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Siddhi I beg you not to repeat your mistakes again.
What do I mean? For starter, stop listening to family and kids on how to handle Kunal. Seriously woman; of all people you are the one who has most power over Kunal, more than even himself. So stop listening to others on what to do. You already acted bit stupid by thanking Abhay because Raj said so. Please do not blindly follow what Raj wants. 9 years ago you followed what Veena wanted. You did what she wanted, not really what was best for Kunal or you. Now please don't do whatever Raj says as what he thinks is best. You may think they care about Kunal and understand him; not really. Their care for Kunal is limited in ways. Please act like a wife first, then a mother rather than acting like a daughter-in-law. If not for you, please for Kunal.
Second thing is please don't act like mahaan devi. You said you want Kunal to have confidence, believe in himself, be strong enough to fight Abhay no matter what. Well for that you need to start by respecting him. If you respect him, you should help him genuinely, not lie to him, and please don't undermine him. Stop thinking this might hurt him, I must not say this, I must act bad to push him, etc. If you really want him to stand on his feet, let him handle things without undermining him whenever you can. If he gets hurt due to reality, fails because his opponent is too powerful, so be it. Not saying just stand on side, no help him with honesty. Don't help him in pity. 9 years ago you thought you were helping him, well did you really? So stop referencing his ego, anger or hurt; just be honest as that' the best thing you can do.
Last, most important factor; stop this nonsense about Kunal hates you. You saw he was pathetic without you. Your son exposed him in open court. You saw him drunk and even completely conscious as how much he loves you. He really is incomplete without you. So don't go on how he already hates you so mind as well act that way, blah blah... He loves you more than anything, just be yourself.
Basically Siddhi dear, I beg you to be you. You know him more than anyone else, he's you family. So be wife first, provide genuine care and acceptance like you did before. Don't start some stupid game for C-family, putting up some facade to boost him. That will hurt him more than help like it did for 9 long years.
Be selfish and think for your happiness for a change.
Anupamaa
Health and Fitness
