how can ovi have child with arjun - Page 4

Originally posted by: pallavi25

If a Wife sees her husband with his EX-wife and their seemingly newborn baby after several months of her marriage, what is she supposed to think? When she knows the husband had been separated from his ex wife for several months before her wedding with him!

Besides Arjun lied to her abt his whereabouts so what was she supposed to think again?

Originally posted by: john909

so according to you, purvi is justified in what she did? did purvi bother to ask arjun his side of story? did she bother to think that if arjun wanted to be with ovi, why they got separated? did she bother at all to use her brains in this matter? typical archana's family. first they jump to conclusions and make the second person suffer without bothering to find out truth and within that time span they are absorbed in self pity. purvi has gone one step ahead. she filled pari's mind wid all the nonsense about arjun who is pari's father which is wrong in so many ways. ovi arjun married happened coz of purvi and purvi only. purvi made a mess. moreover the things arjun did to prove his love are proof enough that he would never cheat on her atleast not in this life time. there is a thing called trust which purvi lacked. whenever something like this happens, it is very important to talk instead of jumping to conclusions. anyways in this case scenario, arjun is not at all wrong and he is not at fault at all. moreover i m pretty sure that he must have tried to call or something but purvi must have emotionally blackmailed him somehow. why should arjun only make efforts? if u r expecting arjun to crazy calling purvi then why cant you expect same wid purvi? so far she has made zero efforts to sort out the problem.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Sex, sex, sex...everytime its not abt sex! 😆

Its abt marital trust and betrayal! In BOTH cases!

Ovi knew ArVi were engaged before she snatched him from Purvi on their wedding day...so why did she get shocked that they made love and had a baby?

And Purvi wasnt desperate to consummate with Onir...she half heartedly suggested to Onir who laughed it off because he knew she didnt want it but was just trying to compromise in their marriage.

Again the mention of legitimate and illegitimate! 🤢 Its not abt legitimacy of the babies!

We are talking abt Arjun's possible deception and cheating as suspected by Purvi!

Ovi's baby Pia is premature and all premies look smaller than normal fullterm babies.

Its not absurd for Purvi to think Pia was conceived AFTER Arjun Ovi's divorce, when Arjun was romancing her and desperately trying to convince her to marry him for Pari's sake!

So Ovi's betrayal is justified because shes Princess Ovi...But Purvi has no right to feel cheated by her husband because shes a poor Orphan girl? 😉

Originally posted by: naava

Purvi refused to consummate with Onir and regarded their relationship as only friendship. Not knowing that she would ever be with Arjun again, she still didn't want to go ahead with Onir because she was also only a one man woman. It was only in the end that she felt perhaps she was being unfair to Onir and if they were going to be married she thought it would be the right thing to do, even if she didn't want to.

But the real point is that no one would end a marriage over this event. (Arjun/Purvi marriage) Purvi would not just leave for 20 years without finding out more, Arjun wouldn't have let it go when he was innocent and didn't love Ovi. As Pallavi said, he would have gone around the world to Purvi to try to talk about it. DK would have asked and told Purvi ..etc. Purvi and Arjun are very much in love, and no one, no couple would do what the writers have written.

There is absolutely no point in railing against Purvi, or arguing any of this. It is too over the top phony to waste time on. It is a complete and total insult to the viewers to expect us to believe something such as this has taken place. Even make believe stories have some credibility, this is not worth arguing about, imo.

If the writers value anything, they will come up with a different more plausible explanation...although there should never have been a separation in the first place. It was unnecessary for the story, it wasn't needed for the leap...They could just do a leap, there didn't have to be a REASON. Why would their separation be a reason for a leap?? Sohams story would have been enough, and they have messed that up as well. 🤢

Originally posted by: ashfaque2012

Very Good Post Naava. I all time like your post. Because U try to post all time logical way not blindly. ARVI has sometime make mistake. After all they are human & also good minded people. That true. But the way ARVI get abuse language & blame every point this is totally nonsense. Again I say the way CV forced ARVI separation is totally nonsense.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

So can u tell me why Arjun followed Ovi to Canada and begged her to return? Then why didnt he do the same for Purvi in the last 20 yrs?

He had wronged Purvi, theres no doubt abt that! He lied to her, he didnt come clean abt Ovi and Pia so she assumed the worst.

When hes in the wrong, he should make every effort to convince her that Pia is not a result of his cheating. So why didnt he try to do that? If he can make so much effort to bring back Ovi, then why not a single effort to bring back Purvi? Or why not a single effort to keep contact with his own daughter?

When a husband is in the wrong, when his wife thinks he betrayed her, doesnt he go after her as many times as it takes to convince her? Does he wait 20 yrs to make a phone call, that too for telling her abt Archu's humshakal? 😆

Originally posted by: john909

ok first of all regardless of his own issues wid ovi, she was the mother of his child. its not like he wanted to get back together wid her. even in real life if there is a child involved between separated couples they tend to stay attached wid each other for the rest of their life even if they move on wid a different person or get remaried to a different person. so far arjun going after purvi is concerned, i am still waiting for the full backstory but the way it looks arjun never stopped loving her till this day even after what purvi did to him. so far not telling purvi is concerned, there is a time and certain way this type of things are told. is this a thing to told on a phone or by text? after all this time and so much that happened between arvi, purvi should have given him atleast the benefit of doubt and hear his side of story. lets say she didnt believe arjun, why not ovi? they were on good terms.

here arjun in not in the wrong. so i dont expect arjun to spend the rest of his life running between india and canada to convince purvi. why are u expecting arjun to run after her? she is his wife too and she is the one who misunderstood so all she needed to do is use her brains and find out the truth. did she ever try to do that? looking at him now i am pretty sure he tried to talk to purvi. there is a certain amt of trust between every couple and arjun always trusted purvi but this time it was purvi's trust for arjun that was being tested and she failed in that miserably ruining pari and arjun's life. what kind of mother fills her own daughter's mind wid hate for her own father?