Archana Purvi/ DK AK

After watching yesterday's episode I have again started thinking about some basic yet very important relationship of our Life. Though the name of the show is "Pavitra Ristaa", yet the most neglected part of the show is "Ristaa" or relationship. Thinking about the universal Mother Daughter relationship.

I know, many discussion has already been done before in this forum. But, I am thinking about those days, while we were learning how to speak, our Mom understood everything what we tried to say. She was very well known what we wanted, demanded. But today, we speak a lot and sometimes we also claim that "Mom U do not understand!!". How life has changed. Today we act, speak a lot. But sometimes out mother fails to understand me and sometimes we are unable to make her understand our words.

I really do believe that MOM can read our unspoken words. She can feel. In PR, Archana said that the person who is taking care of any child is greater instead who has given him birth.

But, why can't she read Purvi's eye which are very expressive. Why can not see Purvi's pain and silence. Asking her about her problem is not enough. We have seen that she became worried when it terms of Ovi. But the same awareness is missing in case of purvi. These questions have made me unrest.

The second one is Father Son relationship shared by DK and AK. AK is the only son of DK. Still he has given priority to the business and went Australia for business work left alone his son in the crisis moment. Is not his moral duty and responsibility to guide his son and act as a sailor of the boat specially when AK does not know what is the right direction.

I think, relationships are not correctly depicted in the show and thus if any one, not an Indian origin sees the show will loose his respect in Indian culture what is very much well known for its valuable relationship and Joint families.

Nice post Debu, DK has let us down long time ago when he started calling Ovi that Arjun is missing her deeply. As a father he failed to understand his son a big time. Arjun is responsible for this mess but DK is more responsible because he showed Ovi a wrong rosy mirror. After finding out the ArVi truth he did not care left for Australia, even after Arjun told him that he needed his support.

You right about Archana, she is keep asking Purvi but not seeing her pain. But Archana is overwhelmed with her own problems. She has seen her daughters after 18 years so she is thinking more about them then Purvi. Also she needs time to think and tell Manav that he is doing wrong with the great Savita by not telling her truth. When Manav said Aai will be hurt too if she finds out the truth, still Archana is not convinced! But look who is talking!!! She needs to see herself in a mirror. Is she telling a truth to anyone, Manav, Tej, Ovi???? She is like "do what I say not what I do'.

At the moment there is no hope from DK or Archu in PR.

You are so right, Debu,Archana is feeling Ovi's pain, who is literally a stranger and not seeing the hurt and silence of Purvi whom she brought up from babyhood. I don't like the way Archana treats Purvi in front of her real daughters. She is almost obssessed with this Ovi. I think Purvi will have to sacrifice otherwise her so called aai is going to be very mad at her.

Archana should be able to see and FEEL that things are not right with Purvi. A mother always knows and here anyone can see the sadness and emptiness in Purvi's eyes. Everyone around her seems to be blind. Even after the day of the engagemnet, when Arjun was trying to tell DK and later Manav and later Ovi that he needs to talk to them...no one bothered even though any fool could see his discomfort. When Arjun did tell DK, how could DK just leave him in this situation telling him not to do anything till he gets back😕 . Is DK not wondering how is son is dealing with this mess. As far as Ovi is concerned, I think deep down she knows but this barbie doll just does not want to deal with it and is hoping that her manipulative behaviour will make things ok for her...as long she has Arjun to cling to, it is ok. who cares if he is happy or not?? I also think that she has slight suspicion of Purvi after the phone call and that is why she said all she did in the car. Let's see what happens but I agree...everyone is blind in PR

Nobody could have said it better. Thank you.

Debu, well said. A mother knows and understands the unspoken words of her children. She doesn't rest when she suspects something is amiss even if the child tells her all is well. I usually like Archana but the last epi where she was trying to appease Ovi by "itni pyaari ladki ko" who will cheat or not love sounded like she was trying to pacify a 4 year old. Don't tell me it is her suppressed mamta coming to the forefront and she is seeing Ovi as a 4 year old as she has missed her childhood. That would not ring true. If she sees Ovi as a young child that needs to be mollified, why does she see Purvi as some adult that can right Ovi's wrong?

Thanks Darlyne, Namita, Dolcye, Param and jahnvi for liking my post.😊
You ppl have made my day😊

Originally posted by: crazy2012

Thanks Darlyne, Namita, Dolcye, Param and jahnvi for liking my post.😊
You ppl have made my day😊

Hi Debu, No need for thanks. We all are diehard ArVi fans so most of the time we all are on same page.

Debu, who told u DK went Australia😆..
i have seen him in premeir pic of "madhubala" serial , he is thr clicking pic busy🤣...with his ex son😳, i mean Vivian❤️...frm PKYEK serial, as he was his father thr😆 & Arjun & DK were sworn enemy in that serial😆, their scene was good to watch, how both hated each other 👍🏼...but that show ended, my fav show it was😍, but they ended it in happy note😃i...f u seen that show u will know what i m talking😛😉


i m so shocked with Archu, that these days she is so blind with Ovi, that she has completely ignored Purvi😭, the girl, who was grown front of her eyes, she can't c the pain of hers...& the Ovi who was not with her all the time, she can understand her pain...strange😕


abt DK..as he is father & he himself told that Aasha can understand more then me...so i don't blame him fully in my opinion😊