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Posted: 15 years ago
OK girls ,I am off to bed , really sleepy ...
G'night ...😊
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Posted: 15 years ago

Taruntulla (sorry I don't know the name you go by) and Varsha,

Taruntulla, Excellent comment on the day care. i like the idea of the day care center or even a nursary up to UKG or even an after school program. I am sure that a grade 9 can teach the UKG kids. There are many women who don't have parents/in laws to take care of their small kids and this type of facility will do well for both parties.
Varsha, I totally agree that the parents should not sell their property and move in with Vinod. They should make sure that the title on their current house is on Solo and Manohar's name and that they have a will to include all her children in it equally.
My mother is a live example where she is living in an apartment while she sold her property over 1/2 million dollars and gave it to her sons. Today she is thun thun gopal....
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Posted: 15 years ago
Archana is what she is because of her social environment . Her mother has always drilled it in her brians that she should sacrifice a lot ..Tanya I don't remember her mother ever telling her to sacrifice. It was within Archo to do things for everyone with her heart.
She was made to give up her studies and treated like a maid in her own house by her younger sisters . Tanya Archo was not made to give up her studies, Archo dropped from school to help raise her siblings as Solochana was too sick to take care of the little ones. No one treated her like a maid. Archu was always there for her family.
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Posted: 15 years ago
Nevertheless , what good did she do when she advised sisters foolioshly to sell their share [ jewels] and give brother the money for second flat ?
Her goodness is foolish
Kool, I agree that Archo was behind in selling all the jewellery for Vinod's flat. This was a maha bevakufi. We know that Archo makes these mahan sacrifices and gets nothing in return.....don't you think that the other 2 sisters should have thought through before committing to selling their jewellery?
but again, when Varsha got married, where did the parents bring the jewellery from? baffles me.
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Tulsey

Kool, I agree that Archo was behind in selling all the jewellery for Vinod's flat. This was a maha bevakufi. We know that Archo makes these mahan sacrifices and gets nothing in return.....don't you think that the other 2 sisters should have thought through before committing to selling their jewellery?
but again, when Varsha got married, where did the parents bring the jewellery from? baffles me.

CVs think we are silly and dont remember that jewelry was sold to give money to Vinod...THis is what bothers me abt indian serials they just can't keep their own S**T together and try to shove anything down our throats...
Varsha being so smart she never told Archu to be strong and independent...She was always for Archu to go back to Manav....Vaishu and Varsha both saw their elder sister like god...worshipped her...
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: bhavli

I pick option 4 👏🥳

Hi Bhavli, what is this option 4 about?
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Tulsey

Hi Bhavli, what is this option 4 about?




The author of the post has a few scenarios...so I just picked the 4th choice...

Check on page 1...at the beginning of the post.... 😊

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Posted: 15 years ago
some times my mind doesn't work properly because of this pavitra rishta between manav & archana
kool you are right that marriage is not a gudde-guddiya khel,
but the main problem exists here is that neither archana understands this thing & is better for us, that we are not talking not manav's understanding capabilities,
baba's last wish was that his son brings his bahu back to their home is can be fulfilled somehow,becoz its not baba's fault in this whole tragic incident

Edited by acrewood - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
You know the easiest way to avoid any remarriage is if Archna goes to Damodar and says ke okay listen buddy I adore you a lot, as much as my own father (probably even more). However, I do not want to heed to your "last" wish ji. I want to be independent and actually achieve something in life that is my own. She can easily tell him, and I'm sure the love he has for his beti will totally understand. If Archna just explains to him that she will be happier in not remarrying. She wants an education and become a support for herself and her parents. He will understand then.
Ek kamre mein baith kar yeh dono baat kar saakte hain. However, b/c this is an Indian drama-masala is always needed ji. Manav can pick up the phone or directly go meet her; tell her the situation. From there Archna can go meet Damodar and talk things over. If she clearly lets him know that this marriage will do nothing for her growth in life, he will not ask for a remarriage.
I find this silly b/c I think if they can just sit and talk; solutions will be found. We don't need chants in the background, winds blowing at 120km/hr, or lightening in the sky to say no I won't marry him again. Just sit down and talk it through. Yeah I know it's the most difficult thing to do in Indian dramas, but surprisingly, talking things through does get us somewhere ji.
If Archna is determined to obtain an education and become her own support and be capable of supporting others, then she should talk to Damodar. If you want masala then get Archna to talk to Damodar. They talk for hours, but no one else knows about this. Then on the D-day after Shravni walks out, and Savita tells Manav to take this sindoor etc etc-Archna should come there. Just as Manav is about to put sindoor in her maang, she should hold his hand and say no. After the shocked faces of everyone is shown 2-3 times, Damodar should come and say he is with Archna. Even I would watch the episode if this happens lol.
So yeah in short, Archna should go talk to Damodar and make him understand that remarriage is not her calling in life; education is.
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Posted: 15 years ago
the character is named "Manav" - Is he human ?

the character is named "Archana" - Yes, she is offering herself all the time.

the character is named "Shravani" - version of "shravan" who took care of his old and blind parents. now what mockery is naming this character after Shravan?

the character is named "Ajit" - What has he won, Is he the winner of all

the character is named "Rasika" - She only enjoys others humiliation, what kind of "rasikta " is that?

the character is named "Vandita" - Are we supposed to salute (do vandan) to this abuse taking spouse and bahu?

the character is named "vinod" - Of course he is a joke, can't manage his wife


I guess, I should have known the serial in and out in the first few episodes itself - just from their names.

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