Gaurav's advice

Hi guys I'm not sure if got right about gaurav giving advice to rajbir. Talk to priyanka nd get her in confidencr and let her know u focused onher only and also see others. Was he referring to ditch priyanka for other

Originally posted by: pinkdiamond

Hi guys I'm not sure if got right about gaurav giving advice to rajbir. Talk to priyanka nd get her in confidencr and let her know u focused onher only and also see others. Was he referring to ditch priyanka for other

girls. Someone pls tell me what exaclty gaurav meant. Even gaurav is double standard, her mom likes rumpa and he also likes rumpa why he after nandita now.

Rajbir seems to have decided to focus on other girls too...so Gaurav was trying to communicate Rajbeer's decision through the newsletter.....while Gaurav was communicating it in the newsletter in his own words...he asked Rajbeer whether it sounded too blatant or insensitive.... Rajbeer said he did not want to express it so insensitively and hurt her- Rajbeer said that he would do it slow, not abruptly- he would take Priyanka into confidence and then start knowing other girls..... Gaurav said that he should write the names of girls Rajbeer intends to focus on now, but Rajbeer refused to write or specify any names at thta point of time.

Finally they did not write anybody's names or any new focus...... Rajbeer made a very slight , very suttle indication in the newsletter that though he has had clear focus on Priyanka.... going along with his father's POV, he would try to know other girls too, along with Priyanka.

So gaurav was not really advising anything, apart from telling Rajbeer to specify it clearly in the newsletter the names of girls, Rajbeer intends to speak with now.

In my opinion Gaurav is being smart in keeping an option in Rumpa, while being interested in Nandita. He is not entirely wrong, as nobody is committed till now- and its not very wise to lay all your eggs in one basket and be left with nothing in the end. He is right in keeping options, but wrong in case he raises Rumpa's expectations too high and if he just dumps her in the end(as most people realise that Rumpa is just a second option in case Nandita gets flexible). He could have been more honest and upfront about his first and second priority- thats the only place he is not being fair, according to me.