Three sayings of hope to Arvians - Page 2

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

If Ovi is married to her sister's fiance than what has Purvi done?

Fell in love and carried on to marry the same dude who was engaged to the sister who he is married to now but had dumped her ...He did not even tell either girl what he was doing?

Now Ovi has done something wrong...Think people think...Once Purvi found out Arjun was engaged to his sister Ovi, she should have kept strong and not involve further with the two timing dude...No matter how much he claimed his love was genuine for Purvi and never loved Ovi...Sister does not do that to the other sister..

@ XOXOArvi You hopelessly romantic you...Nothing wrong in wanting, dreaming and hoping...that is all I will say 😃

Originally posted by: xoxoarvi

I dont know but to today after reading the written update I felt a spark of hope... Remember dears the "truth always prevails"," the course of true love never ran smooth", and "good things happen to good people."

Truth always prevails, Ovi did lieing schemeing and blackmailing to get married to Arjun... Purvi may have been wrong in asking Arjun to marry Ovi but she nevr lied or schemed she told him straight up and did not leave him totally in the dark.

True love never runs smooth, look at Arman and all the examples in literature. This is a test for Arjun and Purvi and their love.

"Good thing happen to good people" Arjun and Purvi are great people and they will gets the fruits of their karma :) Punni always schemes against them but her plans always backfire because she is a burri insaan and bappa will not let his bhakts suffer so much and let evil people succeed. Ovi has been blinded with her possessiveness of Arjun she thinks Arjun will be hers but she does not realize this is actually a result of her paap she will have to suffer through a loveless marriage and later the hate of Arjun.

I dont know but today I saw alot of people kinda dissing Purvi about how she treated Arjun and I personally think she wasnt very wrong, if she hated Arjun and had no hope to be together again with him she would have never got in that car. Also it is not very ethical to buy flowers to bless your jodi with a man who is married. Though I did find that scene cute.. ( ok I m ready for chappals now)😆

Sorry for giving you guys an essay.. but hopefully this gave you all some hope

-xoxoarvi😃

Fantastic

Originally posted by: Kalapi

hmmm...who stole whom, btw...what if I say that Purvi stole her sister's engaged fiancee...am, I wrong...she knew, the alliance between Ovi and Arjun was blessed by the elders and still she went forward with it...did she think by her action who will suffer most once - her baba, Aai and sister by her adoption...my POV of course...

Purvi shouldn't have encouraged a relation that was her sister's to begin with...illicit and incest, in any culture and in any region...let see how Cvs will cater this 'relationship;' to a conservative Indian audience...in the name of Love, even illicit and incest relationship allowed, is it???

I agree with you xoxoarvi. We want to see arvi together but in a true meaning. If Purvi shows any response or relation with arjun at this point she will be the other women. People in any culture hate the other woman in a marraige. Even arjun would not like to see purvi being insulted that way. In any culture an affair with a married man or of a married man is seen a the most disgusting thing. However we often see that man get way with it (as long as his wife supports him, especially powerful man) and the other woman gets harrased in every way. So the point is I definately do not want to see purvi in such situation. So when ARVI reunite it must be in a pavitra way where their relation will be accepted by everyone. Besides I don't think purvi has been the person who arjun fell in love with, one who loved every little aspect of life. After their separation upon arjun-ovi engagement, she has always been worried about everything else and has never been the same person. So hopefull whey they finally reunite, I hope to see that purvi back who would be free of her debt to her aai and desmukhs, who can truly love arjun. I guess I am going to get chappals too now!!!!!!

Arvi should never get together 😡,they dont deserve any happiness,they are mean n selfish😡coz they destroyed their own lifes by giving happiness to others n taking sadness in return.😲.. arjun should be with ovi n purvi with some other men.😃. coz purvi gave arjun to ovi when ovi herself backed off from the marriage n was pleading purvi to marry arjun.. but purvi did not listened to her n made ovi forcefully marry arjun,,😊 n now she is coming between arjunn and ovi 😡.. by intentionally being at the place where arjun is n taking lifts from him.😡.. ajun is also hurting ovi when she trusts him so much n cares for his feelings by meeting purvi 😭,when ovi gave arjun the option of going back to purvi.. 😭both arjun n purvi are creating problems for ovi n making her life miserable..poor ovi 😭 they are spying on ovi so that they can meet eachother peacefull n with out being afraid of being catched by ovi...😡 ovi is trying to make arjun happy , by waiting for him n trying to give him his happiness... but he just doesnt cares for her n treats her badly by shouting at her everytime 😡... poor ovi she deserves all the happiness in life.she didnt got anything she wished for from childhood... arjun is only ovi's coz she loves him truly n deeply n really cares for himmm n understand his feelings...😭 purvi took arjun when she knew that arjun loves ovi n is her fiance... she seperated both the true lovers.. n made arjun fall in her trap.. 😭 😡

Originally posted by: xoxoarvi

I dont know but to today after reading the written update I felt a spark of hope... Remember dears the "truth always prevails"," the course of true love never ran smooth", and "good things happen to good people."

Truth always prevails, Ovi did lieing schemeing and blackmailing to get married to Arjun... Purvi may have been wrong in asking Arjun to marry Ovi but she nevr lied or schemed she told him straight up and did not leave him totally in the dark.

True love never runs smooth, look at Arman and all the examples in literature. This is a test for Arjun and Purvi and their love.

"Good thing happen to good people" Arjun and Purvi are great people and they will gets the fruits of their karma :) Punni always schemes against them but her plans always backfire because she is a burri insaan and bappa will not let his bhakts suffer so much and let evil people succeed. Ovi has been blinded with her possessiveness of Arjun she thinks Arjun will be hers but she does not realize this is actually a result of her paap she will have to suffer through a loveless marriage and later the hate of Arjun.

I dont know but today I saw alot of people kinda dissing Purvi about how she treated Arjun and I personally think she wasnt very wrong, if she hated Arjun and had no hope to be together again with him she would have never got in that car. Also it is not very ethical to buy flowers to bless your jodi with a man who is married. Though I did find that scene cute.. ( ok I m ready for chappals now)😆

Sorry for giving you guys an essay.. but hopefully this gave you all some hope

-xoxoarvi😃

ps. Hope you all have a very happy Navratri!😊

Great post dear thumbs up for this...
I agree with u..

Originally posted by: xoxoarvi

I think we have to remember that this is a soap and not daily life.. I dont think anyone would do this in real life then again would there be 18 year seperations? when a person doesnt know about their supposed sisters to be fiance...but this is a soap about love and all of that where relation to real life isnt shown and logic is not even cared about... it is simply for entertainment and trps...

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Again my pov.. her parents did suffer thats why she made Arjun marry Ovi ... i personally did not like she did this but I have to say she definetly cared about her aai baba and Ovi's feelings. Whenever Arjun wanted to tell the Deshmukhs about their rishta she kept on stopping him saying how her Aai would not belivev in her sanskaars, Ovi would nver belivev in love, baba...

Well, the Arjun/Ovi and Purvi situation isn't just fiction, it actually happens in real life and in all societies and regions of the world, so even in a name of soap or TRPs, I can't support a love that isn't based on a moral ground. There are incidences where extramarital affairs have developed between a BIL and SIL. No society condones it, but that doesn't mean that it does not happen in real life. In fact all religion actually strong discourages an extramarital affair outside marriage, with instances of females being stoned to dead from medieval times to modern era. In my post I strong discourage this behavior. Forget, for an instance that the 2 sisters are Ovi/Purvi, think if this happens to real life sisters, what happens then? I can't support a relationship that is fundamentally wrong. I have asked Arjun to divorce Ovi from the beginning, but what is shown in the name of love or being justified is too shameful.

Love is one of those emotions unlike, greed and jealousy that can bring a person closer to God or to the Devil depending on choices made. This love (that signifies a physical relationship between an unrelated man and woman, so am not talking about love as is between parent and kids or between siblings) itself is the most pavitra of emotions, but the rishtas that stems from such an emotions can be named different, like extra-marital affair, like a mistress, etc. Only marriage gives this nameless 'relationship' between man and a woman true status in life, so Marriage between a man and a wife is truly a Pavitra Rishta…this is at least how most religions looks at marriage including Hinduism. Well, I am not forcing anyone into believing anything, but at the same time, I can't support any union which is fundamentally flawed and breaks the very beliefs a society is built on, even in the name of a soap, which fundamentally is reflective of the society we live in..

Originally posted by: seemathakkar

I agree with you xoxoarvi. We want to see arvi together but in a true meaning. If Purvi shows any response or relation with arjun at this point she will be the other women. People in any culture hate the other woman in a marraige. Even arjun would not like to see purvi being insulted that way. In any culture an affair with a married man or of a married man is seen a the most disgusting thing. However we often see that man get way with it (as long as his wife supports him, especially powerful man) and the other woman gets harrased in every way. So the point is I definately do not want to see purvi in such situation. So when ARVI reunite it must be in a pavitra way where their relation will be accepted by everyone. Besides I don't think purvi has been the person who arjun fell in love with, one who loved every little aspect of life. After their separation upon arjun-ovi engagement, she has always been worried about everything else and has never been the same person. So hopefull whey they finally reunite, I hope to see that purvi back who would be free of her debt to her aai and desmukhs, who can truly love arjun. I guess I am going to get chappals too now!!!!!!

Originally posted by: xoxoarvi

No chappals for you dear from me at least!! I love how you justified Purvi's actions and how the are aplicable to society. If she had gone on romancing Arjun she would have been known as the other lady and then Ovi would be able to blame Purvi for coming in between her and Arjun.. Yes Purvi seems to have forgotten the elements of life. She used to be fun loving spunky and most imprtantly happy whether she was fighting with Arjun in the office or romancing with him she was happy... I remember the scene when Arjun was telling Purvi stop tring to be god you have forgotten that you are also a person... I think Purvi is not even thinking about her own self anymore she cares more about anyone else, I remember when My mom always used to watch Oprah and I would always watch with her on many occasions she would say how theat you must take care of yourself inorder to take care of others.. Purvi is just taking care of others... She herself seperated herself from Arjun, her love, her life, soulmate, life partner, best friend and mainly the only person she could confide in. I dont think I have seen her truly smile once after Arjun Ovi marraige, and definetly laugh. When she was with Arju she was always happily smiling. Hopefully with the reunion we will see our happy Purvi once again!

- Sorry for the essay deaar but I just had to let it all out 😃😳

Originally posted by: crazygirl4RD

m too missing arvi romance like hell..purvi deffo thinks about others she even loves arjun ,but became selfish at the point of her mothers happiness... she will learn her lessons soon.no worries for that.she even prayed for arjun during that stupid challenge,where as ovi prayed for her only,whether that particular thing belongs to her or not she wants it.. let her play with arjun temporarily.. she will soon get fed up.. all she wants is that arjun should stare her n compliment her looks😲.. but she is getting none...😆

waiting for arvi romace to begin..