Originally posted by: mpks1
The thing that affected Raavi the most is that Shiva questioned her character in front of people and gave those gossip aunties fodder to talk about Raavi and her character. This is exactly some of us said right after the episode yesterday, that he doesn't know where and when to draw the line. He says he trusts her but his actions say something else.
If he had asked her the same question within the 4 walls of their room, would be different. Then again I am sure he would not have been convinced by her answer atleast it would have stayed in their bedroom.
The thing about Shiva is that when he gets angry at Raavi, he just shows it everywhere, doesn't look around where they are and who is around them. He has been doing this forever. Then everyone questions Raavi and not him.
Sawan Pooja, he pushed her- Suman questioned Raavi and ridiculed her
Kanwad yatra- He called characterless, she slapped, Kanta Kaki spilled it all to Suman, since then Raavi's life has been hell.
Janmashtami- He publicly called for her Swayamvar, again Suman went ballistic on
Couples Contest and Engagement drama during 3rd angle track- Raavi had to bear the brunt of Maa-bete tamasha
IVF Kaand and Divorce kaand- less said, better it is, everyday there was a tamasha and both Maa-beta didn't leave a chance to humiliate Raavi.
Raavi even said the same thing during the remarriage track when she was drunk
Recent SM kaand where he thought she is not giving him any attention- He left Raavi's success party and ended up giving Kanta's bahu to taunt Raavi that she has become too big for her boots.
Now this hacker kaand - he again tarnished her image that she was struggling to set right because of a criminal for no fault of hers.
Raavi was right today, there is love in this relationship but there is no trust or understanding between them, more so from Shiva's side. Until they trust each other, this marriage is always going to be tumultous.
Raavi on the other hand has spoiled something for Shiva was when he decided to propose to her during New Year's party. That was the only time she created a huge tamasha that too in private, except BhabiMa no one knows about it, later she tried to make up for it, even decorated their room to confess but IVF Kaand and later divorce kaand happened. 😔
Raavi only slapped Shiva in public after he questioned her character in public.
The other time Raavi made a public tamasha was before dahi handi but she was angry with the whole family, misunderstood that the entire family was celebrating her divorce from Shiva. But once she came to know about Dhara's pregnancy, she herself came back to Kandya Niwas to take care of Dhara and did not give up until BhabiMa forgave her.