why is it soo hard to accept ... ?? - Page 3

Ya u are right. Suhani is his sis. Every sis loves his bro than anyone else.

umm you know i feel that sammy has changed alot because he doesnt really care about anything else he doesnt even care about friends what he cares about is only gunjan and BY THE WAY sam should have recognized his own sister okay if they havent met before he should have asked her that y is she caring about him so much... yes even i wanna see more SUHAANI SAM scenes because im really close to my brother i now how it feels when ur brother doesnt gives u any importance and yes WELL SAID my dear friend u did a good job on writing it down here u stole my topic haha:)
so yea i used to live in inda and my broth in usa but when we first met even my brother did not know im his sister i wanted to give him a surprise but he did not pay alot attention and it felt really bad but afterwrds my brother stopped neglecting me and we are really good friends now :)

soo yes personally i want SUHANI SAM scence:)

Originally posted by: xaviara

Riya I understand what u mean and I seriously dont have any problems with Suhaani, its just that as far as characters is concerned Gunjan has always gotten the short end of the stick. I know she is not the sort to be social, but we also know that when she befriends someone, she is very friendly and comfortable interacting with them. We have purab for an example. I just think its unfair that Gunjan is now shown just as sam's girlfriend and not as a sister, friend, classmate. But gunjan is just reduced to just romancing with him.

Gunjan was potrayed as an uncaring sis, but i bet when its Sam's turn, he would be the best bro there is !! Its not about SaJan scenes, its more of the fact that I wish that like Sam, Gunjan was allowed to do more in the show too.

Gunjan for me was never really an uncaring sister and recent episodes clarified that a lot.
though we can't change people's minds. I generally liked Purab and it was nice to see Gunjan talking to someone else but at that time, many considered Gunjan to be going out of character for becoming friends/shaking hands with another guy. maybe it had something to do with the fact that she wasnt talking to Samrat at the time. 😕

Im not sure Samrat will be the best bro though right away. there is def something more to their story. maybe he will be later on.
just like he was never the best boyfriend until dating Gunjan....wasn't the best friend he could be until after the bet truth came out and he realized the meaning of friendship..

i dunno, all characters in this show have ups and downs...

what upsets me more is Gunjan not given he chance to think or use her brains which she has...Like during the RV jail track...I dont like the intelligent side of her being put aside...mroe than social, her intelligent side needs to come out more...

Just like basketball has returned, I hope some academic stuff returns as well for people like Gunjan.....some academic competition or exams...

I am all for this Bro-Sis track... I think their relation will grow over a period of time..it will not be smooth when he comes to know that Suhani is his sister..
I really think gunjan is going to be the catalyst in developing their relation.
I don't think it means side ling gunji..though it is helping Sam indirectly..
Actually I always feel it is Sam who is shown to be dumb though a good friend but always a dhakkan..
CVs have always portrayed gunjan way better than Sam...I don't beleive Ginji will be sideleined

Originally posted by: MohitSanayaFan

Maybe he wasn't acting....😉

Me too ... 😊 ... I liked the terrace scene in spite of the repetition ... because it had the teasing built into the romance and passion ... they still managed to make it a little different, his ego was brought out but very subtly, I like the way Gunjan's confidence is building up slowly ... 😊

and they've had enough emotional bonding ... they do need some passion to build up as well, but without these constant interruptions - we know they're not going to show a kiss, so the interruption at the nth second make it look so repetitious ... I would actually prefer just a fade out or something to show that yes, they did kiss, rather than sister no 1, 2, 3 ... why make it such a big deal?!!!

😛 so I'm not the only one - I also felt mohit's expression had something different last night 😉 ... gave the scene a new dimension 😳

Originally posted by: naz17555

Mads your totally right!! i'm all for this bro-sis storyline as like you said its different and actually interesting.... the thing that really gets to me is that sajan scenes get interrupted, or what we expected doesnt happen... I guess in some way the samrat/sajan fan girl in me comes out! lmao!😳

I'm trying to be more mature about it! but sometimes i just get annoyed as i mainly watch .. or rather i just watch this show for sajan... and like you said the kisses are gonna get interrupted so what annoys the hell out of me is that either they should just show it or stop going on about it!😡 that way we wont get a sajan scene interrupted!

Also my other worry is about gunjan getting sidelined, i think that cv's have just totally ignored this charcter.. they like to use her only for the romance with sam...and i really dont like that.. samrat gets opportunities to develop his character and add another dimension, whereas gunjan's charcter revolves around samrat... like again this sis storyline is for samrat.. like sheena was, like jail was like RV stuff was... so I guess my main issue is always gonna be the sidelining of gunjan...

well I really hope cv's prove me wrong and actually make good use of gunjan here.. esp as I feel its unfair to sanaya.. shes really talented but doesnt get much to do on this show...

ok my rant over lmao and this was in no way to you..😊 just hope cv's read (yeah ryt!)

naz, agree with you ... that's my main issue as well - she's my favourite character and I just don't like her to be sidelined. So far in this track, it seems to be hopeful that she won't ... but am keeping my fingers crossed!

Originally posted by: MohitSanayaFan

I haven't seen this scene yet, I guess it will air tomorrow but here are my thoughts just based on the small SBS preview...

I think for the story to move fwd, its necessary for Suhaani to show some instant concern for Samrat or else Gunjan would not get as suspicious. did Suhaani have to put medication on Samrat's wounds for that to happen? probably not but I guess there might be some justification to this. I think the point is to make Gunjan feel bad or else she wont find out about Suhaani's true identity.

Gunjan may not get to physically care for him like putting medication on nursing his wounds (as a SaJa fan, I'd like to have seen it) but for me, thats not the only way she can care for him. she can talk to him afterwards, call him to see how he is doing..so maybe it wont be that bad...

About life-revolving:

I still feel that Samrat's life revolves around Gunjan -- This is my opinion but I've always felt that Samrat needs Gunjan more than she needs him and he has said this a number of times -- he keeps saying he cannot imagine his life w/o her. He wears his heart on his sleeve. Samrat is more possessive (at least physically -- like holding her hand, wanting to see her and spend his time with her) of her than she is of him as well.

Since Gunjan is the more reserved one like Mayank, she isn't shown to interact much with people. She isn't as social and that kinda goes with her character. Though yea it would be nice to see her rapport with other characters besides Samrat. She has scenes with Nupur mostly and occasionally with the others. Maybe they can show some of her scenes with Adhiraj since Gunjan seems to be the only one in the gang who doesn't think that bad of him. Maybe Gunjan will be the first to befriend him.

green @ i will reserve judgement on this till we see the actual scene but in my mind they can show suhaani as being loving caring sister with some bonding with gunjan as she sees how important gunjan is for samrat
or as possessive noone-is-good-enough-for-my-bro kind of sister with some negative shades - considering that she hasn't been around samrat the last ten years, I won't be too happy if that's the case. regardless of whose fault it is that the bro-sis separated.

red@ - life revolving - I agree that samrat's life seems to revolve around gunjan completely - even more than hers around his. And that's mainly because of his lack of family - he literally has no one to call his own except for her. Which is why we've seen him being so possessive ever since the confession - I don't think that's going to change too dramatically even after it becomes public that suhani is his sister. Gunjan has Nupur - Samrat was even getting hyper about G being with N ... so it will be interesting to see how he reacts with his own sister, especially if suhani is the possessive "He's my-brother" type. Sure he's helping nupur, but once he got nups2 to the house, he was back to Gunjan - duty done, now you stay with me! So my issue is not how he's going to react to his sister, but how his sister (and family) will react to Gunjan. And I have a feeling that Gunjan is going to be the more mature one about this whole thing - maybe after some initial insecurity - because for one, she has a family apart from Samrat so she can understand better, and for two, Samrat after confession has never let her feel insecure about his love for a second.

It's nice to see these shades of relationships - hope they don't make them Ekta-ish!

Originally posted by: xaviara

Here lies my problem, because till now as far as Gunjan is concerned, CV's has only potrayed her life to revolve around Sam's. I wouldnt have a problem with this track had Gunjan was shown to interact with others and had a life beyond Sam, but she doesnt and we only get to see her with Sam

Hehe...that, my friend, is the usual male chauvinist thing going around in this part of the world!

The male has a life beyond his better half...not so the female...the normal population doesn't allow her to be!