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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Thanks , nice pictures ..

She is wearing magalsutra ...OMG 😲
that means she is still married to that man ...Now I also don't have any hopes for her and Ranvijay ...why was he even introduced in the show then , what is this ...
Now if she is considered married and herself she believes that then she will not even look at anyone else .


Mangulsutra or not, Ankita obviously continues to believe she is married to Naren.

That's why I have never watched any Balaji serial till the end. After a point you get so disgusted by the love story that you stop watching.

If Ankita and Naren's story gets too much for me, I will stop watching this as well. Abhi there is little hope of something better...but if even that is gone then I really don't think I will be able to bear this show any longer.

I used to love Hiten and Gauri's pairing in Kyunki so much but Ekta ruined it massively and after a point I stopped watching. Hiten's character Karan was married two woman at the same time just like Naren. He was married to Nandini but she goes into coma so he marries Tanya who comes to take care of Bhoomi, Nandini's daughter with Ansh who she was earlier married to and who had raped her. Nandini wakes up from coma. Leaps take place. I don't even know what happened to Karan and Nandini in the end. Of all the BT shows I have watched, I only know stories till a point. I have never managed to watch any of the show till the end.
Edited by bonnefille - 11 years ago
Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Thanks , nice pictures ..

She is wearing magalsutra ...OMG 😲
that means she is still married to that man ...Now I also don't have any hopes for her and Ranvijay ...why was he even introduced in the show then , what is this ...
Now if she is considered married and herself she believes that then she will not even look at anyone else .


Ankita had to wear mangalsutra, just to show that she is married and is now going to be a Mom and not a bin byahi maa! People there are kind of traditional and have old age thinking and beliefs. I think if Ankita hadn't wore the mangalsutra people would have objected;

1. Is she married or not?
2. If she is married that why she doesn't wear mangalsutra and blah blah..😆


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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Thanks , nice pictures ..

She is wearing magalsutra ...OMG 😲
that means she is still married to that man ...Now I also don't have any hopes for her and Ranvijay ...why was he even introduced in the show then , what is this ...
Now if she is considered married and herself she believes that then she will not even look at anyone else .


Hi Tanya...i watched Friday's show for the first time in a looong time. Seeing the pictures made me a bit lonesome for Anki as she is so so talented (and beautiful) at drawing us into the emotions of the character. But because of that and your comment, I just wanted to make a few comments also.

First of all unless i missed this in not being on the forum all the time, but isn't Ankita still married to Naren legally? Was there a divorce? I know that Rushali had her sign those "contract marriage" papers, but they were phoney and so (unless there really was a legal divorce) she and Naren are still married...and the Pari-Naren marriage is either illegal or a 2nd marriage.

Because Anki is so good at drawing us into her characters, I personally feel she should eventually be reunited with Naren, because she will never stop loving him. That kind of deep abiding love is pavrita even if the rishta is dysfunctional at the moment.😕 😆 I think that Naren will realize the difference between real love and infatuation at some point when he gets his memory back and make it up to her. One can forgive him as long as he corrects his mistakes, yes? 😊 Manav was awfully mean to Archu many times, yet we did want to see them reunited.

I wont' get drawn back into show again, bc of how Ekta plays with the audience. An article i read said she said "when the viewers cry then we have succeeded." No thanks.

Just a couple other notes: Where was Savita when they were giving Pari their best wishes and blessings? Did she die? And i noticed a blooper with Ankita's flashbacks...one of the loving scenes had Naren in his mustache..which he didnt have when they were together did he? Maybe i'm not aware of a lot bc i stopped watching.

Anyway, its anybody's guess as to what Ekta will do from one day to the next with both characters and storylines.. Why no fun to watch.

But Anki is very special. 😊


Edited by naava - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Hi Tanya...i watched Friday's show for the first time in a looong time. Seeing the pictures made me a bit lonesome for Anki as she is so so talented (and beautiful) at drawing us into the emotions of the character. But because of that and your comment, I just wanted to make a few comments also.
Its always a pleasure to have you around Naava.🤗

First of all unless i missed this in not being on the forum all the time, but isn't Ankita still married to Naren legally? Was there a divorce? I know that Rushali had her sign those "contract marriage" papers, but they were phoney and so (unless there really was a legal divorce) she and Naren are still married...and the Pari-Naren marriage is either illegal or a 2nd marriage.
It looks like they are still married or she thinks that he is still her pati . Naren only thinks of Pari as his wife and no one else .So I don't really know the legal situation as things work different for this show .Purvi was still legally married to Onir but she still married Arjun ...
So , we don't really know ..

Because Anki is so good at drawing us into her characters, I personally feel she should eventually be reunited with Naren, because she will never stop loving him. That kind of deep abiding love is pavrita even if the rishta is dysfunctional at the moment.😕 😆
Its totally one sided , from Ankita only so can hardly call this a rishta . What makes me give up on this relationship is that Naren did not even give Ankita the basic respect that she deserved .He treated her very bad , spread rumors about her baby , did not help her when her dad was put in jail, always talked down on her with Pari behind Ankitas back and then the last and the final blow ...at the train station , he encouraged a pregnant and broke Ankita to leave the city so he can have a good marriage and a good life ...
Honestly, what now makes me angry is that Ankita is still crying for him ..
I think that Naren will realize the difference between real love and infatuation at some point when he gets his memory back and make it up to her.
I also think so...after the 5 year leap , he will get his memory back and will go in search of Ankita and his child in Banaras ...The more he will know all she did for him, the more he will fall in love with her and realize how wrong and unfair he was to her .
Maybe somehow he will find his way to Ankitas letters ...
One can forgive him as long as he corrects his mistakes, yes? 😊
From an Ankita fan point of view , I say NO ...
I don't think I can forgive him and too much has happened He loves Pari and is married to her and he should work on this marriage and forget about Ankita and his child ..
He took way too long to appreciate and respect Ankita and her love .
But I guess from the point of view of a parent , if he starts loving his child ( probably a boy ) then Ankita and him should work out some arrangement so he too can be a part of his life .But the full custody of the child should always be with Ankita only .
Manav was awfully mean to Archu many times, yet we did want to see them reunited.
Manav was never involved with any other woman. Here Naren was always more involved with Pari , infact Ankita never meant anything to him but just a loyal slave ..

I wont' get drawn back into show again, bc of how Ekta plays with the audience. An article i read said she said "when the viewers cry then we have succeeded." No thanks.

I also read that ...it made me angry 😆..But its fun interacting with your friends here on the thread , even if the show is crappy ...So if you feel like interacting with mates then do pop in when you want ..


Just a couple other notes: Where was Savita when they were giving Pari their best wishes and blessings? Did she die?
No she is alive and kicking .I think only Shruti Kanwar will be leaving the show after the leap .
And i noticed a blooper with Ankita's flashbacks...one of the loving scenes had Naren in his mustache..which he didnt have when they were together did he? Maybe i'm not aware of a lot bc i stopped watching.

Oh the God bharai scene when he kisses her and his baby ..That was such a sweet scene but sad also .I know the moustache was there , it should not have been there because I believe that Ankita was thinking of her Naren Sir ..and not Paris Naren . I guess the actor cannot shave off the moustache or else he will have problems with his other scenes ..


Anyway, its anybody's guess as to what Ekta will do from one day to the next with both characters and storylines.. Why no fun to watch.

But Anki is very special. 😊
I would like to know two things ..
The character of Ranvijay looks interesting .I want to know what will be his contribution to the story and how important he will become in Ankitas life ..I kind of like his pairing with Ankita ...the fact that him and his family have been there for Ankita is a big thing ,,,gives him loads of brownie points ..
Also want to know where does Mansis baby fits in all this ..
Other then these two points , the rest is all kind of obvious ..
I would hate a baby donation track ...if that happens then I will definitely be losing a lot of interest in this show but I don't think it will ..donation track has always resulted in low TRPs ...


Edited by Tanyaz - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz


Hi Tanya...i watched Friday's show for the first time in a looong time. Seeing the pictures made me a bit lonesome for Anki as she is so so talented (and beautiful) at drawing us into the emotions of the character. But because of that and your comment, I just wanted to make a few comments also.
Its always a pleasure to have you around Naava.🤗

Thanks Tanya ! Hugs back !🤗

First of all unless i missed this in not being on the forum all the time, but isn't Ankita still married to Naren legally? Was there a divorce? I know that Rushali had her sign those "contract marriage" papers, but they were phoney and so (unless there really was a legal divorce) she and Naren are still married...and the Pari-Naren marriage is either illegal or a 2nd marriage.
It looks like they are still married or she thinks that he is still her pati . Naren only thinks of Pari as his wife and no one else .So I don't really know the legal situation as things work different for this show .Purvi was still legally married to Onir but she still married Arjun ...
So , we don't really know ..

Oh yah, i forgot for a minute...anything is possible on PR.😆


Because Anki is so good at drawing us into
her characters, I personally feel she should eventually be reunited with Naren, because she will never stop loving him. That kind of deep abiding love is pavrita even if the rishta is dysfunctional at the moment.😕 😆
Its totally one sided , from Ankita only so can hardly call this a rishta . What makes me give up on this relationship is that Naren did not even give Ankita the basic respect that she deserved .He treated her very bad , spread rumors about her baby , did not help her when her dad was put in jail, always talked down on her with Pari behind Ankitas back and then the last and the final blow ...at the train station , he encouraged a pregnant and broke Ankita to leave the city so he can have a good marriage and a good life ...
Honestly, what now makes me angry is that Ankita is still crying for him .

What i meant was that her love was pure, not the relationship, at the moment anyway. You are absolutely right, it is only one sided right now...but looking at how Naren is responding to his returning memory it seems that he is drawn to the memories in a longing way...I think when he awakens he will know that he truly loves Ankita. He was very mean to her, although i didnt watch any of it, so probably dont have the anger about it...i am definitely detached. 😆 😆
I think that Naren will realize the difference between real love and infatuation at some point when he gets his memory back and make it up to her.
I also think so...after the 5 year leap , he will get his memory back and will go in search of Ankita and his child in Banaras ...The more he will know all she did for him, the more he will fall in love with her and realize how wrong and unfair he was to her .
Maybe somehow he will find his way to Ankitas letters ...

agree
One can forgive him as long as he corrects his mistakes, yes? 😊
From an Ankita fan point of view , I say NO ...
I don't think I can forgive him and too much has happened He loves Pari and is married to her and he should work on this marriage and forget about Ankita and his child ..
He took way too long to appreciate and respect Ankita and her love .

I can appreciate that. Maybe Pari will leave him though...Or God forbid, they will turn her into another Varsha...looks like it might be heading that way? Ugh.
But I guess from the point of view of a parent , if he starts loving his child ( probably a boy ) then Ankita and him should work out some arrangement so he too can be a part of his life .But the full custody of the child should always be with Ankita only .
Manav was awfully mean to Archu many times, yet we did want to see them reunited.
Manav was never involved with any other woman. Here Naren was always more involved with Pari , infact Ankita never meant anything to him but just a loyal slave ..

True, Manav never loved any other woman. Though he did try to marry another woman while he was married to Archana.

I wont' get drawn back into show again, bc of how Ekta plays with the audience. An article i read said she said "when the viewers cry then we have succeeded." No thanks.

I also read that ...it made me angry 😆..But its fun interacting with your friends here on the thread , even if the show is crappy ...So if you feel like interacting with mates then do pop in when you want ..

I probably will from time to time..😃



Just a couple other notes: Where was Savita when they were giving Pari their best wishes and blessings? Did she die?
No she is alive and kicking .I think only Shruti Kanwar will be leaving the show after the leap .
And i noticed a blooper with Ankita's flashbacks...one of the loving scenes had Naren in his mustache..which he didnt have when they were together did he? Maybe i'm not aware of a lot bc i stopped watching.

Oh the God bharai scene when he kisses her and his baby ..That was such a sweet scene but sad also .I know the moustache was there , it should not have been there because I believe that Ankita was thinking of her Naren Sir ..and not Paris Naren . I guess the actor cannot shave off the moustache or else he will have problems with his other scenes ..


Anyway, its anybody's guess as to what Ekta will do from one day to the next with both characters and storylines.. Why no fun to watch.

But Anki is very special. 😊
I would like to know two things ..
The character of Ranvijay looks interesting .I want to know what will be his contribution to the story and how important he will become in Ankitas life ..I kind of like his pairing with Ankita ...the fact that him and his family have been there for Ankita is a big thing ,,,gives him loads of brownie points ..
Also want to know where does Mansis baby fits in all this ..
Other then these two points , the rest is all kind of obvious ..
I would hate a baby donation track ...if that happens then I will definitely be losing a lot of interest in this show but I don't think it will ..donation track has always resulted in low TRPs ...

Time will tell. Nice to chat Tanya. Take care.


Edited by naava - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: naava



Because Anki is so good at drawing us into her characters, I personally feel she should eventually be reunited with Naren, because she will never stop loving him. That kind of deep abiding love is pavrita even if the rishta is dysfunctional at the moment.😕 😆 I think that Naren will realize the difference between real love and infatuation at some point when he gets his memory back and make it up to her. One can forgive him as long as he corrects his mistakes, yes? 😊 Manav was awfully mean to Archu many times, yet we did want to see them reunited.


I hope you do not mind me replying to a post directed to Tanya di but I just couldn't resist. 😳😛

I personally feel there is no comparison between ArMan and AnKen.

Manav might have intended to marry Shravani but it was a responsibility that he had to fulfill. He was never in love with her and had made his intentions quite clear to even Shravani. He had promised to marry Shravani at a time when Archana had gone out of his life and her family had been the cause for his brother's death. He couldn't have just turned around on his promise because a child was involved. At every step, Archana was well aware about Manav's reasons and supported him. They both sacrificed their love to ensure happiness to another person. It was foolish but selfless.

@bold: It were the circumstances which were mean to both Archana and Manav. They never intentionally hurt each other. If Archana had suffered, so had Manav. He lost his brother, his sister was sexually assaulted, he was humiliated a million times, suffered financial loss, had to go to jail innumerable times...and yet it was only Archana whom he loved.

Even at a time when he blamed Archana's family for his brother's death, he himself never humiliated her to the extent that she loses her self respect. He could never think the worst of his Archana. Archana deserved to get back her Manav because he was worthy of it.

In comparison, Naren used to gossip about Ankita having an affair with Shashank, was willing to believe that she was carrying the child of her sister's husband, was quick as a hare to dismiss that he could have even touched Ankita as if she was an untouchable, used to get disgusted by her presence in his house, asked her to go and die because she was proving to be thorn in his love life with Pari, was the happiest when she decided to leave in the middle of the night with a two month baby in her womb.

His every act was selfish and he showed the traits of an inhuman man. Naren's brother raped Ankita's sister and his mother humiliated every member of her family and yet Ankita sacrificed everything for him. In turn he himself suffered nothing. Naren couldn't have got a better deal!

So what if Ankita "LOVES" Naren? So should a woman suffer physical abuse every day because she LOVES her husband? Should a woman be stripped of her dignity because she LOVES her husband? Accept a man back even if he beds a hundred women because she LOVES him?

Naren has enjoyed the fruits of marriage with both Ankita and Pari. What an advantage for a man? He gets to be mollycoddled by the two women in turns, has sexual pleasure with both of them, impregnates the two...and what not! Ek ke saath doosri behen free!

Teenage boys go through infatuation not grown up men. If Naren gets to enjoy his marriage with Pari, then he should go through the ugly phase as well. Live with it! Naren was not in his full consciousness when he married Ankita, but his decision to marry Pari was his and in full sanity. He turned mad in love with Pari and regained his sanity by just a glance of her...just because his marriage and relationship with her did not last is no reason for him to get back with Ankita. Naren will seem even worse if he leaves Pari after making such a show of his undying love for her.

No two men can be as as different as Manav and Naren are. Naren might live a thousand lives but can never become the man that Manav was.

Naren can't even match up to a man like Ranvijay who could not even hear ill things being spoken about a woman who was a stranger to him. He cared about her safety and asked her to stay under his roof even though he had no knowledge about her character. He without knowing Ankita thought much better of her than Naren who witnessed so many examples of her goodness. Ankita may go back to Naren...but what a shame it will be!

Edited by bonnefille - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: bonnefille


I hope you do not mind me replying to a post directed to Tanya di but I just couldn't resist. 😳😛

I personally feel there is no comparison between ArMan and AnKen.

Manav might have intended to marry Shravani but it was a responsibility that he had to fulfill. He was never in love with her and had made his intentions quite clear to even Shravani. He had promised to marry Shravani at a time when Archana had gone out of his life and her family had been the cause for his brother's death. He couldn't have just turned around on his promise because a child was involved. At every step, Archana was well aware about Manav's reasons and supported him. They both sacrificed their love to ensure happiness to another person. It was foolish but selfless.

@bold: It were the circumstances which were mean to both Archana and Manav. They never intentionally hurt each other. If Archana had suffered, so had Manav. He lost his brother, his sister was sexually assaulted, he was humiliated a million times, suffered financial loss, had to go to jail innumerable times...and yet it was only Archana whom he loved.

Even at a time when he blamed Archana's family for his brother's death, he himself never humiliated her to the extent that she loses her self respect. He could never think the worst of his Archana. Archana deserved to get back her Manav because he was worthy of it.

In comparison, Naren used to gossip about Ankita having an affair with Shashank, was willing to believe that she was carrying the child of her sister's husband, was quick as a hare to dismiss that he could have even touched Ankita as if she was an untouchable, used to get disgusted by her presence in his house, asked her to go and die because she was proving to be thorn in his love life with Pari, was the happiest when she decided to leave in the middle of the night with a two month baby in her womb.

His every act was selfish and he showed the traits of an inhuman man. Naren's brother raped Ankita's sister and his mother humiliated every member of her family and yet Ankita sacrificed everything for him. In turn he himself suffered nothing. Naren couldn't have got a better deal!

So what if Ankita "LOVES" Naren? So should a woman suffer physical abuse every day because she LOVES her husband? Should a woman be stripped of her dignity because she LOVES her husband? Accept a man back even if he beds a hundred women because she LOVES him?

Naren has enjoyed the fruits of marriage with both Ankita and Pari. What an advantage for a man? He gets to be mollycoddled by the two women in turns, has sexual pleasure with both of them, impregnates the two...and what not! Ek ke saath doosri behen free!

Teenage boys go through infatuation not grown up men. If Naren gets to enjoy his marriage with Pari, then he should go through the ugly phase as well. Live with it! Naren was not in his full consciousness when he married Ankita, but his decision to marry Pari was his and in full sanity. He turned mad in love with Pari and regained his sanity by just a glance of her...just because his marriage and relationship with her did not last is no reason for him to get back with Ankita. Naren will seem even worse if he leaves Pari after making such a show of his undying love for her.

No two men can be as as different as Manav and Naren are. Naren might live a thousand lives but can never become the man that Manav was.

Naren can't even match up to a man like Ranvijay who could not even hear ill things being spoken about a woman who was a stranger to him. He cared about her safety and asked her to stay under his roof even though he had no knowledge about her character. He without knowing Ankita thought much better of her than Naren despite witnessing so many examples of her goodness. Ankita may go back to Naren...but what a shame it will be!


Oh i don't care if you comment, it's a public forum and we are all free to say whatever we want. I'm just not interested in the show enough to get into long discussions though.

The two things i would say to your post, is that Manav was physically abusive to Archu, pushed her against the wall and hit her, and i just don't go for that. He screamed many abusive things to her when he returned from Canada. Not good. Still i wanted them together as i felt he would really be remorseful.
As to Shravani, he was still married to Archana and wanted to divorce her to marry Shravani. Of course he wasn't in love with Sh. and the whole thing was ridiculous but i only brought it up as a kind of funny point ...kind of an aside. hence, my laughing icon.

I wasn't really comparing Arman with Anken, just on that point of forgiveness for the guy for his bad behavior. I happen to think however, that Ankita and Naren should eventually get back together, but hated to see Pari made to be negative for that purpose.








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Posted: 11 years ago
har cheez ke liye blame Anki
Expensive Actress|Actress|Pavitra Rishta|Maharashtrian|Jewellery
Pavitra Rishta: Expensive flowers for Ankita Lokhande's godh-bharai
Ankita Lokhande
Ankita Lokhande is an expensive actress. No, we are not talking about her acting fee; it seems even a 10-second appearance by her can burn a hole in the producer's pocket.

Apparently, the actress, who shot a montage for her on-screen godh-bharai in PavitraRishta, had to be decorated with flowers, as perMaharashtrian rituals. So, the production house bought flowers worth '500. However, it seems she didn't like their 'quality' and ordered flowers worth '10000. Says a source associated with the show, "Ankita wanted exquisite flowers for herjewellery. We were shocked to learn the bill amount."
READ: Pavitra Rishta to take another leap; Ankita Lokhande unhappy again?

Despite repeated attempts, Ankita couldn't be contacted for comments.
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Posted: 11 years ago
Right now I don't feel like forgiving Naren's character for anything , I am still very angry that he let a pregnant Ankita leave the city at night .He did not even tell her family about the city she went
But if later he is shown to be feeling very bad about the way he behaved then the most I think should be allowed to him is that he should have visitation rights to his child .

Even though he has been terribly insensitive ... but the fact is that he is the biological father of the child
So that way OK, he should be allowed to be a part of his child's life
As for Ankita , no ...he has lost all rights there ..

Edited by Tanyaz - 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: crazyRajputfan

har cheez ke liye blame Anki

Expensive Actress|Actress|Pavitra Rishta|Maharashtrian|Jewellery
Pavitra Rishta: Expensive flowers for Ankita Lokhande's godh-bharai
Ankita Lokhande
Ankita Lokhande is an expensive actress. No, we are not talking about her acting fee; it seems even a 10-second appearance by her can burn a hole in the producer's pocket.

Apparently, the actress, who shot a montage for her on-screen godh-bharai in PavitraRishta, had to be decorated with flowers, as perMaharashtrian rituals. So, the production house bought flowers worth '500. However, it seems she didn't like their 'quality' and ordered flowers worth '10000. Says a source associated with the show, "Ankita wanted exquisite flowers for herjewellery. We were shocked to learn the bill amount."
READ: Pavitra Rishta to take another leap; Ankita Lokhande unhappy again?

Despite repeated attempts, Ankita couldn't be contacted for comments.



Same journolist , Neha Meheshawari ...😆

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