Why?(can anyone answer?)

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Why didn't avni think
1) may be it's his plan..
2)may be there is a reason behind it

Just before that, he makes her wear those Bangles...sindoor..

3) why didn't she think about that?


I heard that...When u love someone, you tend to justify him/her even though few things which u dislike r revealed in the process... Even though he/she is wrong at times... even though you might be proven wrong at that moment...right?
So why didn't avni think , their is some reason behind what he did?


Can anyone tell me..
If u don't find the post interesting or if u find it silly... Ignore it..

P.S... am i the only one who is getting too emotional seeing post leap episodes? I mean emotional to the extentthat u really start crying?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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aww SA, i agree with you, besides didn't she think Vidyuth might be threatening Neil too?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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When you have lived the life Avni has lived you become emotionally scarred and Neil's actions rubbed salt in wounds that have yet to heal. How is Avni supposed to react when her husband pulls off her mangalsutra and wipes off her sindoor calling her a criminal? When his own family could not question his actions then how can anyone expect Avni to? Neil completely broke her in that instant and planted the seeds of doubt in her head much before this by dodging her questions about whether he believed she was innocent. In the past Neil would have not wasted a second telling Avni he believes in her but here he hesitated, he would not answer and when he finally did it was one that Avni never wanted to hear. Avni has always had issues trusting people and believing in love, Neil changed her perception and gave her hope but he is also responsible for breaking that hope.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I get where you are coming from and post leaps episodes have also made me quite emotional as well as excited. From my view I feel due to Agni having such a heartbreaking childhood where she has been betrayed by her own family has obviously damaged her a lot. Yes Neil did regain her faith in love and in him but the bottom line is she's always felt like she didn't deserve him to some extent. That did fade to some degree though. In this situation and when it comes to love it is a known fact that Avni is a tube light. Avni wanted verbal confirmation that Neil trusts that she didn't kill Juhi but failed to see his actions which showed he has the utmost trust in her. Which is why when Neil arrested her and brand An ACP infront of her she was broken as he was the only persons opinion that mattered to her. And for her to even see a glimmer of distrust kind of broke her spirit. Today's episode made it it clear that Neil's opinion of her still matters despite her trying to console her self that she no longer cares.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: adventure_gurl

aww SA, i agree with you, besides didn't she think Vidyuth might be threatening Neil too?

Hai na...how could she miss that link...
Ik she's hurt... Barosa tuta uska...
She made herself capable enough to guess the person's next move ..she became ...very calculative...
But i wonder why she didn't think this way...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Mandy.



When you have lived the life Avni has lived you become emotionally scarred and Neil's actions rubbed salt in wounds that have yet to heal. How is Avni supposed to react when her husband pulls off her mangalsutra and wipes off her sindoor calling her a criminal? When his own family could not question his actions then how can anyone expect Avni to? Neil completely broke her in that instant and planted the seeds of doubt in her head much before this by dodging her questions about whether he believed she was innocent. In the past Neil would have not wasted a second telling Avni he believes in her but here he hesitated, he would not answer and when he finally did it was one that Avni never wanted to hear. Avni has always had issues trusting people and believing in love, Neil changed her perception and gave her hope but he is also responsible for breaking that hope.


Valid point mandy...
but 6 mahino mein ek baar toh kayal aaya hoga na..
Generally one will have lot of what ifs going on in mind...after such situations.. esp when they are alone..like how avni was..

Ek aur
What will it be like when avni gets to Know the truth?(i mean ..reg y neil arrested her..) how do u think she'll feel about it? /React to it..?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I guess the reason is her past. Because of her past she is very insecure about relationships. She had always considered she isn't worthy of love. And when Neil came to her life she finally started having faith in love. And then this. As she has always been insecure and thought she was not worthy of Neil's love. Neil's this behavior made her think that He doesn't trust her just like her father never did. Maybe someone else can explain it better to u. But when u have seen all the people u love never trusting u or loving u back the way u love them. U tends to become suspicious of other's love towards u. And when someone love u, you always have this fear that they will also leave u like others did. So when Neil did that scene it triggered that worst fear and she thought the worst without giving Neil the benefit of doubt that he might have some other plan.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...SA...

Hai na...how could she miss that link...
Ik she's hurt... Barosa tuta uska...
She made herself capable enough to guess the person's next move ..she became ...very calculative...
But i wonder why she didn't think this way...

kyunki uski aadat hai. Neil usse saamne sab kuch bolta hai. Unn dono ke beech koi bi baath chupthi nahi. Neil jo bi kahega usse voh aankh band karke maanti hai. Jab neil saamne se bola voh gunegaar hai. Usne maan li.😳 Iss mein uski pyaar kam nahi huyi sanju. Yeh sirf misunderstanding hai. Jo neil ne khudh create karna chahtha tha. They will unite. This time it will be more strong bond.
Edited by avneil2 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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@Zara, @senior..
I agree...par ek baar toh woh kayal aati hai na...
I'm just thinking about that one sec where she might have felt ..'nahi... it's something else.. Neil aisa nahi kar sakta..'
I mean...dil humesha uss insaan ko justify karne ki koshish karti hai.. jisse hum pyaar karte ho...(evn if he/she is wrong...)
(I'm thinking/expecting too much?)
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Love runs more deeply than just a few harsh words.. But, Unfortunately for Avni actions mattered a lot, and Neil Khanna burned his bridges
Neil broke her trust and made a mockery of their marriage... wiped her sindhoor and broke her Mangalsutr. He stepped out of limits with her..
His harsh words..the humiliation...has made Avni no desperate to believe in him and has broken her completely to even see what is behind his facade of lies.
He broke her belief for true love

I just wrote my opinion!!

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