Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #11 - Page 12

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

I completely agree with you! This is not about being raised in a joint or nuclear family, its about basic manners and respect. She should atleast know she is talking to a woman who is more than twice her age. Though Rishita might be making valid points sometimes but the way she presents her points is downright rude and disrespectful 😡

Exactly. She has the habit of whining Nd complaining, as if everyone is at her service and not doing a good job at it. If she claims to love dev so much, she must also care for his feelings for his family . But rishita is too much about I me myself and "mera dev" , not even Dev.

If there is any issue it can be worked out , but not by putting others down.

Originally posted by: Peanutbolt

Also while I think Rishita could have put her point in much classier way but didn’t suman and the entire family miss the point she was trying to make ? Like she wasn’t interested in extra 2gm gold but it’s the way the family is making her feel. While rishita is not some dhoodh ki dhuli and needs an urgent crash course on 101 ways to show tact, I feel her necessity to eyeroll at the theatrics of Pandya fam

But that is exactly the point. All this family making her feel bad is all in her head. No one intentionally wanted to give her 2gm less. In fact everyone is irritatingly going out of their way to accommodate her. So these baseless accusations definitely need to be countered, which in my personal opinion, Suman addressed appropriately. She reprimanded Rishitha for the fact that she made a hue and cry over literally nothing.

I know a lot of people mention that Rishitha needs tact, but I think that is just the symptom not the root cause. I believe the issue is, she has firmly decided that Dev’s family are the villains, something like a Romeo Juliet situation where the parents are always the villains who cause harm. Through that lens, whatever and how much ever the family does, she will view the efforts negatively. The Kesar kaand unfortunately just reinforced her belief that the family is out to get her. GauRa and Krish offered olive branches multiple times and in different situations, but she just does not want to take it.

I feel what Suman gave Rishitha was more like a wake up call, which in a way is nasty but necessary. Medicines might be bitter but you need to take them.

I have a sneaking suspicion that Rishitha could be sweet and tactful if she wants to, which is probably the side Dev saw when they were dating. The distinct lack of tact now is because she firmly opposes the family. In her mind they are the enemy and she will not put any effort for their happiness

Originally posted by: Peanutbolt

Also while I think Rishita could have put her point in much classier way but didn’t suman and the entire family miss the point she was trying to make ? Like she wasn’t interested in extra 2gm gold but it’s the way the family is making her feel. While rishita is not some dhoodh ki dhuli and needs an urgent crash course on 101 ways to show tact, I feel her necessity to eyeroll at the theatrics of Pandya fam

I kinda agree and disagree.

Yes, Rishita's main point wasn't about the 2gm gold, and rather about the family's behavior, which she THINKS is biased. But the thing is, they really are not. I firmly believe in jaise ko taisa...puri family ne laakho koshish ki hai to be nice to her. But she hasn't reciprocated AT ALL. Still she has expectations of what exactly? Family ka hissa banna hai...par jab banate hai, toh she recoils. Krish ke sath breakfast table par, her behavior was absolutely atrocious.

Uske hisab mein, thode verbal dande from Suman jaroori the.. again, jaise ko taisa. That's what Suman's main point was. Family ka hissa bano..then have expectations. But yes, Suman ka muh pe paise phekna, the taunt about Rishita leaving her family, was totally uncalled for....But what do you expect from a family that's normalized all kinds of abuse? Smh

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

@bold..it is so evident in group scenes..his expression become so OTT and fake

I just watched the scene where all brothers are hiding from dhara...i guess monday episode

His reactions are so OTT and its blatant in front KD and Kinshuk...Mohit is now fully in character

Seriously I am so proud of Mohit that he improved his acting so much in the past few weeks! He is definitely a quick learner! Akshay is still in the modeling phase and I think he should stick to that. Acting nahi ho rahi usse. He is the weakest actor in the show! Plus its been almost 2-3 months now he hasnt shown any major progress! DevTa scenes dont look convincing anymore because of him 🤢

Originally posted by: _charu_

Exactly. She has the habit of whining Nd complaining, as if everyone is at her service and not doing a good job at it. If she claims to love dev so much, she must also care for his feelings for his family . But rishita is too much about I me myself and "mera dev" , not even Dev.

If there is any issue it can be worked out , but not by putting others down.

@bold: So true!! Even in “Mera dev” its “Mera” thats more important to her than Dev himself. I really need to see a scene where Dev is remembering how he fell in love with Rishita. Because I seriously dont see any valid reason for a family oriented person like Dev to fall for Rishita!

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

But that is exactly the point. All this family making her feel bad is all in her head. No one intentionally wanted to give her 2gm less. In fact everyone is irritatingly going out of their way to accommodate her. So these baseless accusations definitely need to be countered, which in my personal opinion, Suman addressed appropriately. She reprimanded Rishitha for the fact that she made a hue and cry over literally nothing.

I know a lot of people mention that Rishitha needs tact, but I think that is just the symptom not the root cause. I believe the issue is, she has firmly decided that Dev’s family are the villains, something like a Romeo Juliet situation where the parents are always the villains who cause harm. Through that lens, whatever and how much ever the family does, she will view the efforts negatively. The Kesar kaand unfortunately just reinforced her belief that the family is out to get her. GauRa and Krish offered olive branches multiple times and in different situations, but she just does not want to take it.

I feel what Suman gave Rishitha was more like a wake up call, which in a way is nasty but necessary. Medicines might be bitter but you need to take them.

I have a sneaking suspicion that Rishitha could be sweet and tactful if she wants to, which is probably the side Dev saw when they were dating. The distinct lack of tact now is because she firmly opposes the family. In her mind they are the enemy and she will not put any effort for their happiness

I kinda said the same thing. The entire rant reminded me of Shiva's andolan dialogue when they were playing cards....Har cheez pe andolan kyu? Thank you bolne mein kya chala jata? Smh

@bold Dev is NOT a romeo in anyone's dreams 🤪

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

@bold: So true!! Even in “Mera dev” its “Mera” thats more important to her than Dev himself. I really need to see a scene where Dev is remembering how he fell in love with Rishita. Because I seriously dont see any valid reason for a family oriented person like Dev to fall for Rishita!

@bold: god no! we don't need this torture too.. we have an excess of DevTa as it is 🤪

The DevTa dating phase is something we can do without 🤣

Originally posted by: Shadow_kira

I kinda said the same thing. The entire rant reminded me of Shiva's andolan dialogue when they were playing cards....Har cheez pe andolan kyu? Thank you bolne mein kya chala jata? Smh

@bold Dev is NOT a romeo in anyone's dreams 🤪

Par Rishitha apne aap ko Juliet samajthi hai 🤣

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

But that is exactly the point. All this family making her feel bad is all in her head. No one intentionally wanted to give her 2gm less. In fact everyone is irritatingly going out of their way to accommodate her. So these baseless accusations definitely need to be countered, which in my personal opinion, Suman addressed appropriately. She reprimanded Rishitha for the fact that she made a hue and cry over literally nothing.

I know a lot of people mention that Rishitha needs tact, but I think that is just the symptom not the root cause. I believe the issue is, she has firmly decided that Dev’s family are the villains, something like a Romeo Juliet situation where the parents are always the villains who cause harm. Through that lens, whatever and how much ever the family does, she will view the efforts negatively. The Kesar kaand unfortunately just reinforced her belief that the family is out to get her. GauRa and Krish offered olive branches multiple times and in different situations, but she just does not want to take it.

I feel what Suman gave Rishitha was more like a wake up call, which in a way is nasty but necessary. Medicines might be bitter but you need to take them.

I have a sneaking suspicion that Rishitha could be sweet and tactful if she wants to, which is probably the side Dev saw when they were dating. The distinct lack of tact now is because she firmly opposes the family. In her mind they are the enemy and she will not put any effort for their happiness

She can't really expect "respect " when she has been treating the family like.cow dung..still dhara gombi and dev have been patient with her.. she doesn't appreciate any of it.

Rishita doesn't know that she is already in bad books of suman😆 Coz rishita was the reason dev raavi marriage didn't happen and she felt insulted ..n guilty for hurting her brother.abhi wo hisaab baaki hai🤣 Suman is the best person to deal with her

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

@bold: god no! we don't need this torture too.. we have an excess of DevTa as it is 🤪

The DevTa dating phase is something we can do without 🤣

Hahaha! You are right! Abhi already they are occupying 3/4th of the screen space. Flashback track dikhaya toh toh we will only see DevTa in the show! The name will then change to “DevTa Store”! 🤣