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Posted: 16 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: SUKK4ever

I dont see why he wouldn't do to manju what he did to archu and i seriously don't think it was his fault at all. The poor guy watched his whole family get beaten up and couldn't do anything and those shameless people (with the exception of archu,varshu,vaishu😊 )were all looking at him like they deserved what they got.🤢 when it comes down to it i prefer savita big time over sulochana true that savita is really greedy but at least she admits it sulochana acts like shes the best mother in the world then tells her daughter to get remarried despite the fact that she loves manav. She even considers the possibility that manav is innocent but still doesn't want her going back to him as her saas is bad is that any reason??? Usne saas ke saath shaadi ki hai kya. Also manav helped varsha with the whole ashwin issue and all he got in return was having to watch his sister being abused.🤢 Manav always defended archana in front of his mother even when there was the whole necklace issue and also when she saw archu with satish and called her a charitrataheen (characterless) women. Archana on the other hand never bothered. And if archana was called a whore wasn't is sulochana who started the whole thing by calling manav exactly that even before savita
Coming to finally him twisting her hand i really don't think its that big of a deal. She's a 28 year old women not a little kid, vandu on the other hand was abused much more than what manav did and she is still only in college. her whole life has pretty much been ruined because of archana's stupid family.😡🤢 and also if vinod can't see archana in even that much pain then why doesn't he understand how manav must have felt. and hand twisting compared to danda hitting are two really different things
I was talking about this with my mum, he should just show her the tape that proves himself innocent and then find someone else and marry her.😉 or they should reunite and run away from their families so we don't have to watch their mothers argue like little kids all the time.🤢
sorry if hurt anyone i am a very biased manav fan😳

Yeah it is obvious from your post that ur a die hard fan . 😊
That said , can't resist commenting on two things .
U asked is the saas being bad any reason for a mother [ Sulochna] not to send her daughter to her sasuraal . The reason u gave is Usne saas ke saath shaadi ki hai kya .
Well , my dear , if the husband is not going to stay seperate it does matter if the saas is bad or not . Just physically sleeping with one's hot handsome husband at night does not guarantee happiness for any girl if she is going to be a housewife and spend the larger part of the day with a dominating person like Savita who makes life miserable for her . Saas plays larger role in life than husband even at a certain point . Phere husband ke saath hote hai par zindagi saas ke saath nibhani padti hai for Indian girls in joint family . So Sulochanas concern over Savita is Perfectly right .
Your comment on Archana beng 28 year old , not a kid and twisting the arm is no big deal is absolutely horrifying in my opinion . Yes it is a big deal , a very big deal . 28 years , 22 years , 18 years does not matter here . What matters is the violence . Vandu was smaller in age and so she got a beating and that was more horrifying than twisting of Archnas arm seems to be ur argument here and it stuns me ! No one shud get a beating ............Vandu or Archana. The policewoman who did it shud be put behind bars by Manav if he has the guts to pusue the case . Archana is Not responsible for getting Manavs family behind bars . Neither did she tell the police to beat Vandu . What Manav has done is he has let that fat policewoman go scot free and removed all anger on Archana without listening to the truth that she did NOT COmplain to the police . Hitting your wife to defend your family is no mardaangi . His mother is a real piece of work ..........not a saadhvi . Usne jo gul khilaye hai na Manju ke saath friendship karke uska yeh natija hai .........yeh maar jo usne khaya police chowki mein .
You havent hurt me ...........so dont say sorry you r perfectly entitled to ur opinion . You urself admitted ur Manavs biased fan . All that is ok , but I cud not resist telling you my opinion about twisting a womans arm............It is indeed a big deal .
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Posted: 16 years ago
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What Manav has done is not worth defending. The script has many loopholes. Of course his family was tortured in the lock up thats what made him react like this. But WHY HE DIDN'T SHOUT AT MANJU for this? Did he see Archana doing this? So why can't he simply understand that Manju is Ajit's sister and it might be their act?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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UMMMM no i dont think so Manav was out of line he dint twist her arm to hurt her but to prove a point.. Yes Archu was mistreated at Manav's house but it was only Sav no1 else ever hurt her.. But the punishment was given to whole family even though Archu didnt do it but if u r blaming Manav for Davita's Abuses den u should blame Archu for all the jails sequence.. Manav just was proving that how hurtful it is to see ur family getting beaten up in front of u wne u cant do nething but to just stand n watch.. The point is clearly proven by him after that it was just for seconds n Vinod came ahead, he will realise wat Manav went to through in Jail..

I strongly disagree with ur statement that Manav was outta line but its just my opinion...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Nooooo i don't completely agree that Manav was way out line.
When Sulochana told Manav was dalal and slapped in front of every one and not even giving a chance for Manav to speak and Sulcohana did not even have a heart when Manav begged to speak to Archu and in spite of that we expect Manav to use his brain and Manjusha has done this to save her brother during the time where is family is beaten up and humiliated by asking why haven't u slept with wife???
How he slap Manju when Archu family is defending Manju act saying that Manju did right every thing why should he slap her to go jail again???
Manav defending his aayi he told that ye kya tarika hai badla le ka it means he is saying that yes his aayi did hurt Archu but not by beating and Manav twisting Archu hand was not intensionally he just wanted to show Vinod that Archu family should complained against him not his family especially Vandu.
Why is that always a guy who is married has understand all problem and feelings of girl what he is not even have a right to come and ask why his family members were in jail for two days but mother can slap him and insult him no of times and way???
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I don't know I'm sick of this track i was shocked that 150 episodes are already completed and more than half of them
being ArMan fighting I just want manjusha exposed and ArMan to reunite but since the trps are so high I don't think it's happening anytime soon 😭 And in Canada it's only on the part when manav signs the divorce papers so even if the do reunite I have to wait 1 and half month to watch it
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Archana's main fault was that she took some time to break away from her mother's influence . She should have heard him out but only because she was afraid of hurting her Aie , she didn't .
And then slowly she started to realize what the man really means to her , but now it is too late .
Manav is going to be really nasty to her . She has no choice but to put up with it and keep fighting for her husband .
Still , I am happy the way her character is developing now .
Edited by Tanyaz - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Don't worry guys...take a chillpill ....Vinod will twist Manjusha's arm oneday...when he realises wat a b@##@ h😉is wife has been....
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Posted: 16 years ago
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@koolsadhu1000:
I am not die hard fan of manav.....................I also initially thought that he did wrong.................but remember he wanted all to realize the pain he has suffered......................dont forget.................MANAV DID THIS TO ARCHU NOT VARSHU OR VAISHALI WHICH SHOWS THAT STILL HE THINKS THAT HE HAS GOT THAT MUCH RIGHT TO DO SO................you scold or twist arms of those whom u think is your close one.............AND manav will not twist arm of manju as he has no right, but surely vinod will do...........this doesnt mean that vinod dont love manju.............
But still there is just a littttttttttle harsh one by manv, but its alright as his intention was not to hurt archu rather than make all realize her pain...........
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

Manav tried to prove a point by twisting Archu's arm, her family rushed to stop Manav but Manav couldn't do that for his family. Manav was helpless while his mom and sister were beaten for nothing. The pain and the anger that Manav is feeling right now is understandable.



well said!!!
some things has to told the hard way!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

<FONT color=#990000>Manav was way out of line today . Even if his full family was put in jail and according to him Archu is dicey ..............still he cannot go and twist her arm like this . This is exactly the torture that the police were talking about .

1] If Manav finds out about the liason between Manju and his sainted mom ............if he stumbles on to it that Manjus family was the one who wrecked his satyanarayan pooja and also put his family in jail ............will Manav have the guts to twist Manju's arm like this ? No .Coz Manju won't stand for it inspite of being wrong . Similiarly will Manav twist savita's arm like this when he finds about her liason with Manju.......a fact he is blissfully unaware of till now ? No . Why ? Coz Savita is his mother . Then why this right over Archu ? Coz he believes that a husband can get away doing this to a wife as she ' belongs ' to him in a property kind of way ?

Will This serial correct this display of stupid manliness or concept of a spouse please ?


2] Manav did a lot of emotional talk about Savita . Savita may do lot of things but she never hit was his biggggg argument . So that makes his mom's behaviour okay ? Exactly what did that idiotic statement mean ? He even asked the chawl people for support ...........the same chawl people whom sAvita had insulted repeatedly , picked up fights with , and even got physical with . Was Manav seriously expecting those people with whom Savita never bothered to maintain good relations ever to be on Savitas side ?


3] Going to the girls family and twisting the girls arm after spending two days in a police lock up is pretty stupid isnt it ? Till now , Manav was everything but not stupid . This is not a sensible move . This time he can really go for a week in jail and even Girishji cannot bail him . Did it strike Manav that Sulochna actually took him in the house , she cud have told him to get out from the door step itself ? Did it strike him that twice Archana had come to jail to set him free ? This clearly shows that Manav was acting brainlessly ...............a fact that his die hard fans will justify by saying what else do u expect the poor man had spent two days in jail .


4] He showed Savitas bruises to the Karanjkars ...........but he was unaware till the end of all the emotional bruises his sainted mom had inflicted on Archana with her dowry demands which is a legal crime . What exactly wud the Karanjkars feel upon seeing those bruises ? Savita had stood outside their door and informed their neighbours that their daughter was a prostitute . Inspite of seeing the bruises if the Karanjkars remained unmoved wud they be so wrong ? Why wud anyone be this moved about Savita except Manav of course ?


5] Tomorrow if Savita filled Manavs ears about Archu he wud twist her arm in the house if Savita showed him fake bruises ? Coz his nautanki mom is surely capable of that . The fact remains that Manav chose to resort to violence without proof that Archna actually did that complaint . So this is his tendency ?


6] Of course he is not practical enough to realize that his mother is not exactly dudh ki dhuli..........not bathed in milk herself , that her public tamashas went against her . Manju made use of all the public tamashas that Savita did ............but Manav never asked his mother even once why u did this with Archna ...........yet he asked the Karanjkars that question .


7] Is Manav going to be a hero because he is going to bleed that same hand that twisted Archanas arm as a punishment to his great lover heart ? And this shud make it ok ? How corny and stupid can this serial get ? Will someone please apprise Manav that irrespective of the fact whether the lover in him still lives or not .........its his choice to cut his hand or do whatever he wishes , IT IS NOT HIS CHOICE OR RIGHT TO TWIST HIS WIFE"S ARM HOWMUCHEVER ANGRY HE MAY BE ? DIVORCED OR NOT > MARRIED Or UNMARRIED HE CANNOT DO IT TO ANY FIANCEE OR WIFE ?


The worst part is him dragging Savita and telling her to boldly enter the Karanjkar home . For the first time Savita was scared of going there .............and it was high time . Hundred times she had gone there stood on their doorstep and blasted them . Just when she was learning her lesson , Manav spoilt it all by emboldening her once more ...............in this way when will Savita ever learn in this serial ? That day he shielded her from his father's wrath , today , he defied police orders for her and told her not to be scared of the Karanjkars . This is in a way encouraging his already spoilt mom . She will bounce back in full form thanks to him .


I am fed up of seeing the horror story called Savita being paraded by Manav as if she was some Madonna sent from heaven . "POOR ' Savita indeed ! She single handedly wrecked two lives by joining hands with Manju the snake and when the snake bit her she is doing a hoo haa and her son is echoing it !


Please stop this crude display of manliness immediately . It is as crass as Savita .


PS : I wud love to hear your answers to my question : Will Manav dare to twist Manju's arm when she is found out to prove a point to Vinod .


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I agree with your points 100%, although I like Manav's character, I would not condone that kind of behavior from someone who doesn't see both sides of the coin. He never saw when Archana was being taken advantage of by his saintly mother, but is quick to jump to her defense when she is wronged, that is double standard in my opinion.

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