there are still some things that need to be sorted out between them but even without the other in each other's life, they were living.

And there is no fixed time for when a person becomes mature. It is all subjective. Meher became mature early on in her life due to the circumstances that were present in her life. She had to struggle and saw her whole family struggling just to make ends meet. Abeer didn't go through that. He was probably born in an hospital with a functioning AC. Yes he has had to work to pursue his musical career, but even that wasn't a necessity. If his musical ambitions didn't pan out then he always had his dad to revert back to and gain a job. Meher did not have that option available for her. Everything she is and has done is with her toil, blood and sweat. These two are on opposite ends of the spectrum when it comes maturity. There's no need to analyze this further. It is crystal clear from their actions alone.

Originally posted by: -Ishana-

Thank you actually. That's what I tried to say in a previous post about Abeer's so-called 'immaturity'

Originally posted by: -ParAnJas-

I knoww many posts and discussions done on this 1...

but still when i thougt about 8 years of divorce and 11 year long relationship ..mujhe believe ni hota 😕😕

i mean luk at Abeer ..from where does it suits him...divorcee from 8 years... 8 saal dhakke khaa ke..bande mei maturity aa jatti hai...

i dun think ..30 + ppl behave immature n without thinking ...

Leave that aside... i mean Abeer and meher ya phir Nisaar woh itne age ke lagte hi nahi...

dun u think ...8 yearsa re waytoo much...diff.. could be lesser...like 3 or 4 years ...😕

jabh bhi koi bolta ..8 saal ho gayee... i feell like laughing like seriously ..u kidding me...

p.s. i know bakwaas post but ..8 years ..11 years kuch zyada hi ho raha dey luk like ...college passed out freshers 🤔