Originally posted by: _Anonymous_
I agree! Those were my exact thoughts when i saw the episode!
I feel bad for priyanka...lets say he does say yes...how will she be able to live in that household and look her FIL in the eye...whenever she'll look at him or at FIL's older brother all she'll remember are all the tears she shed for not getting their acceptance, or all the time spent thinking "what is it about me he doesn't like"...its like such a repeated blow to your self esteem..she may never get to see him as a father as she sees rajbeer's mom as her motherAnd I bet the father hates it that shes so determined and that because of her he thinks his name is being dragged through the mud by all the other families for his resistance to the relationshipthe FIL and the DIL will never be truley happy with each other if pribir get married because of the long and sad start this whole thing started off as between the FIL and DIL
When I waas at this stage, my family only said "Marry whomsoever you want, but marry someone whose family wholeheartedly accepts you". I am glad I took up that advise. I would hate being into a family where I wasnt welcomed and where the elders of the family dont love me. Its another story, that elders usually come to terms with it and start accepting you. But that isnt always guaranteed. many a times the Husband wife relationship is usually affected in such cases, where the husband is torn between love for wife and love for dad.😕