Manav's love for Archana makes the heart warm .
Last few days there were many posts about Manav's insensitivity . I never saw it anywhere . In his busy life he is loving her and trying to do everything for her .
He takes her side rightly in front of mom when his mother taunts her where it hurts .
He is so large hearted , he waves aside the fact that his mother is spending his money ...he knows that siding with Archana there will only make his mother hate Archana more .
He is so upset in office when Archana is upset at home that it shows on his face . Vouched for by a co worker . Ashna .
He decides to go in car on Sankashti day not coz he has changed but coz Time Management is his problem ...he has to attend a Meeting . But he goes .
Wife does not leave the opportunity to rub in the BADAL GAYE HO dialogue . She does not directly take his name but says its not right to change At least with God the Maker who gives us everything .
An admirable sentiment . I totally approve of it . Walking barefoot to the temple just like before even when u become rich is laudable indeed .
But God understands . If there is a meeting and Manav goes by car and takes darshan , God only accepts the devotion and the heart ...that he did come to see me . God ignores the car . It doesn't bother him nor does he think less of Manav coz he came in it .
Wife can afford the walking as she has no meeting scheduled and no commitments .
My point is : The understanding Archana displayed about Manav going in car was admirable but she could really cut down the Badana nahi chahiye dialogue .
Manav loves Sachu . Manav chides his mom .Manav gives everything to everyone and Manav has even listened to her and given , loaned , bartered his own son Soham on HER suggestion .
If he has gone wrong its for being too much in love with her . So much that he gave his own child away . So much that he cannot pull her up for her ridiculous proposals of giving own baby away .
Archana's own mother is being decked with gold sets so Manav's mom takes a club membership , fleeced by crooked Rasika .
In both cases its poor Manav whose money is used .
And he is accused of CHANGING . Always . Sometimes overtly , sometimes pleasantly , like today .
I sometimes wonder if Manav should throw his clothes down on the road , tie his chaddi around his head like a bandana and run on the road beating his chest with both hands screaming Archana Archana and roll in the dust to prove his sensitivity to Archana and that he still LOVES her and has not changed .
Why is a positive change being held against Manav ?
No men in high positions have time for romance all the time . Very frankly speaking , even if Manav had NOT gone to the temple due to his meeting but stopped car in front of temple for a minute and joined his hands in momentary devotion , it would have reached God . God is THAT understanding .
Who is NOT understanding is WOMAN . Not ALL . SOME .
Fyi got to see Satish giving Varsha good . Waiting one day for Manav to blow up about his kid . Seems like these two sisters have done some KHICHADI that hubbies have been forced to swallow .
I give a thumbs up to this Manav and request CVS never to make him the old Manav again .
P.S : The Wife is going around with that Sukriti who will fill more and more in her head that Manav Badal Gaye and POVERTY is a state of BLISS .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 14 years ago