Regardng Manav even though I am happy that he is not going to leave Archu but many may not agree but again Manav is going back to square one. Many are seeing the fact that Manav has done enough and he should not go back .I agree he should not give in but I think its time he must realize Savita needs real treatment with a good doc.You dont need to go at least give Damo money and her treated coz with her condition going to get worse ,Manav is the one again going to cry.
I am sorry to say I am amazed that a 30 year old guy like Manav can be so dumb in the sense that his mind only sees the fact that my mom says "she does not love me anyone" and ignores the fact that she needs proper treatment and care.Instead og being ignorant on her health at least he could get some good doctors through Damo and get cured first.Instead sitting in the temple and saying everything will be Ok,nothing will be ok until you do something..I would say put ur words into action which he has not done in Savita's case.
All say Manav did everything he can,I wanted to ask what is the point of asking forgiveness after driving a old lady mad by an ignorant approach.Is that what he keeps saying I did everything !!! What did he do.Has he been visiting his mom regularly or taking care of their expenses ? Archu has to remind him to go and see his mom then how can he keep saying I did everything.
I agree Savita is under fault but Manav is equally under fault for the current mess his ignorant attitude and approach that he decided has cost him and his mom health which is bitter fact...Now its fine be angry with Savita well people had to tell Manav that his mom is sick he cant figure out himself so I dont expect some miracle from Manav...But at least he needs to give priorities on things .Stop his samaj seva and focus on Savita 's treatment.Who is asking Manav to leave Archu dont if Savita is adamant you also be firm dont give up ,you dont want to visit ur mom fine too at least through Damo get her treatment done at least he can do that I believe . Be in your Shawl with wih ur wife dont visit Savita thats Manav's wish but at least he could do is get Savita cured by getting her to good doctors through Damo.Later when Savita is bit alright Damo could tell what all Manav now did that way Savita will start thinking about Manav.
Instead of talking n talking n talking with no action plan and thinking I am going to wait till my mom comes and asks forgiveness then I am sorry it might be too late where Savita might just exist in photo and Manav might go into depression next so I want Manav to think before making decisions which I think everyone here will agree.Continue ur samaj seva for others but get ur mom treated too for God's sake...If not then either Savita will die of this depression or she will go total mental,then what will be the point of all this will Manav be normal then??? so for his sake I think Manav needs to realize this if he really wants to see his mom to make her understand anything he desires then get her treated first and make that as his priority!!!!
PS : Like in precap Savita is going to do and will continue to do all nonsense in idea of trying to forget Manav which she cant after all she is a mother.She is totally sick and is in a very dangerous mode. The challenge to see behind the Mask here...Manav has never been to do that ,he needs to see beyond and understand her by looking into her heart which is saying a different story.If he looks deep into her heart which he has never done he would understand the love Savita has over Manav has turned into some psychic obsession and it needs treatment. In this rage she is doing all the crap which Manav instead of getting angry needs to analyze and get her treatment started through Damo at least.Empty promises in not going to help Savita cured ,Manav needs to understand that if ever he wants to stay as a happy family with Savita accepting Archu ,Savita good health is imp she needs to be alive for that.Otherwise Manav would be talking to Savita's photos in a while n I dont want to even Imagine Manav's condition at that time...He will never forgive himself....For ur sake think before you make decisions Manav please think!!!
Edited by Jaishankar - 14 years ago
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