Toxic Relationship

Im finding more and more the CV are showing an overdependancy of Babes on Minni. It's coming to the point where Minni is being suffocated.

This is becoming a toxic Relationship

One the hand you have Minni with her constant mahantha and weird crying smiling thing she won't stop doing. If it were a healthy relationship she would speak her mind to Babes

On the other hand is Babes who is coming off as more and more unstable and needy these days. Her outburst with Khurannas was needed but not the way she did it. I mean Lovely deserved all of it..but I felt for Minnies dadu the most. His heart was broken. For those thinking he did nothing to help Babes...well Babes did NOTHING to help herself during those 17 years. She has blamed everybody including Minnie but never herself. Why didn't she say to her inlaws she wants to be with Ashok? Why didn't she say make Lovely do the housework and help out? She cannot blame her quietness and weakness on others..17 frigging years and she did nothing said nothing. Sorry but she is also to blame for it as well.

The CVs need to stop screwing with the characters so much. I was miffed at the precap...Babita seems like she constantly finding a way to break the relationship...she told HS she will choose her ego over him and now it's Minni over him...why so she can blame Minni for the break of this relationship as well?

To the CV..I get people are flaws but your writing as of late is making them screwy. HS doubting Minnie and questioning her was so out of the blue and out of character. Then Babes kind of does the same when she asks Minni again if she wants her to not marry HS. AGAIN.

Minni has been running ragged planning a wedding alone to what...have it cancelled?

What rubbish!

I agree with you. CVS making PB more dramatic twisted one like Ekta serial. The dramas from the beginning of the marriage is like too much. It's as though HANITHA have to look after Minne and Minni is the new Mahaan, sacrificing lead of PB while HS and Babitha characters are butched and now going to more. I think from Imarti track CVS butched babitha character and HS character yesterday pointing out on Minnie didn't have trust on her today he didn't even look at her and Minne drifting backing herself consoling khuranas when she herself removed Khurana name from her surname why she is feeling bad for lovely still couldn't understand ?

CVS make khichi and overdose of Minne can HANITHA relationship exist only because of Minne can't CVS show a second marriage complications of couples instead always about Minnie and can we get to see Minnie become a 18 year old girl and a mother Babitha with a husband and father HS....I am really depressed with these stupid dramas hope TRPS down and then only CVS can understand what viewers are expressing what a toxic relationship..

I feel bad for lally when he sees HS and he figures out on the 2nd day that all is not well his Sir sab life and this well upset him for sure he only wanted the best for his friend and now seeing him like a zombie is going to remind him of Nayeem Be warning and he his going to be upset for sure for his Sir sab.

Even worse was when HS asked him for Tea and Lally asked about Babita and poor HS was struggling to find the answer to this simple question.

Very sad for HS, I know wish that he had said no after the CD issue, as it would have a lot better than this.

Iska matalab HS future me he can’t ask questions or can’t be angry or sad on Babita or minni?

He needs to be outsider always. So they both think he doesn’t have any haq on them🤔🤫

Pre cap lines of Babita makes me think that it might shed light on Babita's part in her breakup with Ashok. She has till date blamed everyone, all Khuranas including Mini for the break up. But she never took single blame upon herself. If she does what said in pre cap, then she and she alone will be responsible for her tensed relationship with HS., She cannot blame anyone, not even Mini. Poonam will thus be right. Babita destroys her own projects due to her own ego.

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Im finding more and more the CV are showing an overdependancy of Babes on Minni. It's coming to the point where Minni is being suffocated.

This is becoming a toxic Relationship

One the hand you have Minni with her constant mahantha and weird crying smiling thing she won't stop doing. If it were a healthy relationship she would speak her mind to Babes

On the other hand is Babes who is coming off as more and more unstable and needy these days. Her outburst with Khurannas was needed but not the way she did it. I mean Lovely deserved all of it..but I felt for Minnies dadu the most. His heart was broken. For those thinking he did nothing to help Babes...well Babes did NOTHING to help herself during those 17 years. She has blamed everybody including Minnie but never herself. Why didn't she say to her inlaws she wants to be with Ashok? Why didn't she say make Lovely do the housework and help out? She cannot blame her quietness and weakness on others..17 frigging years and she did nothing said nothing. Sorry but she is also to blame for it as well.

The CVs need to stop screwing with the characters so much. I was miffed at the precap...Babita seems like she constantly finding a way to break the relationship...she told HS she will choose her ego over him and now it's Minni over him...why so she can blame Minni for the break of this relationship as well?

To the CV..I get people are flaws but your writing as of late is making them screwy. HS doubting Minnie and questioning her was so out of the blue and out of character. Then Babes kind of does the same when she asks Minni again if she wants her to not marry HS. AGAIN.

Minni has been running ragged planning a wedding alone to what...have it cancelled?

What rubbish!

Bold 1- completely true imo (they all will benefit from counselling). Speaking up for yourself is one thing, constant emotional outbursts then backtracking and blaming others for the outburst is a cry for help.

Bold 2: how confusing this character of babita is. On the one hand she’s meant to be silent, quiet, selfless, and someone who endures for the sake of other ppl and their happiness and on the other hand she’s got this massive ego. I find it hard imagining someone who’s both! Ppl with egos are not silent and quiet, ppl with egos can actually be quite selfish, always putting themselves first and themselves being most important.

More and more babita is coming across as tho she’s got some sort of personality or bipolar disorder. I think the writers need to rethink how they’re approaching her character.

More and more it’s seeming to me like this wedding has possibly been rushed. I just hope mini doesn’t get blamed if babita regrets it after a fight for eg like how mini was blamed for her staying married to ashok

Originally posted by: deefy89

Bold 1- completely true imo (they all will benefit from counselling). Speaking up for yourself is one thing, constant emotional outbursts then backtracking and blaming others for the outburst is a cry for help.

Bold 2: how confusing this character of babita is. On the one hand she’s meant to be silent, quiet, selfless, and someone who endures for the sake of other ppl and their happiness and on the other hand she’s got this massive ego. I find it hard imagining someone who’s both! Ppl with egos are not silent and quiet, ppl with egos can actually be quite selfish, always putting themselves first and themselves being most important.

More and more babita is coming across as tho she’s got some sort of personality or bipolar disorder. I think the writers need to rethink how they’re approaching her character.

More and more it’s seeming to me like this wedding has possibly been rushed. I just hope mini doesn’t get blamed if babita regrets it after a fight for eg like how mini was blamed for her staying married to ashok

I am glad you brought this up. The CVs should write with some clarity. They should not make fun of mental health problems. Bipolar disorder is a serious problem and the person needs counseling. The character of Babita is becoming ridiculous with each passing day. CVs seem very confused about what to do with her.

I think CVs just have one thing left to do...they will show Mini buying some wings from the market and tying them to Babita and also tying a hot air balloon behind her and help her to fly. 🤣

Originally posted by: rose1000

I am glad you brought this up. The CVs should write with some clarity. They should not make fun of mental health problems. Bipolar disorder is a serious problem and the person needs counseling. The character of Babita is becoming ridiculous with each passing day. CVs seem very confused about what to do with her.

I think CVs just have one thing left to do...they will show Mini buying some wings from the market and tying them to Babita and also tying a hot air balloon behind her and help her to fly. 🤣

Hehe they do overdo it with that “fly” thing they’re always saying. 🤣

And yeah I agree they seem confused. I’ve said on another thread also, that for every step forward she takes, she seems to take a few back. So far all she seems to have properly done is gotten financial independence although I don’t know if this counts as she wouldn’t have done it without mini and Hs, and still depends on mini for decision making in the business. Recently they’ve started portraying her as child like, which is different from the initial quite, naive dutiful person she was. And then just to confuse things, ego is thrown in the middle.

Perhaps they could explain this inconsistency by doing a mental illness storyline. It wouldn’t be too far fetched cos everything she’s been through could either point to bipolar or PTSD. Something that explains how she reverts from mother to child in an instant.

Very often mental health is portrayed as crazy, if anyone can do it justice I think that PB could.

Each need counselling separately and they need counselling together also

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Im finding more and more the CV are showing an overdependancy of Babes on Minni. It's coming to the point where Minni is being suffocated.

This is becoming a toxic Relationship

>> exactly !

One the hand you have Minni with her constant mahantha and weird crying smiling thing she won't stop doing. If it were a healthy relationship she would speak her mind to Babes

>> mini suddenly feels so changed , i know her love for her babes is very unconditional but something inside her is totally shaken , i think during the diary writing time we will know what she really says about it .

On the other hand is Babes who is coming off as more and more unstable and needy these days. Her outburst with Khurannas was needed but not the way she did it. I mean Lovely deserved all of it..but I felt for Minnies dadu the most. His heart was broken. For those thinking he did nothing to help Babes...well Babes did NOTHING to help herself during those 17 years. She has blamed everybody including Minnie but never herself. Why didn't she say to her inlaws she wants to be with Ashok? Why didn't she say make Lovely do the housework and help out? She cannot blame her quietness and weakness on others..17 frigging years and she did nothing said nothing. Sorry but she is also to blame for it as well.

>> thats the thing about the outburst , yes she has put the harsh realities but unfortunately she has no idea that what she calls as her tolerance & just withstanding of relations has straight gonna affect minni . infact remember the poison thing which hanuman mentioned in one of the episodes when he had to apologize to babita after confession , that poison which she has successfully hidden for long has started coming out , that day it affected hanuman singh now its minni .

minni has directly linked it to the fact if babes had so much hatred for her past then its highly possible that she has some bitter conviction for her as well afterall she is the product of that previous marriage . also these days babita has become highly unpredictable minni cannot guess the mind of her mother anymore , this sharp shift is too sudden off course creatives hv made it this way for the reasons best known to them but unintentionally words of kammo r pricking this 17 yr old girl more firmly now .

minni definitely had it against khurannas but , time & again her mother taught her respecting them , not misbehaving with them & all the family values . so far with time as their natures were minni just accepted them the way they were & said it on their face what she felt whether rude or soft , in the same fashion she is also used to her mother's nature which she always felt it be very innocent & loving so it was totally out of her imagination that till this day babes was only tolerating them , & fiercely hates them . suddenly all her childhood memories & some of the basic beliefs were just based on lie , now another LIE .

though it was lovely , damn drama queen who provoked this . both she & beeji deserved it , as beeji too flips very easily . coming to dadu , his problem was he could never really stood by his resolve always had to give up infront of beeji's tears but he genuinely loved mother - daughter , he was the one who proposed babita for remarriage not for mini sake but for babita sake , for him it is too much to bear & mini understands this hence cannot stop herself from visiting them .

The CVs need to stop screwing with the characters so much. I was miffed at the precap...Babita seems like she constantly finding a way to break the relationship...she told HS she will choose her ego over him and now it's Minni over him...why so she can blame Minni for the break of this relationship as well?

>> when will she understand she is not the only victim , & when she does it why can't she maintain her manner by less hurting the man who wants to do so much for her .

To the CV..I get people are flaws but your writing as of late is making them screwy. HS doubting Minnie and questioning her was so out of the blue and out of character. Then Babes kind of does the same when she asks Minni again if she wants her to not marry HS. AGAIN.

>> afterall its a daily soap.....😉

Minni has been running ragged planning a wedding alone to what...have it cancelled?

What rubbish!

>> lately minni has so much emotionally burdened herself with the wedding that now all her emotions r in mess , she is not able to handle herself .

At least they shouldn’t promoted much awaited shadi, instead unwanted shadi promote karte hops nahi hoti na 😢