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Loved your analysis on shravani and archu's donation of their child and the difference exists between them and their child sachu and soham.
When long back savita was giving idea to archu that she can give soham to varsha and varsha will take good care just like you have taken care of sachu even though you are not his biological mother.
I was like what a comparison is this, Its not fair and they are entirely different.
The below is what I wrote in Discussion thread on that day.
What the hell is happening.😡 😡. Savita Brainwashing archu to donate her child which is also the grandson of savita, son of Manav and the kid of deshmukh family... ... Couldnt imagine that a lady would do this. Though not liking the DIL or the kid of hers is ok, but doesnt she like and love Manav. Why cant savita understand in all this the final suffering is going to be Manav's and ultimately hers.
Ok, she might have thought Manav wont give upon his son, so soham is saved,he will be with them only, it will only create rift between archu and Manav. But what if it Backfires. What if Manav accepts on archu's constant nagging. then soham as a part of D's is last forever.
Savita 😡,... You are going beyond repair and unbearable these days.
Then the Comparison , total Unfair. Its entirely a different situation.
Sachu:
His father was no more. So savita in remembrance of her son, grabbed the baby from shravani ,with crying forcefully got the baby from her. It was savita who separated sachu from shravani and got him.
Archu being there in D's and as a good Kakki to sachu and for the Built in guilt she still has for Manav's brother sachin, she takes good care of sachu, Gives him the motherly love and takes care of him so well.
In this Archu doesn't ask for it. She didnt snatch the Kid. Sachu was there already and she showered the love on him as a mother.
Shravani whole heartedly gave sachu and doesn't turn back till now until savita poke her nose into it. shravani stick to it and ARMAN take good care of sachu as their parents. Shravani was away from all this which doesnt cause any confusion for sachu till now.
In this both the girls stand by their decision. Sharavni on not to mess up with sachin life by coming in his life and confusing him.
And Archu on to give the utmost care and love like a real mother of him. She loves him as her own son.
Both did a wonderful job sticking to their decision. Both are good here.
Soham:
His parents are very much alive, they care for him a lot and nearby.
In soham's case, its varsha the to be mom to soham was trying to snatch the child from his parents . Was out of her mind. She kidnapped him, locked him in a room.
And Varsha , can we trust her to be a good mother just like archu was to sachu(I never speak archu's love of soham here, that she completely lost).
Varsha does all as per her whims. she wants soham now. before she wants that only girl in the ashram, always its what she wants and not others. so will she give full love. what if she gets another child of her own tomorrow.
Can anyone think of soham's state at that time. That time this Mahaan couple cannot revert back everything. They cant take soham back. what will be the state of that child's heart and mind.
Then same goes for archu. Can archu stay away from soham forever just like that.
Will she be able to not to see him and be near him. Will she be able to stop herself when she founds that soham was sick or not doing well later. Can she forget him forever.
so ultimately its the child who is going to suffer more in this case.
Because both cannot stand by their decisions.
So Archu taking care of sachu and soham to be given to Varsha is entirely different.
Exactly share the same feelings as you all do. And if mislead by all this, especially Savita, and then sharavni takes sachu away ,there is no fault with her. Savita has spoiled everything for her.
Shravani was so vulnerable these days. though she tries to hold back and be strong, she is a mother too.
When she come back and savita started scheming and making her emotional with sachu only I felt bad for her. That too when sav took sachu for the first time to see her and when sav asked to give a kiss to the kaki and when tears roll down on sharavni's cheeks, felt so bad for her.
If she took sachu away, I wont say she is wrong and for good, once for all, if she takes and never looks back then it is very well fine for the kid.
I too agree that archu and sachu will feel bad and I would lost to see that wonderful bond ,but tho for how long. They will quite adapt to it as sachu was with his biological mom. As they have adapt the current situation they will adapt to it too.
And after some years ,sachu making a visit here and happily having a good time with ARMAn is fine .
But I want this to happen in a good manner without any misunderstandings ,tamashas.
Just archu crying in one corner and sachu having so bad anger at her and leaving with shravani.
I dont wish to see it. I want them to part in good ways for the wonderful bond they shared.
Loved your analysis on shravani and archu's donation of their child and the difference exists between them and their child sachu and soham.
When long back savita was giving idea to archu that she can give soham to varsha and varsha will take good care just like you have taken care of sachu even though you are not his biological mother.
I was like what a comparison is this, Its not fair and they are entirely different.
The below is what I wrote in Discussion thread on that day.
What the hell is happening.😡 😡. Savita Brainwashing archu to donate her child which is also the grandson of savita, son of Manav and the kid of deshmukh family... ... Couldnt imagine that a lady would do this. Though not liking the DIL or the kid of hers is ok, but doesnt she like and love Manav. Why cant savita understand in all this the final suffering is going to be Manav's and ultimately hers.
Ok, she might have thought Manav wont give upon his son, so soham is saved,he will be with them only, it will only create rift between archu and Manav. But what if it Backfires. What if Manav accepts on archu's constant nagging. then soham as a part of D's is last forever.
Savita 😡,... You are going beyond repair and unbearable these days.
Then the Comparison , total Unfair. Its entirely a different situation.
Sachu:
His father was no more. So savita in remembrance of her son, grabbed the baby from shravani ,with crying forcefully got the baby from her. It was savita who separated sachu from shravani and got him.
Archu being there in D's and as a good Kakki to sachu and for the Built in guilt she still has for Manav's brother sachin, she takes good care of sachu, Gives him the motherly love and takes care of him so well.
In this Archu doesn't ask for it. She didnt snatch the Kid. Sachu was there already and she showered the love on him as a mother.
Shravani whole heartedly gave sachu and doesn't turn back till now until savita poke her nose into it. shravani stick to it and ARMAN take good care of sachu as their parents. Shravani was away from all this which doesnt cause any confusion for sachu till now.
In this both the girls stand by their decision. Sharavni on not to mess up with sachin life by coming in his life and confusing him.
And Archu on to give the utmost care and love like a real mother of him. She loves him as her own son.
Both did a wonderful job sticking to their decision. Both are good here.
Soham:
His parents are very much alive, they care for him a lot and nearby.
In soham's case, its varsha the to be mom to soham was trying to snatch the child from his parents . Was out of her mind. She kidnapped him, locked him in a room.
And Varsha , can we trust her to be a good mother just like archu was to sachu(I never speak archu's love of soham here, that she completely lost).
Varsha does all as per her whims. she wants soham now. before she wants that only girl in the ashram, always its what she wants and not others. so will she give full love. what if she gets another child of her own tomorrow.
Can anyone think of soham's state at that time. That time this Mahaan couple cannot revert back everything. They cant take soham back. what will be the state of that child's heart and mind.
Then same goes for archu. Can archu stay away from soham forever just like that.
Will she be able to not to see him and be near him. Will she be able to stop herself when she founds that soham was sick or not doing well later. Can she forget him forever.
so ultimately its the child who is going to suffer more in this case.
Because both cannot stand by their decisions.
So Archu taking care of sachu and soham to be given to Varsha is entirely different.
Exactly share the same feelings as you all do. And if mislead by all this, especially Savita, and then sharavni takes sachu away ,there is no fault with her. Savita has spoiled everything for her.
Shravani was so vulnerable these days. though she tries to hold back and be strong, she is a mother too.
When she come back and savita started scheming and making her emotional with sachu only I felt bad for her. That too when sav took sachu for the first time to see her and when sav asked to give a kiss to the kaki and when tears roll down on sharavni's cheeks, felt so bad for her.
If she took sachu away, I wont say she is wrong and for good, once for all, if she takes and never looks back then it is very well fine for the kid.
I too agree that archu and sachu will feel bad and I would lost to see that wonderful bond ,but tho for how long. They will quite adapt to it as sachu was with his biological mom. As they have adapt the current situation they will adapt to it too.
And after some years ,sachu making a visit here and happily having a good time with ARMAn is fine .
But I want this to happen in a good manner without any misunderstandings ,tamashas.
Just archu crying in one corner and sachu having so bad anger at her and leaving with shravani.
I dont wish to see it. I want them to part in good ways for the wonderful bond they shared.
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