Well without a doubt Siddhi has most impact on Kunal than anyone else.
Siddhi pushing Kunal to take up responsibilities was expected and all, but their confrontation yesterday, I feel it went too far.
First of all Kunal was already questioning himself indicated through mirror scene and all. Siddhi dear did go and added salt to it. Now don't get me wrong. I agree that Siddhi needed to be tough and give it to Kunal right on his face. Kunal needed to face harsh reality and there was no easy way to do it. I appreciate her pointing out Kunal's inaction, drinking and big dialogues that bring nothing good. Good Siddhi didn't hesitate but still she made few mistakes.
First mistake, why lie? She said "she knew Kunal will not succeed in taking care of kids, that's why she gave him the custody to prove him wrong". Why lie? Why not say she hoped may be Kunal will at least do this correct, but he failed even here. Doesn't he get tired of constantly failing? But no, she decided to lie instead.
Second and most important one was comparing to Abhay and supporting Abhay's words about him being a looser. Forget about MUs; but bringing Abhay and his words were too much. Reason Abhay was able to insult Kunal was MONEY. Siddhi suggested Abhay was better because he was able to bring MONEY. Sure Siddhi needed to push Kunal to think about financial stability, but EVERYTHING came down to MONEY. Kunal himself acknowledged lack of money cost him so much today. I say here Siddhi pushed too much. Yes she needed to show Kunal his weaknesses, but in process she disregarded all of Kunal. Her words hinted that Kunal the way he is right now is completely worthless, all due to lack of "MONEY".
What concerned me most is Kunal himself saying so far he gave importance to being a good person, love, relationship and principles. But all that matters is MONEY and he is a looser because he has no money. He failed everywhere because no MONEY. His thinking suggested now his focus will be simply on money and nothing else. All that makes Kunal as a person is meant nothing, only MONEY matters.
I was hoping to see Siddhi giving tough love and showing Kunal ugly reality and his failures. But she actually insulted all of Kunal; good and bad. Sure she needed to push right buttons, but she pushed all of the buttons. Her approach showed she has little to no respect and trust on Kunal. She had once before challenged Kunal in better way, yesterday she provoked him to edge. Kunal saying he should die if he breaks his promise of never drinking shows he is pushed too much now. His insistence on changing completely does not seem good sign. I sure wanted him to change, but not make compromises. It will not be good for him, Siddhi or even kids. So far Kunal is still connected to kids, hope that keeps him near by.
What I absolutely hated is Siddhi did all this because Raj asked her to😡 Last time she did what Veena wnated, this time Raj. When will you learn woman? This nonsense about acting mahaan and push Kunal by being "buri aurat" is highly irritating.🤢
I agree Siddhi's intentions are noble. But that doesn't mean you go all the way with insults, taunts and declare all of Kunal as worthless. When truth will come out, it may hurt Kunal more that Siddhi needed to lie to make him to do this???
Edited by jay_bpm - 12 years ago