If she has done anything to hurt herself it will in fact can work against her as well. Ashwin can easily say that just to gain your sympathy she has done such a sin. Causing BA and Satish to furth mistrust her. I think what she needed to do was be her old self. A powerful leader types, that has emense self-respect and inner strength to fight for what is right!........just as you said how can they not trust a bahu vs son-in-law, those are the exact lines she needs to tell BA, and even bigger to Satish "how can you not trust your wife but trust your brother-in-law" If the basis of their relationship has no trust then what good is their relationship. She should also remind him that she has tried many many times to tell him her past, but "HE" was the one that said he had no interest in her past. She also needs to put one big question on the table that no one has thought about bringing up. They are only listening to Ashwins side of the story, WHAT PROOF DOES HE HAVE THAT CAN PROVE WHAT HE IS SAYING IS THE ULTIMATE TRUTH.?? It is only his word against hers. She can bring multiple witness that can vouch for her innocence, but what proof does Ashwin have?? BA and Satish respect ArMaan greatly and know they would not lie because it would break a marriage (Ashwin and Satish's sister), so y not bring them to center stage. Sav Aai and Vandu can also put the cherry on top and say its a game played by RA. Varsha has far more people on her side the Ashwin, then what is the reason to let your hands down and quite on life?? I think that is STUPID! She needs to be her fighter self again then a wimp and bow down to a creep like ASSwin!😡
Edited by taral83 - 15 years ago