Originally posted by: EuphoricDamsel.
I didn't care who stopped the engagement. I wouldn't have minded even if it was Dhara who did it. For me the main reason for being upset with Shiva was him staying silent at all the venom Suman was spewing about outright on his face about Raavi being the one to not wanting to live with him.
He knew very well she'd been pleading to him up until the time they did the kaand behind the mandir.
He had no business staying quite because he was the one who said something obscene to her and she retaliated. I have NEVER not once felt he said that just because he wanted her to leave. No, that came afterwards, at the scene she stopped him from leaving the house and told him she'd leave instead because it isn't her home.
Up until then it was all anger.
Not to mention the divorce papers. I knew there wouldn't be an engagement and something is going to stop it. But seeing him silent all the while when Suman manhandled her in Friday's episode and up until today (meh its coming tomorrow too who am kidding) got to me bad. He should have been made to say something before, during or after (as I very well know it ain't happening now). I don't give two cents on how the engagement should have stopped but I do feel his apology is important not just for proceeding with the engagement but mainly because of not speaking anything when the supposed love of his life was being insulted.
Bas...Baki tho I didn't mind Raavi stopping because well kuch tho krte hi ab lol 🤪
But haan wo suitcase wale episode me jb usne bola "Gaumbi Maine kya kiya?" tho I lost it. 🤡
@ Red.. because she did say it, after they came back from the mandir kaand. Not saying she was right or wrong to say so, but she did ...
@ bold..I never said he called her characterless because he wanted her to leave, that was all his anger. Agree with you on that, the night conversation with Gaumbi/Dev clarified it.. he doesn't think like that about her, after that he refused to apologies so she wouldn't come back. Having said that, Raavi DOES deserve an apology for it.
@ Blue.. look about the manhandle part, I know many will disagree with me on it, or bash me, but this is something which has shown to be normal in PS.. not just Shiva, nobody reacts to it, did Dev react or did Gautam when its abt their wives. or even when its about others... no. & its not just against the DIL's..
If you look at the otherside.. did Raavi react when Dhara beat up Krish/Shiva.. or when Dhara slapped Shiva.. no, or even now when Gautam will slap Shiva again tom ? If Shiva is in the wrong, then everybody else is too..
@ Green ... I do believe we will get it.. lets see
-P.S..This is not in support of Shiva/Suman or even Raavi:
- Everyone is after Suman cause she has been horrible to Raavi in this track.. Agreed.. but on the flip-side so has everyone else to Shiva, just a toned down version of it.. Gaumbi every chance hits him, Dhara has time & again reminded him that he was the one to send divorce papers(truth) , Rishita did too, Krish has been insulting to him as well. He hasn't been left unscathed, but since this was Raavi's track, her plights/abuse/ feelings have been highlighted.
- I never agreed with Raavi's decision to come back, neither did understand it. At max she should have apologised to Dhara/Gaumbi for lengha & left it at that. Her self respect when down the drain the, that Y I don't want Shiva or anyone else to stand up for her, she needs to do that on her own. Until she respects herself no one else is. Shiva can support her or stand behind her, but she needs to be the one to do it.
Sorry if it got long..😊