Is it real now ?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi Everybody,

I am 90% silent reader in the forum but I do read every topic here. And I am really upset about the same . Why everybody here in the forum and the serial is hell bent on Anya marriage or you know close romance, eye-locks etc. In other words one can say ...the forum is too chocolaty/sweet this time , for me at least . Whereas life is not all good, you have to get real. Everybody just want Anya Dreamworld to be shown in the serial. (Thanks to Laddo's post I learnt those words😆). My main problem actually started after the serial completed 1.15 months . I mean the rush for love ...it never happens really ..first it was shown as Navya's infatuation and I was okay with it because this is what happens with every teenager . After that ,probably after starting of May, all the CVs of the serial were hell bent on showing the "serial eye-locks" , "serial hugs" etc. I mean take my elder brother's case ..He shared some things with me about his love life and I am only 16 , a bit too young to understand all this ...but yes ...from what he told me , I can give some bits. It was a pure no-no from him to love from the starting of his college days (Just like Anant😉) ..Then he met a girl named Radhika in his lecture and actually her(girl's) best friend asked him one day if he has a girlfriend . He firmly said no and was confused why did she ask it (she actually was asking on behalf of Radhika)? Then one day in the evening he got a message from Radhika that she loves him and if he will say yes. And as a surprise to me he told me he said yes .And till now I think they are just blooming their relationship. It has been 1.5 years to their relationship and he just told me 6 months back about all this. Now coming back to Navya - What nayi soch are they portraying ? Either there is a serious issue with their timeline because once Anant said about the dates of Pani-puri and all that . So, either we are confused or the CVs who are not giving us correct timeline. Even my brother is 20 and is not thinking as of now about "MARRIAGE" - It is a big thing . How can they both even think right now about marriage being 19 or 20 . And one more thing i am upset about is the RUSH. As I said before why so much rush . Why they are so much involved in showing everything in F1 speed. This kind of case can never happen in real life. Either they are now thinking to turn it into Saas-Bahu Drama or ending it fast. Also , all forum members have only one rant -Anya ..No body I saw in the forum who discussed about the sensible Deepu-dadi scene or Deepu-Navya Scene (May be one or two). There is lots more happening in the serial than what discussed here. and I would expect everyone here to discuss rationally about everything ..not just Anya Romance.

From what I understand - Relationship stories are not just about "romance" , "eye-lock" or "hugs". It is about development of a smooth and mutual understanding about everything in life - from family to studies and from career orientations to marriage- between the TWO.

P.S.- I am sorry if I hurt someone here. I ,just being a rational viewer, was giving my point of view. No hard-feelings. At the same time time I would say , may be I am too small to comment on relationship issues but I can surely see the serial going STAR + way , with all the reel spices there ...AWAY FROM REALITY...😳

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well dear... then ur not going through each and every topic.. there are people in this forum... who discuss from romance to navya relationship with family , culture... each member and plot of navya is discussed in this Forum

Let me also inform you that people here are quite mature enough and they doo discuss all these issues very sensibly... So i would request you dear to read each and every topic...

Nothing to offend you dear... You are most welcome to this forum... Sorry if my post hurt you
Edited by esha_friends20 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey Dear..I am not sure if you have really read all the post properly..we discuss everything from Anya eye-lock to the rigid regulations in the looney quila..to the loving Mishra parents and understanding Dadi..and also creepy gautam, and witchy Rama..we actually have took Ramu in our discussions too😆..so i dont agree to your statement that all we talk abt is ANYA ...
Yes they are the center for everythig, they are leads of the story after all..and as you..we all ahve questoned the speed of the show and the reason to get them married so soon..but after banging our head eith reasons..we fianllly seem to have accepted that this is the show afterall.. and we will have ot see the stuff that builds TRP ,because that is what matters at the end..we are happy with the way CV's are building this track also..they gave a good reason behind ANant's deision to get married also..
ANd as you said..all this is probably not possible n real life but there are many scenes and characters that are very close to relity and we cherish that momment..and as if , if this would be as good as real would it really entertain us..
I respect your opinion dear but sorry couldnt agree to most of it..
Keep posting your post..wouls like to read more from you
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree that the show is moving at a pace which would make one dizzy... but almost everyone has shown appreciation of Deepu/Dadi scenes...discussed the real life issues which have been depicted on the show...& actually also ranted against AnYa marriage!

Mebe u missed them...& thats ok...u've been around for under a month only...
a friendly suggestion, y dont u make posts abt the topics which u wud like to see being discussed & see how easily we all jump to comment!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well i like your post in a sense that i love to read all kind of views and reviews and different intakes..
I guess it depends on person to person ..the way we all are different from each other same way our opinions too .. so may be the things or views u r not liking may be liked by others. As far as discussions are healthy and within norms its fun to read both positive and negative views.
Now regarding forum topics i vl edit the post later :P
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Posted: 13 years ago
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some QUESTIONS
are you really chicked all topics and replys ?????
( there is about : navya-dadi-deepak-meeta , navya-dadi-meeta in the kitchen , anant-om , om-deepak phone convo , this all scenes was in yesterday's episode and its already discussed here in this forum )
what is the wrong if someone thinking about marriage in 19 - 20 years old ?????😕😕
( i really dont get you , their is only sollution for anya nowadays )
sorry to say that but i completely disagree with you
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree to ur 'saas-bahu drama' point. If this soap is going to be 'saas-bahu' one after their marriage or engagement n all...then i wud not be regular viewer of it...but i dont want it to be happen.
Edited by Newly_Born - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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If your looking for reality > STAR PLUS is not the place to find it 😉

Its an entertainment channel dependant on ratings , they will show us whatever the masses want to be shown , if thats inevitably saas bahu thats what they will turn any show into .

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Posted: 13 years ago
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we dnt discuss about other charecters ??? or its u who accidently open the topics whc hs AnYa romance on it 😆 sorry pls dnt mind but in this forum we all discuss about all the charecters for each & every epi we hv member(mridula,tanu,Anyafan,nidhi,esha,usha,isha,nisha,i knw missed many names sorry about it) who open a special thread after the epi got end & discuss about the entire epi whc includes all the charecters,infact we hd made & read topic related Renu-Mohan,renu-gautam,rama,baba, nimisha & her track,anant's parents,the relation Anant/mohan's dad share with thm everything..etc.. & to b honest none of us happy with this early marriage track but if we think in other way we found early marriage is better than long time separation,if they get separated they ll b upset & cry all the time but after marriage they ll b together to face all the prob and now about the marriage thing mayb u r living in a modern family wr early marriage is not compulsary or doesnt matter if u get marry after 23/24 & i also agree but in today's world there r many family exist wr people r very conservative & want their children to get married in early age & some family dnt bother to ask their children,bajpai& mishra family also think like this way & loving each other b4 marriage is not allowed & they think ladka ladki bing frinds its wrong & they dnt take the relations seriously & thats y anant took this decision he want to proof everyone his love for navya is true & his intention is not wrong, he want to proof he dnt want to take advantage of her innocence but he want her to b with him in long time commitment..

Edited by -Liana- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ All - May be my fault ...May be I was concentrating more on Anya related topics (as laina said)...and as barbie said ..it is a show and they only work for TRP ..my bad I expected too much..and yes agree with barbie that center is Anya so there will be more discussions about them ...and I was telling about the magnitude and depth of discussions regarding topics other than Anya ..that they are less than that of Anya topics...may be I am bad at expressing and explaining ..Sorry to all ...but I am happy that u all clarified my doubts and cleared my views ...now I will try to be more fiction-friendly ..😉

@ Fawwaz- I really don't get it how is it normal for you being married at age of 19-20 ? I mean it doesn't seem real to me yar..but as they say - to each their own..😳
Edited by sooraj_Nfan - 13 years ago

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