Feeling so bad for Arjun

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I wish so much that he hadn't married Ovi.. I wish he would use his own mind instead of listening to everyone else telling him to make Ovi happy. But still I'm feeling so bad that he is stuck in this loveless marriage, trying to make Ovi happy. She is so selfish, she's even jealous of her own baby. Every time Arjun makes an effort with her, she just taunts him. And Purvi, she misses her Aai the most, she thinks of her Aai when her baby kicks?! What about Arjun? I don't think she ever loved him. If he could grow a spine and stand up to these two ladies, what he should have done from the beginning...

What a mess this is.. Archu is feeling hurt, she's right though. Purvi has grown up, she makes her own crazy decisions, she doesn't feel the need to consult anyone.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i dunt feel bad 4 him any mre
he digged his own grave by falling for purvi andfollowing her like mad
and onir is an outsider still he understud wat ovifeels
evn now if purvi tells him to do anyting else he will do that
i cant sympathise wid a educted intelegient man like dis,manav was a fool hwo did many mistkkes in life
but arjun wasnt
and abt ovi-
i agree ovi is difficult,but u cant deny that arjunwas to marry her befre purvi cme in his life
so he was to deal wid ovi befre too
purvi has moved on,wats wrong in it
how can any1 excpet she shld wait for her brother in law
i just dint liked the ting she hidded frm her mther
and nthing else
ovi is called jealous women,wich accrding to me is normal
and arjun is being sympathised for tmrrw,y?
arjun can move on sleep wid his wif make her preggy
purvi doesnt have a right to b happy
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I don't deny Arjun has made mistakes, lots of them in fact. But I think his heart is decent. He fell for Purvi, so of course Ovi should be hurt and jealous. And he should have told Ovi right away and not got engaged to Ovi when he knew that he didn't love her. He Should have never married either girl when they bartered with his life. And he's just sinking deeper into his mistakes even now.

But I feel as dumb as his choices have been, he truly never meant to hurt anyone. And I don't understand Ovi being jealous because Arjun cares about their baby. It's a part of her, I'm surprised she doesn't love the baby more than anybody else.

As for Purvi, she has a right to move on. But her choices don't make sense. She stayed with Arjun after she found out about Ovi, slept with him, and then gave him away. It makes for more complications. Don't even know how to solve this tangled mess!

Anyway, just my humble opinion.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suhani10

I don't deny Arjun has made mistakes, lots of them in fact. But I think his heart is decent. He fell for Purvi, so of course Ovi should be hurt and jealous. And he should have told Ovi right away and not got engaged to Ovi when he knew that he didn't love her. He Should have never married either girl when they bartered with his life. And he's just sinking deeper into his mistakes even now.

But I feel as dumb as his choices have been, he truly never meant to hurt anyone. And I don't understand Ovi being jealous because Arjun cares about their baby. It's a part of her, I'm surprised she doesn't love the baby more than anybody else.

As for Purvi, she has a right to move on. But her choices don't make sense. She stayed with Arjun after she found out about Ovi, slept with him, and then gave him away. It makes for more complications. Don't even know how to solve this tangled mess!

Anyway, just my humble opinion.

i know,wat u meant,arjun isnt bad at heart,and i agree to it totally.so is ovi-purvi,evn dey made deir mistkes
arjun-ovi dint except th truth and moved on
whereas purvi exceptd and movedon gracefully,technically she shld b the biggest looser,but she isnt,she alwys ahve a smile,any other girl wld b devasted to know she is pregnant wid her sister hubby or ex fiance
i never liked purvi chrcter,but i salute her this quality,
evn i agree arjun is just dumb and a big fool
this triangle has becum the most disgusting one iseen in indian television,its really sad
i dint meant to offend ur post
i respect ur pov,and agree to certan extent
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Posted: 13 years ago
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More than sorry I feel angry with Arjun, Why is he following other,s advice so much,
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I stopped feeling sorry for Arjun just before the leap when he asked Ovi for a chance to make their marriage work only because Purvi told him to. He should have been a man and said no. But he would rather hurt his childhood friend for Purvi who cares nothing about his happiness.
Even today, I found it so revolting when he was remembering taking Purvi's bangles off and he goes and takes Ovi's off too. That is truly disgusting.

Ovi is not the sick one but Arjun is.

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