What should a girl do?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Really liked this and thought to share it here!


THE UGLY JUDGEMENT OF SOCIETY:

Girl gets pregnant before 25---people say "She's too young to have a baby"
Girl gets pregnant after 30---"She's too old"
Girl considers abortion--"She's a murderer!"
Girl considers adoption--"Can't believe she's just going to give her baby away, how could she do that?"
Girl keeps baby--"How's she going to afford that baby??"
Girl gets welfare---"She's a sponger living on benefits taking our money"
Girl gets job---"How can she stand to be away from her baby all day like that?"
Girl becomes a stay at home Mum--"She probably doesn't do anything all day but watch Jeremy Kyle"
Girl stops hanging out with friends--"She totally changed when she had that baby"
Girl goes out--"She's always partying and leaving her kids at home!"
Girl wants to leave nasty partner--"Nobody knows what it means to work things out anymore"
Girl wants to stay with nasty partner--"She's dumb!"
Girl eats burger--"Fat ass"
Girl eats salad--"Must be one of those anorexic health nuts"
Girl is overprotective of her child---"You're acting like a psycho, poor kids!"
Girl lets her child play without her---"Where is this kid's Mum??"
Girl smacks her kid---"Call the police and social services!"
Girl refuses to smack---"Her kids are gonna be such brats"
No matter what you do, people will talk. So do what is best for YOU, not other people..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I really hope Purvi follows the advice given above. Enough of her concern for the rest of the world! Hope she has the god sense to do what she wants, what she thinks is right for her!

Ovi has been as very mature, waking away from a toxic relationship. Whatever her past mistakes, at least she has had the good sense to move on!


Now it is Purvi'a turn!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Good ones! 👏
A Girl can never be right! So just do what you think is RIGHT for you! If you start bothering abt what the world thinks abt you, then u wont have a life!
Purvi shd stop caring abt what others think and do what is good for herself, for Pari and Arjun! She shd not give a damn for what others think!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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THIS IS OUR INDIA.. JAHAN JISKI BHI GALTI HO, EVERONE BLAMES A GIRL!!!!!!! sick😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pari-kirloskar

THIS IS OUR INDIA.. JAHAN JISKI BHI GALTI HO, EVERONE BLAMES A GIRL!!!!!!! sick😡



ya i knw mostly blame girls...bt girls also resposible dat so what to do...b4 anything doing i think girls should be think properly n also think abt parents n der reputation...so no one blame dem...its my pov no offence...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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These types of TV shows create more misunderstanding among the people. Female are abused frequently in the serials. Everyone enjoys this. First of all makers should make some shows where female are shown as independent self-sufficient human being. Then a woman. Some creatives tried that genre of shows too like Afsar Bitiya, Sapne Suhane Ladar Pan Ke but they couldn't hold the theme at the end. Female leads had to compromise with their dream and sacrifice their career for family. I wonder if viewers like this! Anyway first of all we need to change our own outlook then the world will change itself.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: punirashakti



ya i knw mostly blame girls...bt girls also resposible dat so what to do...b4 anything doing i think girls should be think properly n also think abt parents n der reputation...so no one blame dem...its my pov no offence...


😆 i wish purvi had thought abt her family before cozying up with arjun. but she never thinks abt her family's reputation. she only says" my aai" always for the sake of it. if shhe truly loves archana then she wudnt have given so much pain to her by destroying ovi's life.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pari-kirloskar


😆0„2 i wish purvi had thought abt her family before cozying up with arjun. but she never thinks abt her family's reputation. she only says" my aai" always for the sake of it. if shhe truly loves archana then she wudnt have given so much pain to her by destroying ovi's life.

oh yeah you have pointed out a fact! Madam Purvi and her kartoots! Sigh! Lol Purvi never thought for her family before having pre-marital sex😆I don't know what kind of Indian culture is having pre marital sex😕At least as an Indian I think it is a direct insult to our culture. I do believe in progressive India. But that doesn't mean that you can do anything as you wish. There should be ethical sense.I know some people will come to justify the matter but fact is fact.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awesome post!!! It makes tons of sense in Purvi's case also
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Look at the irony when people say India is changing ... huh really its changing but not where change is needed.
I am glad there are people who don't follow such stupidness any more. At least not me, I give a damn to what my society thinks all I know is that my parents and family should be proud of me which they are.

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