does purvi understand arjun at all?:Mod notes pg3&4

this is not a post of purvi vs ovi but just about the premis of the show - arjun and purvi.

What great love shove are we taking about? Purvi does not ever, ever listen to Arjun. Today, watching the show, i wanted to yank her out and give her a good shake. Arjun has told her clearly that its all over between him and ovi yet she goes on like a broken record "why did you sign the divorce papers" . Its like she cannot even hear the guy let alone understand his pov

Arjun: I don't want to marry ovi
Purvi: *deaf*
Arjun: I don't love ovi
Purvi: *deaf*
Arjun: I don't want to give Ovi any haq. cough-*have sex*-cough
Purvi: *deaf*
Arjun: Ovi wants a divorce
Purvi: *deaf*
Arjun: I want a divorce
Purvi: *deaf*
Arjun: I don't want to stop ovi
Purvi: *deaf*

Yes, yes i know, purvi has these little angel wings and a giant halo on her head and everything she does is for other people's "bhalai" . But is not part of loving someone also include respecting their decisions? Does it not include letting them have the freedom to make those decisions in the first place? She does not seem to think that Arjun has any capacity to take any decision regarding his marriage or his life.Simply stumbling and staring on the road in mumbai rains is not love.

i agree,purvi tries to dominate every1 in her life,mke it arjun,onir etc.

Great thread! I agree...Purvi and Arjun are supposedly these great lovers...well so far, we have really only seen Arjun understand Purvi and listen to what she wants.

Purvi totally disregards his feelings and freedom to choose his path of life. No she emotionally manipulates him every time to get him to listen and do what SHE thinks is best for everyone. She has no right to do that. It's disrespectful to see how Purvi treated Arjun and even Onir so far, like they have no right or freedom to make their own decisions or they are incapable of doing so.

The only person that I have seen the love from (in MY opinion) is Arjun.

Purvi has to understand Arjun. I hope on the future she understands him.

LOl...great post!

Originally posted by: BatzeeRises

Is there a character, in mythology who is the opposite of King Midas?

Everything HE touched, turned to gold, RIGHT?

Purevi is the EXACT polar opposite-everything SHE touches turns to ASHES.

1. She was in Archana's life, turned her into a ku-mata.

2. Loved Arjun and his life was ruined-turned him into a na-mard puppy.

3. Ruined Ovi's life-didn't even allow her to mourn her baby.

4. Turned a respectable Doctor into a pauper.

5. Dumped the Doc asap after his licence was revoked.

6. Robbed the bio-kids of their right to parental love.

This is not a woman-she is an animated WRECKING BALL. She really creeps me out!

Originally posted by: BatzeeRises

She doesn't NEED to understand Arjun!! WHAT PUREVI DOES UNDERSTAND VERY WELL:-

1. Keep sexual tension taut.

2. Keep two men dangling, panting after her.

3. Have illicit sex and dump the resultant baby on ANYBODY available.

4.Use and discard her partners,

5. Making cow's eyes at her Jiju

6. The effect of rain on hormonally disturbed penguin puppies.

7. Expert use of sly eye locks and surreptitious touches.

8. Exploit ALL relationships for her own benefit.

9. Lie FIRST in all circumstances to save her delicate, sanskari backside.

10. Garb all her selfishness under the garb of jag-bhalayi.

11. Keep Penguin titillated.

THIS is the LEAD of a soap????????

Creeps me out ALL OVER AGAIN!

LOOOLLL 😆😆 This is best and most accurate description of Purvi I have ever read. 👏👏

I think purvi understands arjun very well. If she did not understand him, she could not have gotten him to do so many things to please her.

What I dont understand is why she is still pushing for arjun to stay in his marriage with Ovi when clearly it has been a huge compromise on his part and unhappy especially when she walked away from hers without even fighting for it.

Purvi just needs to forget about everybody's lives and happiness and worry about herself and her daughter's future. She need to let arjun knows how she feel about him as it seem to me that he is the only brave one to reveal that he still loves her and wants to be part of pari's life. Its high time the CV let her loosen up a bit with arjun and let him feel comfortable around her and pari.

Originally posted by: rayadallie

I think purvi understands arjun very well. If she did not understand him, she could not have gotten him to do so many things to please her.

What I dont understand is why she is still pushing for arjun to stay in his marriage with Ovi when clearly it has been a huge compromise on his part and unhappy especially when she walked away from hers without even fighting for it.

Purvi just needs to forget about everybody's lives and happiness and worry about herself and her daughter's future. She need to let arjun knows how she feel about him as it seem to me that he is the only brave one to reveal that he still loves her and wants to be part of pari's life. Its high time the CV let her loosen up a bit with arjun and let him feel comfortable around her and pari.

I agree. I don't understand why they're writing purvi the character like this. I don't hold expectations from serials but after so much drama why are the CVs still making purvi like this? It's not making sense at all anymore. Purvi getting so hyper over divorce papers and going to airport didn't make sense at all. Arjun explained all of this before to her. She got in trouble from Archu for it. So why are the CVs still making purvi force this relation upon Arjun? Is it to make it more tragic or mahaan? Cuz at this point it's really not, it's just getting silly.

CM and rest of my KC buddies...Loved all your posts and agreed to all but one..