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Posted: 15 years ago
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Gulabo influenced Hitesh in his choice of girls. Hitesh is totally mummy's boy mom influenced hims to go after Pooja.

Pooja has nobody else interested in her as their first choice. Two boys were after Nadita, one after Rumpa and Nadita, one latched on to Pri and never looked at anyone else. Yash's mom was also dictating him 'who could be her bahu' that left only Hitesh.
The whole show is screwed in favor of boys. There are 5 boys to 10 girls..it is impossible situation for girls to find a right partner. Pooja was push to choose Hitesh and she had cold feet when she realized she may actually had to marry him.
The only way this show can survive and be interesting if format of the show is changed. The girls and boys ratio is equal. One boy and one girls is eliminated every week. For the first four week all boys and girls have to interact with each other. Each boy has to interact with all the girls one by one and each girl has to interact with all the boys one by one. Moms are not allowed to interfere in first four weeks. Only when boys and girls narrow down their choices moms will have their say. No girls or boy can take the same boy or girls on a date twice in a row in first 4 weeks.
The format of show is flawed that is the reason the participants are having huge problems connecting with the right guy or gal.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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i agree that there should be equal number of contestants and mom should not be allowed to interfer but as far the other rules should stay the same..if a guy/girl want to date the sam eperosn over n over...it should be fine
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Originally posted by: negina

i agree that there should be equal number of contestants and mom should not be allowed to interfer but as far the other rules should stay the same..if a guy/girl want to date the sam eperosn over n over...it should be fine

In my opinion it should be fine after four weeks not right away.
Rajbir didn't show any interest in any girl except Pri. Rumpa once said she has not even properly said hello to him. This a reality show and you are an extreme introvert this is not the place or show for you. Show format should have been such that Rajbir at least should have been friends with all the girls or at least had good conversation with them. If he only wants to interact with only one girls from the start till end then he should go on Shaadi.come and find one..no point in being on the show.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yup i felt the same thing that from day one, girls were at disadvantage. And these lallus were not that great of choice anyways. It's not like they were india's most eligible bachelors for whom these girls would go over and beyond.
i like ur format of the show better , there should be equal amount of boys and girls and mommys should enter after few weeks..so the girls-boys can get to know each other better without much of interfernce.
and ya hitesh choice was completely influenced by his mom, i was just watching beginning episodes other day since i had missed them , i saw that hitesh liked Rumpa from day one. He had least interest in pooja..i don't even know when he started liking her. hitesh and Rumpa are better choices for each other anyways.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: freakyy

yup i felt the same thing that from day one, girls were at disadvantage. And these lallus were not that great of choice anyways. It's not like they were india's most eligible bachelors for whom these girls would go over and beyond.

i like ur format of the show better , there should be equal amount of boys and girls and mommys should enter after few weeks..so the girls-boys can get to know each other better without much of interfernce.


and ya hitesh choice was completely influenced by his mom, i was just watching beginning episodes other day since i had missed them , i saw that hitesh liked Rumpa from day one. He had least interest in pooja..i don't even know when he started liking her. hitesh and Rumpa are better choices for each other anyways.



i disagree abut hitesh and rumpa...hitesh always like pooja from day one...he was soooo jealous when pooja took rajbir to see her mom the first time she became BoW...the only reason he kept saying rumpa in the beginning was becasue pooja was not showing any interest him and he didnt want to embarrass himself in front of the other guys by going after a girl who was not interested in him...the pooja started showing interest, he forgot all about rumpa and ran after pooja
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: April2007

In my opinion it should be fine after four weeks not right away.
Rajbir didn't show any interest in any girl except Pri. Rumpa once said she has not even properly said hello to him. This a reality show and you are an extreme introvert this is not the place or show for you. Show format should have been such that Rajbir at least should have been friends with all the girls or at least had good conversation with them. If he only wants to interact with only one girls from the start till end then he should go on Shaadi.come and find one..no point in being on the show.

I dont think Rajbir is introvert..an introvert wouldnt hold someone's hand in the second date itself and neither would dance arm in arm with someone he's just met The issue was something else..I feel! And I totally agree on the shaadi.com thing...😆 The concept of the show is totally messed up! there was a lot of potential..and they screwed it..!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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There is this wonderful korean show I watch (and love) where they have equal number of pariticipants.😊 It doesn't make the drama any less. Ofcourse there are always triangles and etc. Perfect bride was really unfair to the girls. The guys got to have their pick from 10 girls who were shown to be almost perfect. They can cook, they are educated, come from good families and most of them look nice too.

On the other hand we saw guys with bad temper, overly emotional, insecure and maybe even a little dumb, the most eligible one got kicked out, one has attitude problem and one is a little too old for most girls and is in the best shape physically!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

There is this wonderful korean show I watch (and love) where they have equal number of pariticipants.😊 It doesn't make the drama any less. Ofcourse there are always triangles and etc. Perfect bride was really unfair to the girls. The guys got to have their pick from 10 girls who were shown to be almost perfect. They can cook, they are educated, come from good families and most of them look nice too.

On the other hand we saw guys with bad temper, overly emotional, insecure and maybe even a little dumb, the most eligible one got kicked out, one has attitude problem and one is a little too old for most girls and is in the best shape physically!!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

There is this wonderful korean show I watch (and love) where they have equal number of pariticipants.😊 It doesn't make the drama any less. Ofcourse there are always triangles and etc. Perfect bride was really unfair to the girls. The guys got to have their pick from 10 girls who were shown to be almost perfect. They can cook, they are educated, come from good families and most of them look nice too.

On the other hand we saw guys with bad temper, overly emotional, insecure and maybe even a little dumb, the most eligible one got kicked out, one has attitude problem and one is a little too old for most girls and is in the best shape physically!!

I think the show fair to girls will be more fun to watch. This show at times is painful to watch..girls have very little choice, they have to extra nice to boys and their moms.
What is the name of the Korean show, how do u watch it (utube or a channel).
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: April2007

I think the show fair to girls will be more fun to watch. This show at times is painful to watch..girls have very little choice, they have to extra nice to boys and their moms.
What is the name of the Korean show, how do u watch it (utube or a channel).

the show is called love letter. It's not a marriage show..the ultimate goal is not to get people married but simply it makes couples. 😊 I don't think the show is still on but I watch all the old episode with my favorite contestants..The contestants are usually celebrities. The girls tend to be less known than the guys.

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