I felt so bad for Samrat today!!! - Page 6

Originally posted by: princessyashika

<font color="#cc0033">i am sorry to say that guys but sammy has been badly misunderstood....i think its wrong....i am not saying that nupur was wrong but neither was sam even.U all r saying imagine urself at nupur's place...i say imagine urself at gunjan's....a guy....who actually gave u the most treasured and precious place in his heart and life.....a guy who changed himself completely from a carefree dude 2 a responsible person...who can go 2 the extent of saying that u r the reason for his mere existence....who can accept ppl he hates most just on ur one request....how can a girl not trust on him???as everyone of u raised this question that if nupz wudn't have come god knows what sammy wud have done.....i repeat it i think third time...gals n guys when a girl begins to love a person.....before she allows her heart to freely love him and get attracted toward him...u know she tests that is this guy the one abt him she can proudly say in front of her parents n family that yes i love him....!!!! sammy's respect for girls and the very fact that he knows his limits as a guy gunjan kney and understood all this earlier only very very well....sajan's relationship has come way too far from these obligations....gunjan said it earlier as well <br>"main tumse nahin darti samrat"....yes and seriously speaking this trust hasn't developed in one day but what all she saw when sajan were friends.....when he was sheena's bf....sam actually never tried to go even an inch closer to her.....he always respected sheena and wanted to maintain a gud relationship with her....it was her fault that she never understood him.Yes gunjan allowed him to come closer to her...coz thats her trust on samrat.<br>I deeply request u guys.....i as a sajan fan completely understand that nupur is right but dont create sammy's image as a playboy...coz he is not...he is not desperate but a true lover....pls i beg dont put stains on his character which is as pure as his love for gunjan..Pls guys i have not gone against nupur but just explained abt sajan....so dont get agitiated. I know nupur is correct...but even sam is....100% pure and truthful.</font><br>

Originally posted by: rajati

i know nups is right in her place and when an elder sister sees her younger sis in this satge then any body wud do the same thing but nups cud have given sammy a chance to tell his side of storryy and even nups saying sammy that hes using her i mean y wud sammy use gunji that too for wat? that sentence and nups calling sammy casinova and all that shocked me a lott guyss and poor sammy didnt speak anythign and left from there that too when gunji says him to leave them alonee .....................my point is im not able to understand nups now ......bcoz i dont understand y nups is angryy.............................
is she angry bcoz gunji didnt support her?
or
is she angry with bauji not accepting mayur?
or
is she angry bcoz gunji is doing all thiss?????
or
is she angry on samrat for doing all this and thus bcoming pocessive for gunj?

Originally posted by: princessyashika

i am sorry to say that guys but sammy has been badly misunderstood....i think its wrong....i am not saying that nupur was wrong but neither was sam even.U all r saying imagine urself at nupur's place...i say imagine urself at gunjan's....a guy....who actually gave u the most treasured and precious place in his heart and life.....a guy who changed himself completely from a carefree dude 2 a responsible person...who can go 2 the extent of saying that u r the reason for his mere existence....who can accept ppl he hates most just on ur one request....how can a girl not trust on him???as everyone of u raised this question that if nupz wudn't have come god knows what sammy wud have done.....i repeat it i think third time...gals n guys when a girl begins to love a person.....before she allows her heart to freely love him and get attracted toward him...u know she tests that is this guy the one abt him she can proudly say in front of her parents n family that yes i love him....!!!! sammy's respect for girls and the very fact that he knows his limits as a guy gunjan kney and understood all this earlier only very very well....sajan's relationship has come way too far from these obligations....gunjan said it earlier as well
"main tumse nahin darti samrat"....yes and seriously speaking this trust hasn't developed in one day but what all she saw when sajan were friends.....when he was sheena's bf....sam actually never tried to go even an inch closer to her.....he always respected sheena and wanted to maintain a gud relationship with her....it was her fault that she never understood him.Yes gunjan allowed him to come closer to her...coz thats her trust on samrat.
I deeply request u guys.....i as a sajan fan completely understand that nupur is right but dont create sammy's image as a playboy...coz he is not...he is not desperate but a true lover....pls i beg dont put stains on his character which is as pure as his love for gunjan..Pls guys i have not gone against nupur but just explained abt sajan....so dont get agitiated. I know nupur is correct...but even sam is....100% pure and truthful.

Originally posted by: shinz

couldnt agree more jess, annie and debo..!!

we know sajan looove each other...and well they have a right to privacy.....i m gonna merely repeat the others....but when a guy calls a gal at this time of the night...firstly its utter foolish for the gal to go.....that too on a lonely farmhouse.......considering that her family is nothing but conservative..and she very well knows that since she is supposed to be a sanskaari daughter...!! gunjan has always been really mature right and then this...!! kinda character assasination for me..!
look....samrat maybe right...it was nt his fault that nupur misunderstood abt the gift but then he seemed a l'il desperate for the kiss..and by god...if ever i see my sis doing what gunjan was doing...i m sure gonna give her a good one..!!
plus...although samrat is a dear frnd...but common...gunjan is her own sister..and samrat has been famous for being flirty and flippant.....remember sheena..!!!
and nupur has always been protective of her sister..!
even i considered nupur to be overprotective when she reacted the way she did while seeing the public kiss...but yday...no one can blame nupur for reacting this way......it seimply seemed that SG were making out..!!

plus to the question of nupur feeling obligated towards samrat...please....they are frnds.....and mayank is paying the rent...and even if still u think obligations need to be considered...then well....samrat and gunjan should be obligated towards mayank for life......remember the RV case..!! anyone?
all i m saying is that just because the guy is a great frnd...and helped them sometimes does not means she can very well let him play with her sister...i m talking from nupur's POV..!
samarat and mayank share frndship...not a give and take relationship to eel obligated towards each other..!!
about nupur being wrong...well she wasnt...she did what i...or anyone elser sister would have done..!!

now..this is merely my POV....i tried not to bash anyone...i just stated facts.....!! i

Originally posted by: DiyaS

At the moment, from what I see

Nupur doesn't trust Samrat because she thinks he kissed her sister in front of the entire college so her fear is what will he do when they're alone ...

She doesn't trust Gunjan because gunjan kissed him as a dare in a game in front of very close friends, all of whom know about and approve of their relationship (including the same sister who has always encouraged her to be with Samrat), so she thinks Gunjan might/already has lost her morals ...

She doesn't trust Mayank's judgement - Mayank knows about the date and is cool with it ... in fact, even Dia knows where the date is, so Samrat hasn't kept it a secret - if he was had any nefarious intentions, he might have done that, right ?

So she doesn't trust her sister, her husband and a guy who is her husband's very close friend (forget the giving the house part, that's not relevant) ...
whom does Nupur trust then? I think she's making a very lonely place for herself ...

Originally posted by: dreamer2305

ok. This is really not fair for Samrat. I know that a few people have made topics that Nupur wasabsolutely right. And I agree that she was right in her own way. She has a right to be concerned about her sister. But she had NO right to speak like that to Samrat. Has she forgotten all the times that he has helped her in the past? saJan were always the ones who reunited MaYur. Because of their friendship, they are together. Samrat has come to her rescue countless numberof times. Even if u take the previos shaadi track, Samrat was the one who tried his hardest to bring them together! He has always been there for her. And now, whn he is asking for the chance to give one small explaination, she is LECTURING HIM???? Don't get me wrong guys. I love MaYur. And I also know that Nupur has a habit of getting carried away...but apne dost e iss tarha se baatein...? I mean sh was going on sying that he uses girls!!!!! I can only imagine the amount of grief that he must have been feeling! Gys, I just can't explain i wordshow I'm feeling right now. even in the precap, without caring about the huge embarressment that he had faced, he told Gunjan that he woul always be with her. How can someone be so selfless?? I know that has dated girls in the past...but that is just him! But I can tell u one thing. Anyone can see the strong bond of love that brings SaJan together. So I'm very upset that out of all people, Nupur, Gunjan's sister could not understand this. Ok,lt take for an examle that she doesn't trust samrat one bit. Ya. I can understand that. After all the kisses and all that, I'm ure no sister would want that kind of a bf for her sibling. But at least she should trust gunjan. Se should kno that Gunjan would Never ever do something that was considered wrong. But she is just not willing to listen!!! MaYur always used to have problems in their relationship because of miscomunication. Not it loos as if GuNur Miscommunication is gona bring problems in SaJan's life as well! And plz guys, don't tak me wrong. I love SaJan and MaYur both...so I'm not taking anyone's side. All I'm saying is that she could have spoken in a softer voice, w/o bringing Samrat's personal dating life into this! I think the least she could have dne is listened to Samrat! *sigh*. Lagta hai ek aur misunderstanding jhelna padega!

NOTE: I must have written this like three times in here already, but just to make things clear, I will write it again. Plz do not tak this the wrong way. I am not on anybody's side. I'm simply stating my opinion. I don't want to cause an argument here. I think everyone is right in their own way.

Nupur was right to care for her sister's wellbeing.

Gunjan was right in defending Samrat

Samrat was right in defending himself.

End of story. I'm sry if I sounded harsh guys! I honestly didn't mean it. I guess I'm just kinda upset after watching today's episode.!!! plz do reply! If u don't aree with me, that's fine too!! Just plz don't bash me! Thx guys!