Yaar Karsri ...
I would like to differ here a bit with you ..I think Savita does love Manav .It is true that even I am angry with he way she has treated her son but I would say that she is a very spoilt woman and the people who are responsible for spoiling her and making her the way she is are Manav, Vandita , Archana and even Shravani ( by giving in to her unreasonable demand and letting her take her baby ) .
Manav toh , uff so much he spoiled her at one time .....he even put sindoor on another woman right there in front of his wife only to make Savita happy .
So it is not right only to blame Savita for the way things are right now ..
Now Manav has totally pulled back , so has Archana , I think he just got fed up of being unhappy and when luck and Sharavni gave him the chance to bring back his happiness ( Archu ) in his life again , he ran like hell to grab it .
...Should he not accept his part in this whole mistake of the way his mother is ...Should he not try and make her see sense , talk to her , convince her .
I mean , till one point he was ready to marry Shravani and let Archana live a horrid life only to please momma and then suddenly takes a big trun and now he wants savita to totally come on his terms ...
He should talk to Savita along with Vandita and tell her ' look mother , we were wrong , you and I were both wrong because I never loved Shraavni and could never stop loving Archana ....why was I then going ahead with a marriage which would only destroy Shravani and Archana's life and you also were wrong because you knew how unhappy I was , then wh ywere you not telling me anything and after I got married why did you not think about my happiness' .
He has to sit and tell her ..Yes blame her ....but also take the blame too .....
He cannot just put the entire blame on Savita now ..He too was terribly unfair to Archana and now he acts as if that part of his life never happened , he too has played a big role in the whole fiasco ..........
In fact the divorce was more his doing then anyone else's ..
Savita did not become this kind of a mother in one day .... it was Manav all the way who was behind her every unreasonable demand , right from the early days of asking for dowry and what not ..And even Archana ...Ok baba , we know you love manav but does that means that you have to maskofy his mother also even if she is unfair ...which she very well did .Now she too has withdrawn because she is scared that savita might seperate her from manav ..
So just blaming Savita is not right I think ...
Every one has to take responsibility ...It goes back a long way ...
Nevertheless I thin kthis matter might get resolved soon as Savita wants to even take Archana back for Manav's sake ...
karsri , pelase don't think that if I opposed your view I don't respect your opinion..Every one has a right to have their say and every opinion is welcome .....
I would agree with you that unless Savita learn to talk to Archana in a civil manner and stops throwing abusive words , I also would not want her to go back and live with her ...
But I hope that all is well between the Deshmukh family .Manav is stubborn and he doesn't say it but he does love his mother a lot and I think he will be very happy if he goes back to her .....with his wife of course ....
Edited by Tanyaz - 14 years ago