Pursuit Of Happiness , Ankita's Journey ....1:Mod note pg7 - Page 11

Ankita just doesnt care what these guys talk now ..

I would love to see Ankita moving on, creating a new life etc. The old Ankita was an independent, self-respecting, determined girl, and the same qualities can help her now. But in soaps like Pavitra Rishta, a woman protagonist generally loses her self-respect and independence as soon as she marries. After that she become weepy, self-sacrificing and downright masochistic. She can go to unbearable lengths to keep her husband and family happy, but can never take a single step for her own well-being as an individual. She might show a lot of grit in raising her child as a single mother, but will never think of remarrying or giving love a second chance. Meanwhile the man she loves can romance a dozen other women or remarry several times if he wants. Witness Archana, Purvi and now Ankita. If the old trend is any indicator, Ankita will go on pining for her 'Naren Sir' till doomsday.

^ I agree to everything said except Manav never romanced any woman other than Archana or gave even a thought of loving someone else. He too compromised his self respect a million times for Archana's family. I believe Archana and Manav's relationship, even though it too had its share of faults, is the only Pavitra Rishta of this show. The emotional support that Ankita and Ranvijay can provide each other has the potential to make their relationship equally pure and beautiful.

Originally posted by: neelabha

. She can go to unbearable lengths to keep her husband and family happy, but can never take a single step for her own well-being as an individual. She might show a lot of grit in raising her child as a single mother, but will never think of remarrying or giving love a second chance. Meanwhile the man she loves can romance a dozen other women or remarry several times if he wants.

As audience we have to keep writing and give idea to the writing team that we DO NOT want to see Ankita go back to the man who dumped her , did nothing for her and did not even give her respect ..

Originally posted by: bonnefille

^ I agree to everything said except Manav never romanced any woman other than Archana or gave even a thought of loving someone else. He too compromised his self respect a million times for Archana's family. I believe Archana and Manav's relationship, even though it too had its share of faults, is the only Pavitra Rishta of this show. The emotional support that Ankita and Ranvijay can prvide each other has the potential to make their relationship equally pure and beautiful.

Yes. You are right about Manav's fidelity and loyalty. Archana and Manav were well-matched in their values, sensibilities and commitment. But other lead pairs have not matched these standards. Purvi never thought of moving on with a gem of a guy like Onir even though Arjun married and had a child with Ovi. I fear a similar fate for Ankita. There is a masochistic streak in her which also showed in Purvi.
In a way this is also unfair to the women who marry the men left by these all-sacrificing heroines. Ovi suffered a lot and so will Pari when the truth is revealed. What a pity about Pari! Her childhood was ruined by the complicated lives of her parents and her youth is about to get marred by the complications between her husband and his first wife. Neither will the men remain totally unaffected by these confused relationships. Arjun was lonely most of his life inspite of trying to do his best for both the women he married. Naren has lost everybody's sympathy just now but when he discovers the truth he, too, will be torn between different loyalties, especially if he has a child with Pari by then. And will Pari repeat Ovi's act by leaving Naren so that he can return to Ankita?
At least Archana and Manav never had doubts about where their hearts belonged, even if the circumztances separated them again and again. But the younger generations seem to be utterly lost and don't learn anything from the lives of their elders.

is pic ne manav archana ki yaad dila di ...

Ranvijay's family is nice ...Both mother and father are good people .Even Kavita and her husband love Vaishnu a lot and they want to see her happy ..

aww Vaishnavi called Ankita choti ma... loved Ankita and Vaishnavi's bonding... Ranvijay's family is so nice.. much much better than Karmarkars

In a way it is good that Ankita told them that she is married... atleast no one will call her characterless when ppl will find out that she is pregnant... i hope Ankita stop crying for Naren now...

Originally posted by: majoni03

aww Vaishnavi called Ankita choti ma... loved Ankita and Vaishnavi's bonding... Ranvijay's family is so nice.. much much better than Karmarkars

In a way it is good that Ankita told them that she is married... atleast no one will call her characterless when ppl will find out that she is pregnant... i hope Ankita stop crying for Naren now...