Hi everyone! New to the forum here! I've been a silent spectator of the show but I had to share my thoughts about the recent episodes so here I go ...
First up, Rishita ... Is it just me or does anyone feel that at the moment Rishita is the only sane person in the Pandya family? I totally agree with her that Dhara should focus on her marriage & pregnancy & let Raavi & Shiva figure things out for themselves. She was also on point about needing space in a relationship to grow. I like her no-nonsense blunt attitude. She says it like she sees it. She might make mistakes but she definitely has the most amount of clarity about the current situations.
Next, Dhara ... What the hell is wrong with her? I get that since she has raised the three brothers as her own kids, it's her natural instinct to shield them from pain and like any other mom, she wants to solve all of their problems but all moms eventually make their kids grow up and be responsible for their own actions. Dhara's emotional atyaachaar is a bit over the top. Why can't she see that her interference will only make matters worse for Raavi and Shiva because even if they do decide to reconcile, it'll be because Dhara wanted them to; not because they understood their mistakes and genuinely want to give their marriage a fair chance. And why does she need to cry so much? ... I guess this is a bad question because itv wants their ladies either smirking like villains or cry like an ablaa naari!
Next, Suman ... the lady is a massive contradiction. On one hand she recognized that Shiva wronged Raavi but she won't let Raavi in the house because she slapped Shiva but then she throws plates and cups on Shiva and Rishita? However, I did love the fact that she understands that the foundation of any relationship is respect and the way she told Shiva that she didn't teach him to disrespect women was really nice. But then again, in her eyes it's okay for Shiva to manhandle his wife but Raavi committed some sort of sin by slapping him in a fit of rage? Women aren't statues; sometimes we lose our cool, too!
Next, Raavi and Shiva ... Shiva seriously needs to get over himself and admit that he got jealous seeing Raavi with her friends and stop calling himself all kinds of names. He needs to face his insecurities! That's it! Nothing more to say there! And Raavi, she just needs to clear her head. At the moment she is so confused; I mean she keeps calling Shiva all kinds of names but cares for him when he gets hurt; she slaps him for insulting her and then cries thinking about him at night! Normally people send mixed messages to other people but here, she is sending mixed messages to herself!
And lastly, Dev, Gautam, & Krish ... Dev is mature. Woh Shiva ko samjhta bhi hai aur usse samjhaata bhi hai like a true big brother. Gautam on the other hand is just like Dhara; emotionally driven and a cry baby! And Krish, the kid of the family, is a progressive thinker like Rishita & I like that!
Overall, the drama at the moment is a bit extra! Raavi and Shiva's situation is understandable. They're thrust into their marriage without thinking about the issues between them and now they're seeing the consequences of that rash decision. I hope that they'll realize their mistakes and genuinely think about how they feel about each other. The rest of the family, as Rishita said, should just stay out of it!
Anyway, that's my two cents! :)
p.S. If we've met before in any of the other forums, Hi! Hope you're doing good! 😊
