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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ankita life wasn't the only one being affected in the Ranaq-Mansi case. Rushali's life was effected thus her changed behavior towards Ankita. Mansi's life was affected as well as the rest of the karamarker family members' lives. Not to mention, the lives of the women who Ranaq sexually abused prior to the rape of Mansi and the possible future victims of Ranaq were affected also.

And in this case - the biggest life being affected is the small one growing inside Ankita which angers me. Naren made that baby with love - it doesn't matter if he thought it was Ankita or Ahana. That baby was made with love and desereves to know about his father.

Naren could commit sucide without his Ahana but that's because he needs medical help. He needs therapy and medications - not lies. He's a patient of mental illness. Ankita didn't have to lie to him & everyone to make herself look bad. And what will be the consequences of her lies? We can only wait and watch.

Leave and go where? Leave Naren and Pari alone. This was her wish to reunite them for the sake of Naren's happiness. Yet she chooses to work for him and then cries and get sad when she sees him with Pari. If that isn't pathetic then I don't know what is. How is one to feel pity for her? She's making her own bed and then crying when she feels the thorns. I'm pretty sure there are numerous places she can work if she's sooo qualified as Naren and everyone states.

I am a fan of Ankita Lokhande. I wouldn't be watching PVR if I wasn't. However - I'm disappointed with the characterization of Ankita Deshmukh. I expect insecurity etc from Pari - she's emotionally damaged from so many things in her life. She been shown as vulnerable. However, Ankita was always portrayed as a strong female... but now she's just lost it.

And calling her pathetic is an opinion of viewers due to her actions or the way CVs are writing this character right now. Some call it foolish, some call it pathetic. Her character is on the wrong path regardless of what you call it.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: musica10

I don't find Ankita pathetic. Her actions are irrational, but she is probably not thinking clearly.

Ankita has too many problems in her life and no one to really advise her. She has no parent, no grandparent, no one she can share her sorrows with. She is close to Mansi, but knows that Mansi has her own set of problems to deal with. I don't support what Ankita is doing, but I think she is far from pathetic. She is just unfortunate to have met the Karmakars.
Naren is the most pathetic character ever. Inspite of knowing that Pari is insecure, he keeps throwing Ankita in her face and involving Ankita in his wedding preparations. He doesn't seem to be capable of realizing that such an action can hurt both women.




I agree 100% musica10, Ankita is definitely not pathetic for sure, maybe I had been criticizing her too harshly in the thread. She does have a lot of problems that she's having to face right now, and she really doesnt have anyone in her family either to tell this to. Mansi has problems of her own, Soham keeps coming and going. She does not have any bad intentions for sure, she always wants to keep everyone happy but can be very foolish sometimes(not bad) and this is why she wants Naren and Pari together and its natural for her to feel sad that shes away from Naren. Naren is not innocent either, and he has to decide who he wants to be with because he is unknowingly harming both Ankita and Pari, if he really wants to be with Pari he shud not be throwing Ankita in her face constantly. Because when Pari was praising Ankita Naren didnt like it and he badly wanted to be with Pari but now that Pari dislikes Ankita he keeps shoving Ankita in her face and is kind of being indifferent to Pari.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#43
All people pointing fingers at Ankita... have none of you ever falling in love?! :O do you not know what it is like BEING in love, and SEEING your love in front of you and knowing you cannot be near them?!
No matter HOW strong a character you are or were.. when it come to love, it makes us alll melt and be vulnerable! its just human nature.

think HUMAN. please, for once.. a persona can only stay strong for so long.. till they have to fend for themselves. for that you need support. True her siblings are there for her, but that love is diff. and Mansi is pregnant and she has sooo much going on around her that she is lacking proper emotional support herself.

OBVIOUSLY she will break down like this. love is such a thing! one can't control one self. it just makes you weak. by that i dont mean, you become a 'weak person' just that.. emotions get the better of you. you dont realize some of the things u are doing or you do.. it can also go against who you are.. but that doesn't mean, you have changed.. its just that.. we all react to circumstances differently.. and when it comes to love its a whole diff. ball game!

Love can make you strong when you have the support of love and your love, you can fight ALL odds.. and in such times, when it came to Mansi fighting her case. t hen she had Naren with her.. her love WITH her! BY her! it was diff. she was strong..

Now, her whole world, her whole strength, which was all Naren.. is now is refusing to accept her.. so IMAGINE! she got so used to him being around and knowing the fact that her love will always be with her, its what he always made her believe...and have proved it many a times! how can she not depend on that?

but now she realizes, she has to step aside.. she is trying to put herself back together.. its obvious she is going to break apart.. and you just dont SNAP back to normal.. right after.. She isn't a machine! she is HUMAN for crying out loud!!!! it takes TIME.. and she is moving towards it..

True she can do all that she can to fully move on.. but come on.. she has a choice to do what wld make her happy find solace in. She decided to keep the symbol of her only love with Naren.. her baby. and rests is just.. she is doing things to keep everything connected. let her be for now.. lets see how the story unfolds. I'm with her.. 100%!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: rouble_lover

All people pointing fingers at Ankita... have none of you ever falling in love?! :O do you not know what it is like BEING in love, and SEEING your love in front of you and knowing you cannot be near them?!

No matter HOW strong a character you are or were.. when it come to love, it makes us alll melt and be vulnerable! its just human nature.

think HUMAN. please, for once.. a persona can only stay strong for so long.. till they have to fend for themselves. for that you need support. True her siblings are there for her, but that love is diff. and Mansi is pregnant and she has sooo much going on around her that she is lacking proper emotional support herself.

OBVIOUSLY she will break down like this. love is such a thing! one can't control one self. it just makes you weak. by that i dont mean, you become a 'weak person' just that.. emotions get the better of you. you dont realize some of the things u are doing or you do.. it can also go against who you are.. but that doesn't mean, you have changed.. its just that.. we all react to circumstances differently.. and when it comes to love its a whole diff. ball game!

Love can make you strong when you have the support of love and your love, you can fight ALL odds.. and in such times, when it came to Mansi fighting her case. t hen she had Naren with her.. her love WITH her! BY her! it was diff. she was strong..

Now, her whole world, her whole strength, which was all Naren.. is now is refusing to accept her.. so IMAGINE! she got so used to him being around and knowing the fact that her love will always be with her, its what he always made her believe...and have proved it many a times! how can she not depend on that?

but now she realizes, she has to step aside.. she is trying to put herself back together.. its obvious she is going to break apart.. and you just dont SNAP back to normal.. right after.. She isn't a machine! she is HUMAN for crying out loud!!!! it takes TIME.. and she is moving towards it..

True she can do all that she can to fully move on.. but come on.. she has a choice to do what wld make her happy find solace in. She decided to keep the symbol of her only love with Naren.. her baby. and rests is just.. she is doing things to keep everything connected. let her be for now.. lets see how the story unfolds. I'm with her.. 100%!!

what a beautiful post you have written ...👏👏👏
I loved the way you have so sensitively analyzed the situation in which Ankita is right now.
Ankita's confidence has been crushed , she is totally shattered from inside. Rushali and Naren did this to her and also to some extent Pari ( lately ) but mainly Naren ..
The way he rudely rejected her , hated her , told her to die and romanced another girl in front of her so much , chased someone else...she saw all that and something just died inside her ..
And he sad part is that she cannot even share it with someone else ...
Though I feel so bad for her , I still feel angry at her that she is still not keeping her baby her priority ,I hope she does that soon .I also do not like her being in love with a man who does nothing but gives her pain , knowingly or unknowingly ...
It frustrates me that she is hiding the name of the father so much because she does not wants the baby's existence to spoil Naren and Pari's party ... these rich snobs are having a rocking time at her expense and that is so unfair ..
Her biggest problem is saying No to Naren ...she spoils him like a kid , giving him everything that he wants ...
Just hope she leaves the city soon
I am also with her 100 % ..true she is making mistakes but she is not hurting anyone ..Only herself.
Ankita is my most favorite character and hopefully she will find her bearings soon , leave the city and emerge later as a strong confident single mother
Edited by Tanyaz - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: bhallarox



I agree 100% musica10, Ankita is definitely not pathetic for sure, maybe I had been criticizing her too harshly in the thread. She does have a lot of problems that she's having to face right now, and she really doesnt have anyone in her family either to tell this to. Mansi has problems of her own, Soham keeps coming and going. She does not have any bad intentions for sure, she always wants to keep everyone happy but can be very foolish sometimes(not bad) and this is why she wants Naren and Pari together and its natural for her to feel sad that shes away from Naren. Naren is not innocent either, and he has to decide who he wants to be with because he is unknowingly harming both Ankita and Pari, if he really wants to be with Pari he shud not be throwing Ankita in her face constantly. Because when Pari was praising Ankita Naren didnt like it and he badly wanted to be with Pari but now that Pari dislikes Ankita he keeps shoving Ankita in her face and is kind of being indifferent to Pari.


I AGREE!! and sorry to say, whether he was 'mental' before or not.. but he went alll out in trying to make her feel loved and special.. and with Pari, he's just 'whatever.. dude' that kinda attitude, now that he has her. I mean, he isn't as expressive, as he used to be. and completely agree with you! he is being unfair. he can't be keeping both under the same roof like that! and he shld be sensitive about PDA in front of Ankita.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

what a beautiful post you have written ...👏👏👏
I loved the way you have so sensitively analyzed the situation in which Ankita is right now.
Ankita's confidence has been crushed , she is totally shattered from inside. Rushali and Naren did this to her and also to some extent Pari ( lately ) but mainly Naren ..
The way he rudely rejected her , hated her , told her to die and romanced another girl in front of her so much , chased someone else...she saw all that and something just died inside her ..
And he sad part is that she cannot even share it with someone else ...
Though I feel so bad for her , I still feel angry at her that she is still not keeping her baby her priority ,I hope she does that soon .I also do not like her being in love with a man who does nothing but gives her pain , knowingly or unknowingly ...
It frustrates me that she is hiding the name of the father so much because she does not wants the baby's existence to spoil Naren and Pari's party ... these rich snobs are having a rocking time at her expense and that is so unfair ..
Her biggest problem is saying No to Naren ...she spoils him like a kid , giving him everything that he wants ...
Just hope she leaves the city soon
I am also with her 100 % ..true she is making mistakes but she is not hurting anyone ..Only herself.
Ankita is my most favorite character and hopefully she will find her bearings soon , leave the city and emerge later as a strong confident single mother


I agree!! hope she finds the strength, back again.. within her :) what a funny emotion, love is na? :) the way the saying goes, love is strong enough to even melt a rock.. so truee!! there is always two sides to a coin, same as in life, and also in love.. the power of love, with it, you are unstoppable, undefeatable, without it, you are back to being 'human' the regular emotions, that we are known to carry :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes, love is what will give her strength .In those 7 months they were together , Naren gave her so much love .That love will be there for her when everyone else will leave her ( including this current Naren who is the father of the baby but nothing like Ankita's Naren Sir ) ...
Now she is going to leave only taking Naren's ( her Naren ...the one who loved her ) love and his baby with her and leaving everything and everyone behind ...
I just want to see that now ...Nothing else interests me in this show ...
Edited by Tanyaz - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Yes, love is what will give her strength .In those 7 months they were together , Naren gave her so luch love .That love will be there for her when everyone else will leave her ( including this current Naren who is the father of the baby but nothing like Ankita's Naren Sir ) ...

I just want to see that now ...Nothing else interests me in this show ...


Yes!! I dunno why, I just kinda liked the other Naren better. He was soo much more sweeter and respectful! So genuine too! towards Ankita. I mean, compare that with his current 'love' now with Pari. He dont even seem to give her the same kind of attention and love the way he loved Ankita. What he shared with Ankita was deep in sacred, in my point of view. he was always there for her, her family and everything that connected with her. his 'ahana' was his world, aka Ankita.

now that the 'real' ahana is back.. well, he just seems like a regular aashique u know.. regular lover. he still loves her the same, but i dunno. something isn't really matching up.. u know? 🤔

And same here.. I'm watching this show, only for Ankita and Naren story.. thats all, thats the only thing that is interesting me too!

Maybe, and hoping he'd remember all those times spent with Ankita, soon.. maybe that way he might be able to give his previous character and also Ankita and the times he spent with her, the same kind of respect? Hoping!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Oh please don't ever compare that old Naren with this pathetic new one ...🤢
I miss the old one ..Since he left the show , this show has lost it's sparkle , it has become empty and boring ...
I can't tell you how much I hate this new guy ...Only one word describes him ,'SELFISH' ..
Even when he talks nice to Ankita he only does it to get his work done ...other than that he has done nothing for her ...He has not even helped her monetarily , nothing at all and makes fun of her with his girl friend behind her back ...I wish him the lousiest life ever ...
His love life with Pari does not interests me ...whenever there is a Naren Pari scene , the scene is more focused on Ankita's pain than their joy of being with each other ...
No please ...don't say Ankita will be back with him ...No way , not at all..
I hope a new hero comes for Ankita ...I have my fingers crossed ...Someone who is a good person and loves only Ankita .
Edited by Tanyaz - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Oh please don't ever compare that old Naren with this pathetic new one ...🤢

I miss the old one ..Since he left the show , this show has lost it's sparkle , it has become empty and boring ...
I can't tell you how much I hate this new guy ...Only one word describes him ,'SELFISH' ..
Even when he talks nice to Ankita he only does it to get his work done ...other than that he has done nothing for her ...He has not even helped her monetarily , nothing at all and makes fun of her with his girl friend behind her back ...I wish him the lousiest life ever ...
No please ...don't say she will be back with him ...No way , not at all..
I hope a new hero comes for Ankita ...I have my fingers crossed ...Someone who is a good person and loves only Ankita .


Awhh.. I like your point of view. Truly, I didnt think of it like that! Coming to think of it.. the current Naren just seems like a spoilt rich kid, na? LOL. Naren and Pari.. perfect for each other, in that case!

I was still hoping for the old Naren to return.. old as in the one that was with Ankita. Their story seems soo cute, sweet and devoted! sigh.

Yes, true, if there are no chances of that Naren coming back.. then I too, would rather have a new and better guy for Ankita, whom she deserves to be with! Sigh.. life.. :)

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