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Posted: 13 years ago
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In today's episode, when Kunal asked Siddhi If she is angry because he fought the case without her help? She thought that there is no hope left in this case (which she has been saying since the beginning of the case) still he was able to save her, so she might be feeling he is better lawyer than her?

I thought by saying this he has raised a very valid point because I have always felt that Siddhi believes that she can handle any situation much better than Kunal that's why she always not only herself hides information from him and tries to deal with every situation on her own without involving Kunal in it, but also tells others (ViRa) to hide information from him thinking that because of his anger he will screw up things and she can handle everything better than him?

I personally feel it's Siddhi's insecurity, ego, and inferiority complex that is preventing her to co-operate Kunal in this case. She doesn't have ultimate faith in him that he might be better than her and Thakaral to actually win this case. In the past, in 2011 episodes, she used to say he is a great lawyer, but lately she has been feeling and indicating differently. She wanted to fight his rape case not only as a lawyer, but also as a wife and risked even her life(in the final hearing) to win that case for him, so why can't she understand he is doing the same thing here trying to protect her and his unborn baby by risking even his own life? It's okay for her to risk her life for Kunal, but it's not okay with him trying to do the same for her? Her getting upset over it is understandable, but trying to leave him for good? Isn't that sheer insanity?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Rani, there have always been ego problems between the two and even siddhi accepts that,, but I don't think she considers herself a better lawyer. She does hide stuff from kunal which is not correct. But her intentions were never bad. She loves him a lot and even today wanted to get him out of the case with Vira's help. I am glad Vik declined👏. I agree her judgement is wrong and she lands herself in trouble almost always but that doesn't mean she does not think highly of kunal.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: hima2012

Rani, there have always been ego problems between the two and even siddhi accepts that,, but I don't think she considers herself a better lawyer. She does hide stuff from kunal which is not correct. But her intentions were never bad. She loves him a lot and even today wanted to get him out of the case with Vira's help. I am glad Vik declined👏. I agree her judgement is wrong and she lands herself in trouble almost always but that doesn't mean she does not think highly of kunal.


I used to think the same way Hima, but not after today. Today she was very crude, nasty, and insulting to him. Calling him a bad husband and lawyer, not done👎🏼. Going to convince Vik even after Kunal's explanation regarding his move in the court yesterday, proves she doesn't think he can win this case from Thakaral. Not liking this egoistic, mean and nasty Siddhi a bit. She is saying all these hurtful thigs to Kunal because she loves him? Well, if this is her being loving than I wonder how would she be in her nasty avatar. Not sure why CVs are showing he such a poor light that I almost won't feel bad If SiNal separate😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hey I don't agree with you Rani, no offense but I don't think Sidhi considers herself a better lawyer then Kunal or it is ego problem here.
if you remember Kunal too, even after being barred fighting case for was against sidhi fighting his case and we thought it was his ego but eventually as it turned out, it was to protect Sidhi from thakarals and similarly Sidhi knows she has committed a crime and she will be punished and since she loves him doesn't want him to get involved in all this and ruin his life..

To be honest , the way she is handling things might be wrong but her intentions are noble.when we love some one , we are ready to die for that person but we don't want that person to even get hurt for/due to us . isn't that true??
Kunal was ready to sacrifice his freedom, his career to save Sidhi in the rape case.. and here she wants him to stay out of all this to save him...so when Kunal was not wrong , how can sidhi be..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: d.padmini

hey I don't agree with you Rani, no offense but I don't think Sidhi considers herself a better lawyer then Kunal or it is ego problem here.
if you remember Kunal too, even after being barred fighting case for was against sidhi fighting his case and we thought it was his ego but eventually as it turned out, it was to protect Sidhi from thakarals and similarly Sidhi knows she has committed a crime and she will be punished and since she loves him doesn't want him to get involved in all this and ruin his life..

To be honest , the way she is handling things might be wrong but her intentions are noble.when we love some one , we are ready to die for that person but we don't want that person to even get hurt for/due to us . isn't that true??
Kunal was ready to sacrifice his freedom, his career to save Sidhi in the rape case.. and here she wants him to stay out of all this to save him...so when Kunal was not wrong , how can sidhi be..


I have always felt that Siddhi has ego problems and even she has admitted it many a times that they have ego hassles. I am not saying It's okay with me If Kunal has it and not fine with Siddhi having it. I have always criticized even Kunal when-ever he has behaved in illogical and irrational manner and similarly I am criticizing Siddhi for her irrational and unapologetic behavior. It's okay for you not to agree with me because there are many occasions when I don't agree with you or others and that's what makes this forum so much fun - different people having different opinions.

I feel that Siddhi always feels the need to handle any given situation on her own rather than involving Kunal because she firmly believes that she is capable of handling it better than Kunal. Her character does seem to suffer from inferiority complex at times.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I knew you would agree with me Vidhi😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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one more valid point that kunal raised was "tumhe law ki degree diyi kisne" which was the doubt raised a long before to me😆
sry no offence
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i dont think siddhi has an any inferiority complex or she considers herself a better lawyer dan kunal ..thats not the case ..agreed she is very egoistic nd impulsive ..but yesterday the things she said to kunal , i am sure she dint mean any of it ...its just her concern , her fear for her hubby,,that made her say such harsh words ..wen she said aap bahut buri hain doesnt mean dat she actually feels so ...in her anger she said all dat...
again i am not justfying her actions as she is highly at fault this time ..but still i dont feel she doubts her husband's lawyer abilties ...she just doesnt want to see him any trouble ..but her approach towards this is for sure wrong..
nd wen kunal said those words to her ,he said it as aa joke only i guess ..nothing serious abt it..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I dont think siddhi was insulting him Rani...

Yaar uska concern woh gusse se nikal rahi thi...
Kunal bhi to aisa hi karta hei na...

Aur jab woh anap shanap bole jaa rahi thi kunal bhi hass raha tha...
He understood its her concern thats making her speak like that...

Jab kunal ko hi samajh mein aa gaya siddhi ka intention to humein bhi to siddhi ko samajhna chahiye...

To be frank if i would have been in siddhi's place i would also have done the same...
When we love someone we would be ready to do anything for them but we would never wanna get them hurt...especially if they are trying to save us by hurting themselves...

yehi quality kunal mein bhi hei na...
Rahi baat trust ki... ussko pata hei ki iss case mein hope hi nahi hei...
She understands takraal also very well...
She loves him more than his life yaar...

Jatane ke andaaz alag hei in case of both kunal and siddhi and thats what i love the most about them...

somepeople show their love through anger... I am one among them so i very well understood siddhi...

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