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WHO IS A DRAMA QUEEN?

In literature, the character Scarlett O'Hara from Margaret Mitchell's Gone with the Wind would be considered a drama queen by today's standards. A drama queen is notoriously self-centered and self-absorbed, often viewing friends and relatives as lesser beings assigned to take care of her personal needs. A drama queen's worst enemy is solitude, so she tends to be very outgoing and sociable, although many of her friendships tend to remain at surface level. Others who have experienced the drama queen's sudden outbursts in the past may have a feeling of walking on egg shells around her, not wanting to be the person who delivers upsetting news or offends the drama queen in any way.

A drama queen could also be described as a diva, a neurotic and self-centered perfectionist prone to sudden demands and outbursts. However, a diva is also usually considered to be exceptionally talented, which is not always the case with a drama queen. A drama queen may be jealous or envious of others, which could make any personal failings even more painful and trigger another round of emotional outbursts or irrational thoughts of revenge. In a drama queen's world, people can be either with her or against her; there are no stages in between.

Many parents find themselves in the unenviable position of dealing with a young drama queen. This can be a difficult situation for other siblings, since their own needs may take a back seat to those of the drama queen. Some parents choose to acquiesce to a drama queen rather than provoke the inevitable tantrum or histrionic outburst. By confronting the would-be drama queen's selfish behavior directly, however, parents can demonstrate that a child's demanding or manipulative personality is not enough to force them into doing anything. A young drama queen's worst fear is to be ignored or become powerless over others.

In adult life, being considered a drama queen or a drama king is generally not a good thing. Co-workers or superiors may fear confronting a drama queen or king at the workplace, since he or she usually does not take personal criticism very well. A drama queen may find herself out of the social or political loop at work, since her tendency to overreact or lash out at others irrationally makes it difficult for others to trust her with sensitive information.

Since this WORD or PHRASE is used a lot on this forum...i ponderd on the true origin and nature of the word so that everyone can take a look at it. People are entitled to their own opinion...after all we live in a free world....so personaly when i took a sheet of paper and ticked the attributes out..MRS CHAUHAN..RUMPA and GURPREET appeared more of the drama queens.....Bitching is a weakness of character the way i see it....it shows the insecurities in a person.....thats my opinion.

Not pointing at anyone..just some thoughts for u guys to Ponder...is PRIYANKA The DRAMA QUEEN HERE? All in Good Humor...

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mokshi7 thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
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Copyright of DQ description, and article on Modern Literature and Phrases at the MU Georgia Lit Dpt Site =)
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Ahh so awesome 👏 Perfect Article. Thank you.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Your Welcome...Excited to her all your thoughts...Im a big fan from Sri Lanka....really enjoy reading the forums here 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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LOL.......very well researched and this definitely applies to Gulabo !!!!!!
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I liked the way you approached this question with full thoughts, reasoning and research.
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Originally posted by: sneha_09

LOL.......very well researched and this definitely applies to Gulabo !!!!!!

doesn't it?? 😕 hmmmm.
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Awesome research and valid points, Mokshi7!
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Originally posted by: syrene

Awesome research and valid points, Mokshi7!

notice how there is no one to disagree here. But post a topic on Pri being a drama queen and you will once again get the same people bashing her. 😆😆😆
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Originally posted by: Perfangel5655




<FONT color=#006699 size=3 face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">notice how there is no one to disagree here. But post a topic on Pri beinga drama queen and you will once again get the same people bashing her. 😆😆😆</FONT>



How can they argue with sound logic? They run out of ammo when faced with simple common sense 😆 .

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