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Naveen Arshad

@xaviara

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Posted: 15 years ago

hello my darlings, am back with a topic, and this time its about something that has been bugging many sajanians ! I have seen and replied to many topics since friday, so I thought I'll post a topic, because I felt really sad reading all the things said about Gunjan. I know SaJan just confessed and you want to see their romantic scenes, so do i !! But have you guys stopped and for a sec and thought about what Gunjan is feeling ? Its funny Sam seems to understand ! and most of you are gurls, i thought u would understand her much better then a guy !!

Everyone is thinking about Sam, no one is thinking about Gunjan !! ITS NOT EASY !! People think being in a relationship with ur best friend is so easy ! Trust me its even more difficult then being in a relationship with a guy you have just met and dated for a while !! You can't turn into a lover/girlfriend overnight ! Its takes time ! She explained to Sam tonite why she is feeling this way ? Sam understands that, so I dont understand why are you guys giving Gunjan such a hard time ??

Have you noticed that since the confession Sam has hugged Gunjan just once, and even then he asked for her permission for it and then the two hugs after that has been initiated by Gunjan herself !! That means Sam knows and understands that she isnt like his previous's gf's! !He knows his limits with her, because he UNDERSTANDS her !! And she UNDERSTANDS and TRUSTS him ! If she didnt, she wouldnt have asked about him coming inside the house, because she does trust him !! Transition from friends to lovers is not easy guys, and Sajan are making this transition slowly but beautifully !! Hats off to the creatives !! I bet the more understanding Sam gets, the more easiar it will be for Gunjan to shed her inhibitions !!

I loved tonite's Sajan scenes because not only was it romantic, but it was meaningful ! It showed us the emotions of a young couple in love, slowly making a transition from friends to lovers !! Give Gunjan some time, I can bet you, she will surprise the hell outta Sam and you guys very soon !!

Edited by xaviara - 15 years ago

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mads

@mads

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Posted: 15 years ago

well..I was skeptical abt the epi when I'd seen the precap.. ( as always, making the wrong assumptions ) ..but after watching the epi, I hav no doubts that SG gonna rock their relationship !!! if I had ANY doubts they got cleared today..esp after the small talk they had.. man, they do communicate sooo much !!! hats off to them.. even if they feel awkward abt a particular situation they speak it out..and thats the beauty of their relationship... I mean, jus the way he asked her " tumhe humara naya rishta odd lagta hain na?" and the way she replies " haan shayad.." she didnt jus keep mum abt it..she spoke out wit him..I guess slowly she will realise that till now she'd only loved him..never fantasized abt being 'with him'....hence the hesitation and the inhibition..this is an entirely new concept to her...but now that she is in a relationship wit him, things are gonna be different..she has to change some more..he has to be more understanding..thats what a relationship is all about..

I m not gonna be the one who complains coz I hav never understood her more tha I did today... 😳

hats off to SG and their WONDERFUL relationship.. 👍🏼

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taz ..

@LotusPetals

Stunner

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Posted: 15 years ago

I agree with u entirely .. moreover they were only best friendz before so obviously, it's a lil awkward and embarassing at first, but then it'll be ok and they wl behave like 2 normal lovers ..

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Nazimah

@naz17555

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Posted: 15 years ago

Awesome post as always navvzb!

Glad to know theres some people who are thinking abit more rationally.. and the thing is gunjan isnt acting irriated or doesnt care for him cos she does! shes always smiling at him and still talking to him the way she used too...

Also im glad that shes making her feelings of unease and apprehension known to samrat rather than holding it in.. shes already said that she aint like the previous gf's he had and hes being really understanding about it... so im happy with it.. its not like shes saying stop it samrat! dont touch me!.. cos then yeah id be like whats wrong with her?! .. but shes not acting that way at all shes behaving normal and still letting him know exactly how shes feeling.. and like you said there lovers now so it is gonna be abit different.. being friends was a total different experience but lovers is obvisously more.. so it will take a while for it to kick in.. and for her to adjust to it.... esp as we know the way she is.. they've stayed true to her character.. so lets just see how they handle it and how gunjan gets over the staring and stuff at college...

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Sana Quraishi

@Soulmate_Sana

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Posted: 15 years ago

ya totally agree with u guys

sajan rocked in today's episode

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Naveen Arshad

@xaviara

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Posted: 15 years ago

@ Mads : Awwww !! Its always great to hear from you !! I'm glad I could make someone understand !! I was really sad after reading everyone's comments on Gunjan since friday and I'll be honest, the reason why I was so sad was because I understand her more then anyone else in the show !! And I love the creatives for handling SaJan's track so beautifully and maturly !! I love how Sam and Gunjan hasnt changed even after their confession, they are still so honest and open about each others feelings !! I love how Gunjan isnt being a typical gf who would do and say whatever she expeacts her bf would like ! That's what makes her so special to Sam !!! 😊

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anjali

@rosette80

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Posted: 15 years ago

ya naveen..i think ur very rite..i am sorry for thinking it little insensibily..was just expecting more from sajam..but no probs..can wait forever till they are right with it!i understand ur points completelty!!very true!rhanx for that!!

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lavenderskies

@lavenderskies

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Posted: 15 years ago

I haven't watched the epi yet but I'm kinda feeling relieved after reading your post Navz =). I was confused about Gunjan's behavior in friday's epi and in the precap. I hope todays epi will make it more clear for me to understand why she behaved that way. Ahh cannot wait to watch the epi...got 4 more hrs before I can watch it.

Will add my views after watching the epi 😆

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Naveen Arshad

@xaviara

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Posted: 15 years ago

@ tasnime : hey ! thanks so much for replying and agreeing !! you understood me correctly !! Initially everything is a little awkward and new !! Remember when SG became friends, Gunjan was hesitant even then about him holding her hand or hugging her, so its shows that it just takes her time to get used to things like these !! And in this case even Sam was a little awkward immediately after the confession, so this is Gunjan we are talking about !! 😊

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kavya

@kavya.b

Stunner

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Posted: 15 years ago

#10

bang on naveen - those were my thoughts , not frm friday, but frm long back, that's wen i was forced 2 make few topics, which were not at all relevant 2 the track

best frnds in relation will b very good as a long term relation n understanding each other but wen it comes 2 romance... they'll defo have some discomfort level... it's not only frm gal, but this come frm the guy too
esp wen it comes 2 a pair like SAJAN, this shoud b more but surprisingly, it was not shown 2 that extent.... which i loved n found it different frm many other couples

2day's epi said everything... gunjan told every thing in a single line

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