Onir- purvi bond

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Hiee everyone.. I m very silent reader of this forum but i really fond of pavitra rishta.I read so many thread regarding arjun-purvi and onir -purvi relationship.For me, marriage life needs 4 things-trust,care,support and understanding.I have seen all these feeling in onir-purvi relationship.Here i have not mention Love bcoz jaha par ye 4 feelings he waha par pyar hone k bright chances he .. par jaha pyar ho waha ye 4 feelings ho asa zaruri nai he Eg. OVI loves arjun sooo much but there is no trust,respect nd understanding.Purvi is now onis'wife.Onir marry to purvi by knowing the fact that she is carrying someone's child.In some posts i read dat agar ovi delivery me mar jaye to arjun purvi ek sath ho sakte he.But my point is kya ovi mar gai to purvi onir ko chhod k arjun k saath shadi kar le qki wo or arjun ek dusre se saccha pyar karte he,unka rishta pavitra he to ab onir ko purvi ko chhod dena chahiye or apne liye kou or dhundhni chahiye .kya ye sahi hoga?? . Kya hum me se koi bhi ladki agar purvi ki jagah par hoti to apne sacche pyar k pass jane k liye apne us pati ko chhod deti jisne use tab apnaya jab uske pass koi rishta nai bacha tha.. kya real life me bhi ladkiyo ko pati or apne sacche pyar me se kisi ek ko choose karna ho to apne sacche pyar ko choose karna chahiye?? I have so many questions in my mind. plzz help me everyone. I need ur precious advise.
PS:- plzzz comment only basis on husband wife relationship. don't drag dat pragnency nd kid stuff between all this.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Hiee everyone.. I m very silent reader of this forum but i really fond of pavitra rishta.I read so many thread regarding arjun-purvi and onir -purvi relationship.For me, marriage life needs 4 things-trust,care,support and understanding.I have seen all these feeling in onir-purvi relationship.Here i have not mention Love bcoz jaha par ye 4 feelings he waha par pyar hone k bright chances he .. par jaha pyar ho waha ye 4 feelings ho asa zaruri nai he Eg. OVI loves arjun sooo much but there is no trust,respect nd understanding.Purvi is now onis'wife.Onir marry to purvi by knowing the fact that she is carrying someone's child.In some posts i read dat agar ovi delivery me mar jaye to arjun purvi ek sath ho sakte he.But my point is kya ovi mar gai to purvi onir ko chhod k arjun k saath shadi kar le qki wo or arjun ek dusre se saccha pyar karte he,unka rishta pavitra he to ab onir ko purvi ko chhod dena chahiye or apne liye kou or dhundhni chahiye .kya ye sahi hoga?? . Kya hum me se koi bhi ladki agar purvi ki jagah par hoti to apne sacche pyar k pass jane k liye apne us pati ko chhod deti jisne use tab apnaya jab uske pass koi rishta nai bacha tha.. kya real life me bhi ladkiyo ko pati or apne sacche pyar me se kisi ek ko choose karna ho to apne sacche pyar ko choose karna chahiye?? I have so many questions in my mind. plzz help me everyone. I need ur precious advise.
PS:- plzzz comment only basis on husband wife relationship. don't drag dat pragnency nd kid stuff between all this.

Originally posted by: bee5

.. TRUST. Yes, Onir has trust on Purvi and Purvi trusts Onir too. But the trust shouldn't be to the extent of MISCONCEPTION and there also needs to be HONESTY in not gaining that undue TRUST (not hiding things to gain trust).

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

I m agree wid u bee5 ( m sorry don't know ur name)... COMMUNICATION ,SHARING and HONESTY is major aspect. Here purvi shows honesty in her marriage bcoz onir knows abt baby stuff.but she never mension dat person's name or further detail becoz she consider arjun as her past and Onir several times told purbi that he is nt interested in her past. As they are settled in kolkatta .. may b purvi thought she is now free from past. so i think not 100% but honesty is also exist in this relationship. Purvi made a big mistake is after returning to deshmukh house ..she should clarify all the stuff wid Onir. Nd ya nthing personal in this... purvi is unrealistic character becoz she is stupid nd sacrifice arjun in such circumtances. but same time i read ARVI land nd ARVI world.. hw they will reunite now.. all such worries in different posts.. so this was just a second thought in my mind.