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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: -Preeti-

Pariiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

I have an answer to your Question something like this > Yes and No.

YES b'coz of the following reason.

Nupur is a human with some basic human emotions. She too loves her family and husband as much as any other Women would do. And Dhruv is not just an obsessive Lover but a Psychotic Obsessive Lover. I call him Psychotic too b'coz his actions prove that. Within minute's he gets normal and thn WILD. Nupur though has stayed in front of him for years now without having any contacts with the Gang but he still cannot or has'nt developed that belief that she has left her Old life. So even now when he sees Mayank around Nupur he feels that they are still in touch and this forces him to take wrong steps against Mayank and he did that with that Shot Circuit. And this is one Reason which forces Nupur to not just live a fake life but also stay away from the Gang. As she takes a step towards them and Dhruv would get them 4 steps more close to Death.

Also let me take you to the History of MJHT. Nupur is and was a strong confident girl and was never afraid of anything. But let us not forget she had her set of Fears too. And her Biggest Fear was Lonliness. And we had seen that many times in MJHT.

Instance 1. Ahmedabad Trip ' While in jungle Mayank had played a prank with her while she was deeply engrossed in listening to music. When she did'nt find Mayank around she was afraid. So much that this female started crying and when she saw him she Hugged him, irrespective of the fact that at that time Mayank and her never shared any sort of relationship, not even were they Friends and she claimed that she would never take any help from Mayank. All done, she still was afraid. But minutes later she hid her fear and told Mayank that she was just pretending to get scared. Though Mayank got to know that she was really scared not seeing him.

Instace 2. The Goons who entered while she was with Mr. Chiru Jee. She was afraid at that time too.

And if I remember, Mayank knows this well and had also said in one of the Epi's. That though Nupur pretends to be all strong and confident but he does know that from within she's very soft, as he had already seen that "Handle With Care" ka Tag on her.

Instance 3. Track before the Zindagi Song ' Which was the time she actually accepted that "Yes she Fears to be Alone".

Yaar howmuch ever strong a human is, he or she has their Set of Fear which they have to deal with, with or without the support of others. Right now Nupur is dealing with her Fears without the support of her loved one's. But to what extend would she deal it none of us can really comment.

Now my Reasonings for NO

No b'coz had I been in Nupur's place tho By God 'I would have poisoned Dhruv and preferred going to Jail rather than living that Painful Life.

Y'day the time he removed that belt I had my DECISION made this fellow has no right to live in this World. And this so reminded me of the incident that took place 3 months back in B'blore where a husband killed his wife as he had doubts that she had an affair. Also later the reports stated that she had also been physically tortured by her husband.

Don't say that such things don't happen as even now we read of things like Husband killing Wife or Boyfriend killing his Girlfried and then committing suicide as she refused to go by his terms.

Sunne mein ajeeb lagta hai but these are facts of Life.



preeti so wonderfully said......time to time nupur's set of fears were shown........at different stages they were always there while even when mayank was not taking out there relationship out she had fear ..of loosong her ...........when mayank left from morena she had fear of now being lefts alone .........everytime she had some fears though they were never being shown properly handles properly or being ignored by many ........how is a girl who's upper side is too strong her mental side is also strong but within some point ........but from heart she is too delicate.......when mayank said "handle with care" sign he seen those fears of her..........


this type of abuse r so much common a woman even doesn't get share with other woman tries to hide this in every sense.......woman r delicate they r mentally ,emotionally in everyway stronger but when comes to phyically they r still weaker........until & unless one doesn't get trained in marshal arts so she can save herself from that.
for last line i had to say how much one runs from facts of life but facts remain facts .....
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Posted: 14 years ago
whatt who is bashing nupur?ohh yes coz they r jelous.kyunki uske favourite k to scenes hi nahi bataraaha lolxx
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Posted: 14 years ago
ofcourse her behaviour is justified ............. one can only understand wat she is going through when one is in her postion ..... its very easy to critisise saying i am finding her behaviour dumb , ridiculous blah blah ..........nd those who are mocking nupur in thi topic well they havent really understood her charcter till now nd i dont expect them to as well ............. pari had made thi topic with the motive of presenting ones POV but all i see herr are pages nd pages of mocking nd ridiculing of nupur going around ......... well i dnt expect anything else as wellcoz the mentality of some ll never change ...........thanx to some sajanians for spoiling this topic ....... anywayz the fact remains dat the charcter of nupur is such a selfless one who thinks about the welbeing of loved ones more dan herself be it her husband her sis or friend ........... nd as per me her behaviour is fully justified ......... neither there was nor there ll be a selfless charcter like nupur ever ...........soo proud of you nupur .........
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: -Preeti-

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People here
there's no need to differentiate between Gunjan or Nupur. As am sure had either of them been opposite Dhruv not both would have just done that what Nupur is doing right now.

Its human tendency that we always think about our loved one's before ourselves, then be it the smallest thing in life. For Eg. During exams ...pass or fail we always think what would our parents say seeing our marks. Do we ever think of feel satisfied with what we get?

Nupur does that for her family and husband. Now she being strong character is'nt expected to bend to Dhruv's conditions. Is being strong mean that you risk ur family's life?

I dont feel that Nupur's behavior is unjustified here. She's totally doing that what any girl, Wife, Sister or a Friend would do in such situations.

Also i would appreciate that lets stick to the Topic and not get into passing snide remarks on one another.

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Fabulous, Preeti. What an example you've given. The exam and parent thingy.. just bang on!
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Senny

Hey Ishita,

I agree and the strong woman she is, she might have just done that. But Nupur has her own weaknesses, she is human and she has always been shown to be strong from outside but very delicate from inside, this was what even Mayank pointed out when Nupur broke down after she heard from Gunjan that Samrat doesn't love her but Sheena. Nupur gets emotional and she just doesn't think from her mind when it comes to Mayank and Gunjan especially and so her heart must have guided her to stay away as she felt MSG would always be under a constant threat.

Cvs after all have tried hard to do sth different and I would appreciate them for doing it, ofcourse all their tracks come with their loopholes, the whole SG track is messed up and it has been, the repair now doesn't make sense to me and it won't ahead as well. Gunjan had been wrong in blaming him from the word go as she is now a pyschologist and must be able to understand better but was she ever able to, no she wasn't and up till now I have not seen her saying Sorry for being so mean to Samrat.

Nupur has been shown to do things not in her nature and so is Gunjan, she was never mean but shown to be. I don't mind her being mean and i remember even saying at that time, Gunjan was not thinking from her mind but from her heart, her loss and if Gunjan can think from her heart and do wrong things then why not Nupur!

Nupur always intended the better for the three, even if she did a mistake, she meant no harm. Whether Nupur was really wrong or not and right that may or may not be shown!



I get what you mean Senny, and that's why I feel it was really strange when she wasn't shown trying to contact the police even once. Plus, as you said, she is emotional, so when she first met MSG after 3 years at the bus stand, Dhruv was nowhere around her, and seeing the way Gunjan dropped at her feet crying, that would certainly have generated some reaction. So I do not relate to that behavior. If she is vulnerable, she wouldn't be able to say that it was all a "naatak" after that so easily.

And yesterday, seeing Mayank fight like that, she would have tried to say something, because in any case the Dhruv guy is now hell bent on destroying Mayank's life anyway.
Anyway, this is only my opinion.
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Posted: 14 years ago
ohh n yes abt the character then i want to say 1 thing k nupur darr isliye rahi hai coz usse cv ne kaha lolxxxxxxx n yes vo apne family ko koi nuksan nahi pohchana chahti n vo sirf baar baar yahi sonchti hogi k dhruv ne usse kyun bachaya
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Ayesha.Ization


Fabulous, Preeti. What an example you've given. The exam and parent thingy.. just bang on!

wow preeti di really agree wid u mujhe bhi kisiko bash karne ka shouk nahi n yes gunjan n nupur they rooockkkkks😃

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: -Preeti-

Ohkay

People here
there's no need to differentiate between Gunjan or Nupur. As am sure had either of them been opposite Dhruv not both would have just done that what Nupur is doing right now.

Its human tendency that we always think about our loved one's before ourselves, then be it the smallest thing in life. For Eg. During exams ...pass or fail we always think what would our parents say seeing our marks. Do we ever think of feel satisfied with what we get?

Nupur does that for her family and husband. Now she being strong character is'nt expected to bend to Dhruv's conditions. Is being strong mean that you risk ur family's life?

I dont feel that Nupur's behavior is unjustified here. She's totally doing that what any girl, Wife, Sister or a Friend would do in such situations.

Also i would appreciate that lets stick to the Topic and not get into passing snide remarks on one another.

Thanks



topic starter itself created that part by differentiating gunjan & nupur

for me...a big NO!! Yes...if we think of Gunjan ..instead of Nupur...she would deff do what Nupur is doing😆😆😆.....my barbie would never go against Dhruv and keep doing what he tells.(some will argue against this I know🤣 ) But here its Nupur in this case and I seriously dont want her to behave like this nor she should!!


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Posted: 14 years ago
Okay Preeti,i would try or else i am out,

Hey Ishita, I understand but to be honest, one can't really think of linking up those scenes as at least i feel that they were going with the amnesia track at that time and so they showed like her that, indifferent or may be she wanted to make them hate her or leave her for good and so she acted like that!
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: aa123.80



I get what you mean Senny, and that's why I feel it was really strange when she wasn't shown trying to contact the police even once. Plus, as you said, she is emotional, so when she first met MSG after 3 years at the bus stand, Dhruv was nowhere around her, and seeing the way Gunjan dropped at her feet crying, that would certainly have generated some reaction. So I do not relate to that behavior. If she is vulnerable, she wouldn't be able to say that it was all a "naatak" after that so easily.

And yesterday, seeing Mayank fight like that, she would have tried to say something, because in any case the Dhruv guy is now hell bent on destroying Mayank's life anyway.
Anyway, this is only my opinion.


Well, I suppose then even CVs were trying to figure out what they wanted to do with the character. At that time, there were numerous amount of articles about the current track telling us about how Nupur has amnesia etc. Back then, nothing was planned, hun. It is only with Dhruv's entry that CVs have planned down everything.

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