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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: arjunpurvixo


If you were in Purvi's position, what would you do? Especially if you were adopted and this was pratically the only way to give your mother the only thing she's ever wanted..? Without Purvi's sacrifice, I hardly doubt Archana and Manav would have reunited in time before the divorce. I think she should have told Arjun earlier and Arjun would have probably told his dad who would've done something. However, I have a feeling that if Purvi told Manav, then he would do the same exact thing he did after her found out about the marriage - nothing. Their family relationship was already walking on sharp rocks.. and I don't think Purvi would have done anything to mess that up. But I agree, she should have shown him some respect and not trap him into a marriage with her sister.


If i ever make a commitment to somebody that I will always love them and be with them then I would never leave them except if it involved abuse or cheating...there was no guarantee that ovi could make archana and manav come together...they cant be forced at that age...that would only be if their misunderstandings were cleared...if I was in purvi's shoes adopted or not I would marry my love and then together with him find a way to unite manav and archana...also I would never be selfish enough to emotionally blackmail and force my love to marry someone he didnt want so my mom could be happy...purvi ruined arjun's life so her mom could be happy...How is that right? is that not as bad as what ovi did? arjun give her everything and this is how she treated him at the end...and for those saying that we are not blaming ovi...i do blame ovi but there are always people like ovi who will jump at the opportunity to take advantage of you but you should be smart enough not to fall into their trap...ovi knew what she wanted and she went after it, purvi also what she wanted the most which was her mom's happiness more than her marriage with arjun so she also went after her goalthe only person i feel somewhat bad for is arjun because he got dragged into this stupidity...although i wish he had just left both purvi and ovi at that moment until purvi came to her senses...love and marriage is not a joke...when you commit to someone and claim that you love them then how can you choose someone else over them...that is the reason i do not feel bad for purvi at all...at the end of the day her mom mattered more to her than arjun so she picked her mom and therefore she should be happy now...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luv4games


If i ever make a commitment to somebody that I will always love them and be with them then I would never leave them except if it involved abuse or cheating...there was no guarantee that ovi could make archana and manav come together...they cant be forced at that age...that would only be if their misunderstandings were cleared...if I was in purvi's shoes adopted or not I would marry my love and then together with him find a way to unite manav and archana...also I would never be selfish enough to emotionally blackmail and force my love to marry someone he didnt want so my mom could be happy...purvi ruined arjun's life so her mom could be happy...How is that right? is that not as bad as what ovi did? arjun give her everything and this is how she treated him at the end...and for those saying that we are not blaming ovi...i do blame ovi but there are always people like ovi who will jump at the opportunity to take advantage of you but you should be smart enough not to fall into their trap...ovi knew what she wanted and she went after it, purvi also what she wanted the most which was her mom's happiness more than her marriage with arjun so she also went after her goalthe only person i feel somewhat bad for is arjun because he got dragged into this stupidity...although i wish he had just left both purvi and ovi at that moment until purvi came to her senses...love and marriage is not a joke...when you commit to someone and claim that you love them then how can you choose someone else over them...that is the reason i do not feel bad for purvi at all...at the end of the day her mom mattered more to her than arjun so she picked her mom and therefore she should be happy now...


I agree with you and Jai! I was just tired of all the bashing on Purvi and decided to see things from her point of view 😕 This could have all been solved if she talked to someone, but of course the CVs had to get our blood pressure up 😆 Whenever I see Purvi on TV crying over Arjun I just... She specifically said to Arjun that she would be happy if he married Ovi and she would be able to live without his prescense.. It made me very angry when she kept leading him on too and saying that she'll never leave him... look at what happened now 👎🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Why no one is angry at OVI? Hmmm

Was any one angry when Arjun started pursuing Purvi while being engaged to Ovi & @ Purvi too when she finally fell for his love too? 😳
Was any one angry at Purvi or Arjun for carrying on knowing the fact He was engaged to Ovi supposed to be Archana the mother's bio daughter? Why did Purvi not think by carrying on further with arjun she will be hurting her step sister Ovi and Baba Manav...ArMan marriage was on the rocks step away from divorce and Purvi romancing with Arjun who two timed Ovi supposed to be the sister and broke her heart would that not cause some more problems between the families and ArMan relationship???? This has nothing to do with Ovi not thinking of Purvi as sister...Ovi had abandonment issues with her mother Archana..
Was any one angry at Sulo the Aaji supporting Arjun-Purvi's relationship knowing the fact her other grand daughter's heart was broken by the same man ? why did she support Purvi? 😡
Was any one angry at Archana for claiming one thing at Deshmukhs that Arjun is not good for either of ehr daughters but at Karanjkar home she put a lame challenge in front of Arjun to prove his love for Purvi and she would get them married. Taking one daughter's side over another 😡
Was any one angry at Sulo, archana, Purvi and Arjun all constantly harassing Manav, Ovi and rest of the deshmukhs with Arjun-Purvi's wedding announcements, invitations, Kanyadaan etc? 😲😡
This was the beginning of the whole problem...Purvi only realized Ovi being her sister when she saw the chance that her mother could reunite with Manav Baba and she could gain her family...Until that it did not dawn on her abt Ovi-Tej being sisters? She kept calling Sachu dada...
Purvi should have realized she was making a mistake by accepting and admitting her love for Arjun...It was Arjun who put the whole thing in motion and Purvi finished it..I dont have problem either one of them falling in love but had PUrvi been not related to Archana it would have helped or would be less problems...much easier for Ovi and Deshmukhs to accept what had happened..
Was any one angry or sad at Ovi's attempts @ Suicides? It was slided as nothing big by mother ...She did not even share that with her mother Sulo...But she shares rest what happens at Deshmukhs 😡
Archana and Sulo both should have stayed out and remained firm abt Arjun was not right for either Ovi or Purvi...End of story..
Why blame Ovi for something which is done by Purvi???
Any tom dick or harry can come put a deal forth but the one accepts it and abides by it is a foolish of all..
Purvi is equally smart or even smarter than Ovi as she cool headedly, strategically planned the whole thing...Than why blame Ovi?

Arjun should be mad at himself for not saying NO to Purvi..
Same way Purvi should have said NO to Ovi..
But before all that Arjun should not have fallen for Purvi knowing the fact she was Archana's daughter...he knew the fact being engaged to Ovi and Archana being Ovi's mom...Purvi was the other daughter..
before anyone gets mad at Ovi they need to really look at how it all happened and put the blame where it lies...By this I am not saying Ovi has not done anything wrong...Yes she did go after her love period...If Purvi is sad and Arjun is moping it is their own doing...i dont feel sorry for people who put them selves in this sort a precarious situation...They want to play adult games but have maturity of 5 yr olds...😡
Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#34
Jai is right .Come to think of it Teju was the one who reunited her parents .Even if Purvi had not done the sacrifise and had married Arjun then also Manav would have got back with Archana after hearing that Archana never signed the divorce paper and she never got the tickets 18 years ago ...
For sure Manav would have been so different then .Even though Ovi was angry , he was ready to do Purvi's kanyadaan because he loves Archana so just imagine what he would have done after knowing the truth ..
Ovi could not stop him from going for kanyadaan so how could she have stopped him from trying to get his wife back ...
All Purvi has done is that she has messed up 3 lives ...Arjun ( he did not deserve this at all ) , Ovi ( she will never be loved by Arjun and Purvi knows this very well ) and Purvi herself ...
Purvi's sacrifise is totally senseless and has only messed things up for everyone ...
Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I totally agree!!!
I was soo annoyed that noone is making Ovi realise her mistake!!! Everyone just forgave her... wat is Ekta trying to show us like OMG!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: 100prabh

I totally agree!!!

I was soo annoyed that noone is making Ovi realise her mistake!!! Everyone just forgave her... wat is Ekta trying to show us like OMG!!


Agreed! Before, the show taught valuable lessons, but now I don't even know... are they teaching us that it's ok to guilt trip your half-sister with a deal that you know she will accept and take her love away and ruin all 3 of your lives or what... 😆

I was really expecting DK to do something, but I found it disappointing how he said that they should just accept what happened and move on. Is he ok with his son's life being ruined or something? DK has always stood up for what's right and he's always wanted his son's happiness.. I just don't know what happened. I can't believe Manav didn't do anything either. He accepted that Arjun and Purvi love each other and Arjun does not feel anything for Ovi, yet he just decided to accept it? And then there's Archana who gives Ovi advice saying that Arjun will come around and everything will be ok? 👎🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: arjunpurvixo


Agreed! Before, the show taught valuable lessons, but now I don't even know... are they teaching us that it's ok to guilt trip your half-sister with a deal that you know she will accept and take her love away and ruin all 3 of your lives or what... 😆

I was really expecting DK to do something, but I found it disappointing how he said that they should just accept what happened and move on. Is he ok with his son's life being ruined or something? DK has always stood up for what's right and he's always wanted his son's happiness.. I just don't know what happened. I can't believe Manav didn't do anything either. He accepted that Arjun and Purvi love each other and Arjun does not feel anything for Ovi, yet he just decided to accept it? And then there's Archana who gives Ovi advice saying that Arjun will come around and everything will be ok? 👎🏼

But, my question is what is preventing Arjun from filing that Divorce case...what is preventing him now, when he has realized (I am hoping) that marriage to Ovi was a mistake???
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kalapi

But, my question is what is preventing Arjun from filing that Divorce case...what is preventing him now, when he has realized (I am hoping) that marriage to Ovi was a mistake???


Most likely for Purvi's happiness.. Purvi told Arjun that she will only be happy if Arjun marries Ovi and accepts her as a wife, therefore I don't think he will be filling for a divorce case anytime soon or else he wouldn't have even married Ovi in the first place... I feel that this is Arjun's way of proving how much he loves Purvi... even though he's done it like 57 times before
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Purvi and Arjun going back will mean that Ovi and Arjun had to get a divorce. Wrecking someone else's marriage in spite of how that marriage came to be how can we say that is pavitra?
Edited by rogna - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kalapi

But, my question is what is preventing Arjun from filing that Divorce case...what is preventing him now, when he has realized (I am hoping) that marriage to Ovi was a mistake???


Arjun just doesn't have the guts to do anything except in business. When Arjun was engaged to Ovi he kept telling Purvi that he will tell everybody and cleared to everyone that he is in love with Purvi and not Ovi. He said to Purvi many times that he will call off his engagement with Ovi, but he failed on many occasion to do that. He didn't even have the guts to return the engagement ring to Ovi and asked Purvi to return the engagement ring because he will feel bad if he returned it in person. Now that he is married to Ovi he doesn't have the guts and bravery to make it straight to Ovi that he doesn't love her and wants a divorce now that everything is alright with Manav and Archana. How could he have the guts to divorce Ovi now that they are married when he even didn't have the guts to call off the engagement.

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