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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#31

I have never wanted Archana to divorce Manav ..In fact if anyone mentioned that Jaywant should come back then I always opposed that ..

Even though first in anger I said that Manav should divorce Archana , I don't want it at all...have never wanted it ...

They both love each other and should stay with each other ...

the only time Divorce should happen if Archana just insists on giving Soham to Varsha and puts the child at risk knowingly ...Then Manav should give priority to his little baby no matter what happens ...

If Archana gives Soham to Varsha right now then Manav should have some sort of a seperation til l she comes to her senses ( silent treatment would work very well ) and forgets about this silly guilt trip and stops trying to make up for the mistake that she never really was responsible of

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Shikha

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Posted: 14 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: bonnefille

Manav-Archana share only one brain between each other. So when one is sane, other is completely whacked out.

omg .. classic 🤣 ...

well, yes manav made a few cuckoo decisions .. and I dont think he came out of it unscathed ... he paid for it ...

So if archu dumps soham into varsha's arms without manav's knowledge , then I hope she pays for it too .. when parents lose their kids , esp at a young age ( literally or figuratively .. ) ..sometimes marriages/relationships just dont remain the same ... these kind of things leave a mark forever ... it just cant be "business as usual " in the case of ArMan's relationship ...

Manav should not be expected to behave in the same way with archu like before ... archu maybe "saintly" ( abnormal ) .. but let manav act human , please ! ...

EDIT : wonder how long this protest by manav is going to last ... what if archu does a bhook hartal till manav agrees to give up soham 😆 ...

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#33

If things go to bhook hartal then yes he should tell Archana to tak a hike ...but otherwise a complete cold shoulder and silent treatment has to be implemented as long as it takes ...

I know it will not be easy fr him but he has to do it ...

After all this situation did not happen in one day ..It took 3 years for things to get this ugly ...Manav and Satish too have to take some blame for thinsg being so bad right now ...Satish used to call himself Soham's Papa ...and Manav used to be so detached from Soham ...

Manav just did not see how harmful Varsha was or else he would not have invited her ...Archan still does not see it but she has to or else the baby will suffer ...

I agree that Archana should be punished for saying what she did in the precap .Manav should stop talking to her ...

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Nikita Lakhe

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Posted: 14 years ago

#34

@ Ankifan: I am sorry Ankifan but these same things were said in Ankita's profile page and many other threads and I remember very well that you and many others said this only- Dump the wimp called Manav! Maybe you did not say it yourself but you clicked like button. Remember? I remember very well cos I was BASHED in Anki's profile page.

My intention is not to accuse you, you are welcome to have your own opinion, but just bcos you said 'I am baffled that people are writing about divorce' I had to jump in and defend myself that why not, even you had similar views a few weeks back when Manav yelled at Archana, why baffled about us now? My intention is not to blame you or fight with you, please keep this in mind. Peace.

I also remember once Bonne and I were the only ones who were saying that such things keep happening in marriages but at that time we got little or no support.

@Tanya Di : I said the SAME thing that you are saying. I said that Manav divorcing Archu is acceptable to me IF Archu gives Soham to Varsha without his knowledge. That is it! Before that I myself want Manav to knock some sense into Archana and be strict with her.

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SunoNa123

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Posted: 14 years ago

#35

Oh lunzi i hope that doesnt happenArchana needs medical help as well, manufacturing defect i guessshe is nt a normal human being

Manav sudnt allow it and sudnt listen to archu wt so ever happens, he needs to be firm.

Varsha yest even gt into physical abusing , how can the baby be safe wit such a women😡

manav needs to be very frm about soham nw and nt yeild to archu at all. he sudnt even talk to her until she gets some sense

Satish needs to take varsha to a doc and get her treated, y is he locking her in room?

between priya is dng a grt job as a mentaly unstable women these days.

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SunoNa123

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Posted: 14 years ago

#36

niki i called manav as wimp😲 i hv never called so..

And i click like button to all the posts in her profile. u can go hv a check, i click lik button to al posts as it increases her ranking.

And bout like buttons when archu was so badly bashed fwe days back, u also hv clicked lik buttons when she was called al bad names.. Lets nt get into like buttons , i hv seen many bashing posts of archana nd like buttons being clicked on tat and i hv never raised up an issue bout tat as everyone has their say.

I dnt support archana in this issue. And i neither support divorse and marriag wit someone els.

I hv neither called manav a wimp anytime. And i hv neither said archu sud maryy someone els.

When archana makes a mistake i dnt stand up for her as she is wrng.totally wong in this case regrding soham.

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Shikha

@lunza

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Posted: 14 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
If things go to bhook hartal then yes he should tell Archana to tak a hike ...but otherwise a complete cold shoulder and silent treatment has to be implemented as long as it takes ...
I know it will not be easy fr him but he has to do it ...

After all this situation did not happen in one day ..It took 3 years for things to get this ugly ...Manav and Satish too have to take some blame for thinsg being so bad right now ...Satish used to call himself Soham's Papa ...and Manav used to be so detached from Soham ...

Manav just did not see how harmful Varsha was or else he would not have invited her ...Archan still does not see it but she has to or else the baby will suffer ...

atleast the fathers are trying to set things right now .. better late than never ... both the "mothers" have just gone from bad to worse ..

Honestly , words fail me ...the way archana is shown to give up on soham everytime her sister acts whacko is just creepy .. she wanted to give him up during the first trimester ... she gave him up again .. or rather didnt ask her sister to return him back for one/two years ..( what is he , some plastic container which a neighbour forgets to return ? ) ... and now she again wants to give him up to someone who needs to be admitted to a psych ward.

Feel terrible for satish's parents ... at a age when they are supposed to spend their free time at leisure playing with their grand kids .. or just spending stress free days with their son's family ... they witness some melodrama or the other daily ...

I agree with omana , manav and satish should take soham and sachu and flee the city .. they would make great single dads .. who needs these crazy sisters in their lives ?

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: nikitagmc
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@Tanya Di : I said the SAME thing that you are saying. I said that Manav divorcing Archu is acceptable to me IF Archu gives Soham to Varsha without his knowledge. That is it! Before that I myself want Manav to knock some sense into Archana and be strict with her.

No no baba , don't say that 😭 ...

.I also said that before but not now ...

I am also very very very angry at Archana ,, don't even like her right now but she is being damn foolish ...I can completely understand why Manav fans are furious ...they have every reason to be ..😒

The worst thing she is doing is that she is giving more importance to her own guilt trip over Soham's safety ..Even after seeing how hostile Varsha is , how can she even think of putting her baby in Varsha's care ...Archana is right now being selfish by only trying to ease her own guilt ...I say , to hell with your guilt ...Varsha woman is mentally unstable ...

Manav is the only one who can teach Archan a lesson ,I don't want him to leave her ...

The strangest thing is that no one ( Satish, Sulochna or Archana ) is talking about a doctor ...

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

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Posted: 14 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: Ankifan
niki i called manav as wimp😲 i hv never called so..

Go visit Ankita's profile page. I saw your like button in every post calling Manav wimp. (Previous posts- when I was getting bashed. Manav's nickname in those days was 'Wimpy Dimpy', remember?) Since you are denying vehemently that you did not do it, I will give you benefit of doubt that you did not call it, although I remember so 😊I am not sure whether you will find those posts still there though, cos the mods may have removed them now. It was against IF code of conduct to do name calling on profile page.

Its okay if you want to call Manav wimp by the way😆. Kools Fifi, and many others have also called him wimp earlier. 😆 But profile page pe yeh sab theek nahi lagta na! 😳 Let bygones be bygones, I replied to this only cos you asked me.

Anyways, as I said, my intention is not to start accusations that you did it and so on. I really don't want to fight with anyone. As I wrote above., since you wrote that you are baffled with our views about divorce, that is why I also told you that I'm also baffled with your views cos you said you supported Archana dumping Manav for simple husband quarrels.

Once again, let peace be between us.😊

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: lunza

It's like as if she is guilty that God gave her this blessing and Varsha did not get it ...

Archana has to learn a very hard lesson for being so damn foolish and for being over protective for Varsha ...She is being a bad mother to Soham ..Right now she just does not see that Soham is i danger if he is with Varsha ...

Lunza , do you think Varsha is mentally unstable or is just terribly selfish and ziddi ...
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