So Lucky is taking revenge for Nandu mmmm...

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pyaaribehna

@pyaaribehna

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Posted: 8 years ago

So Lucky is taking revenge on Pritiya for Nandu's sake.

But is Nandu right? one might think he had supported Priti when no one would marry her.

But even then Priti did not want to marry Nandu. She hated Nandu. She says so openly even then even now.

Nandu came to stay in their house because Raghwa wanted to do a favour for Nandu's dad or wanted to return his favour. But Nandu started eyeing Priti once in shanti sadan.

He wished for Mohit/Priti relationship to break. He manipulated it to break as well.

Sarla broke it for money's sake. But Nandu was also trying to break it or wishing for it to break.

Again he wished for Priti Vyom marriage to break. He paid a boy to throw cowdung on Vyom.

It is OK so Nandu loves Priti. But is not Priti a human being? She likes somebody does not like somebody it is her wish.

Just because Nandu has his "pyaar" he cannot break up every relationship of Priti with anybody.

So he married Priti . Priti is open about her feelings for him. She told him openly she hated him.

But Nandu ? is he open about what he does? he does not respect Priti's feelings or else he would not have married her when she was helpless.

He posed as somebody else. pretended to be lucky. and chased Priti . Even when Priti at some point did not want to cheat Nandu.

Because he disturbed her so much she got involved.

Now he is angry with Shanti Sadan people for forcing Nandu to divorce Priti. He wants to take revenge on Priti. How right is that? What way is he right?

Priti hates him because he is a chaprasi. What has Nandu done about it? he pretends to work in a garage. Does he earn enough there?

Does he play something in the music band? No right? what is he doing with Ramesh there?

When Nandu can pretend to be Lucky why cannot he be more smart at home?

when he pretends to be rich he was able to buy a ring but still had no money for Wedding dress. What is the use of pretending when you cannot raise your status to earn more money be smart and be more independent?

Now how is he going to take revenge on Priti? Can he afford a house all by himself? Then why cannot he do that being Nandu?

If Priti hates him he has nobody to blame but himself. Priti hates him for the same reason as he love Priti. He loves Priti because she is pretty.

Priti hates Nandu because he is a chaprasi plus badly dressed talks etc. When he can change himself why not do it before?

Having pyaar for a girl is not a qualification by itself. Respecting her wish is also important.

Let Priti be anything. Nandu is not so rightous. Nor is he justified in taking revenge on anyone inclduing Kusiya for supporting Lucky .

Edited by pyaaribehna - 8 years ago

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easyname

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Posted: 8 years ago

I agree with you almost word for word. I think that this drama should address this form of male entitlement in the drama.

If Amit likes Riya and tries to marry her, all the viewers know it is wrong because Shivam and Riya are the main cast and Amit is not a good person by any standards.

Nandu likes Preeti and tries to subtly break her marriage, but this fact is ignored by so many viewers because Nandu is not "so bad" as Amit. He is a bechara and innocent who happened to fall in love with Preeti - a wicked girl who fell in love with Mohit and made multiple mistakes that would ruin the family name -, and he truly loves her because he was there at the time when no one else was there.

I really think they should address the fact that Nandu (and Sarla) created these circumstances where Mohit and Preeti were separated. Just because Nandu is nice, it does not mean he gets to marry a girl who doesn't like him at all especially when he is the main cause of destroying her married life twice.

He got Mohit to destroy Vyom and Preeti's marriage, and he did nothing to help or make the family understand Mohit despite being with him 90% of the time during the fiasco of Preeti's love story. He just sat there and watched him drink.

Nandu won't even understand the person he claims to love and refuses to sign the divorce papers. Like honestly, this is such a big problem in the drama.

I personally see in my household that my mom and sister want Preeti to be punished by having Nandu and Lucky leave her. They do not think that Nandu should leave her because he forcibly married her, but they think he should leave her to teach her a lesson! A lesson for her mistake in loving someone who could easily be manipulated by others.

Everyone thinks Nandu is nice, but what would happen if they found out about the phone calls which alerted Mohit of the marriage? What would they think?

I was most surprised by Namita yesterday!

How could she support Nandu when this is clear betrayal on Nandu's part! Nimmi, herself, knows how it feels to be betrayed (of course her situation was different) so why does she think that this is correct?

Personally, if this were realistic, Preeti would kill herself or go mentally unstable when she finds out that she was manipulated so greatly by everyone! And if that happens, I do not think any of the viewers will mourn her loss because they believe it is all her own fault.

Honestly, it isn't all her fault. It is the fault of the society that she grew up in - her "modern" actions are just a rebellion against these ethical orthodox values.

When Riya should be opposing Dadi, Preeti is doing the hard work. In a sense, if you think about it, Preeti is right when she says that Riya did the same thing during her marriage. Riya could have been rejected after she declared that she wanted to marry Shivam, but the drama couldn't continue if that were to happen. Raghav made the call because Shivam, also, loved Riya, but if Shivam did not love Riya...what would happen then? Would she be married to Amit?

I do not think that would have happened... her father would have defended her when he found out about the betrayal played by the Shrivastav family. He would not forcibly marry Riya to someone that she does not want to marry.

Preeti was betrayed as well (stupidly...but yes she was) , but her family didn't support her. They scolded her for making a mistake and ruining their reputation. They considered her a burden and then married her to someone who was already indebted to the Shrivastav family.

A lot of the incidents in this drama can be added up and restored by the CV's if they intend to make this right. I personally think that they should talk about Nandu's one sided obsession with Preeti because viewers outside of the TV drama hate Preeti as much as everyone inside the drama do for all the wrong reasons. It can really be demeaning for women to see the consequences of loving someone being so extreme especially if you are in a family who watches the drama and wishes that Preeti would be punished for her rebellion.

(Note, I am not in love with anyone but I definitely do feel weird every time a nasty comment towards Preeti is passed... I mean she is rude, but does she really deserve to face abandonment? Isn't it the family's fault for not supporting her?)

Riya should take a stand and defend Preeti. It is the only way to redeem herself and bring the main dynamic of the drama back to life. If Riya defends Preeti, it would really be opposing Dadi because it goes against everything Dadi has learned in her life. If the DAUGHTER-IN-LAW SUPPORTS THE DAUGHTER, this show can be brought back on track.

I don't think it will happen because Nandu's flaws are being hidden so well by the actors saying "he was with you when no one else was" and " he is so nice" and "look at what he does for you," but I seriously think that this is a serious problem that needs to be addressed because it does say a lot about the society that we live in. If we believe that a man can manipulate a girl's heart and try to stitch himself in it through wrong means, then, why are we even trying to create a drama where the main theme is the opposition of family dynamics?

When you are reinforcing orthodox values, then, why even green light this project SP?

I hope that the point of all this nautanki is that Riya finally picks herself off and stops trying to live under Dadi's feet and opposes her exactly the way that they showed in the promos.

IF RIYA supports PREETI, Dadi cannot say that the daughter-in-law is different from the daughter because her bahuriya is supporting someone who the entire family is against in this drama.

(Honestly though, the chances of this happening... I hope the drama doesn't take this on a scary turn :'( but it will most likely do it... don't fail us now MAM).

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easyname

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Posted: 8 years ago

Also, I think Preeti is mentally ill because Lucky dresses exactly like Mohit, and she has fallen for him. All of these connections...there must be some significance... please CVs!!!!!!!!!!😭 😭 😭😭

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pyaaribehna

@pyaaribehna

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Posted: 8 years ago

Much as I would like to Riya would never support Priti.

Riya is the most selfish stupid and shallow person in MAM.

Riya even bargained with Nandu that if he supported her to come back to Shanti Sadan she will 'repair'his life.

Riya did the stupidest things to get back to SS.

She wore that stupid flashy too bright to be true sarees irritated Shivam by calling him Maalik and kind of made fun of Kusiya who calls her hubby Maalik.

Riya tried to attack Nandu's parents with sickle. Threatened to kill herlself with the same sicklet to chase them away.

Nandu did not even tell hsi parents he married Pritiya.

He is that selfish. And all their wrath fell on Pritiya. His mom went to hit Priti.

Riya to get into the good books of Shanti supported Vyoms marriage with Priti.She never understood Priti's love. She only threatened Pritiya.

Riya is like a chameleon.

At least the catering order she did not even wash vesssels.Leave alone help in cooking.

She is all ready to play Pappi singh and Chummi singh for repairing disgusting Sarl's life. Alll to get into the good books of Shanti.

She does not even care for the coin she lets her pallu fly around and is lost in talking to Buntiya.She is that careless.

Why would she understand Pritiya's feelings. She would only blame her for everything. and support Nandu who is the most selfish lecherous guy in the world.

What is so good about him. What has he done in life other than the lecherous selfish Pyaar for Pritiya which ruined her life.

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easyname

@easyname

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: pyaaribehna
Much as I would like to Riya would never support Priti.

Riya is the most selfish stupid and shallow person in MAM.

Riya even bargained with Nandu that if he supported her to come back to Shanti Sadan she will 'repair'his life.

Riya did the stupidest things to get back to SS.

She wore that stupid flashy too bright to be true sarees irritated Shivam by calling him Maalik and kind of made fun of Kusiya who calls her hubby Maalik.

Riya tried to attack Nandu's parents with sickle. Threatened to kill herlself with the same sicklet to chase them away.

Nandu did not even tell hsi parents he married Pritiya.

He is that selfish. And all their wrath fell on Pritiya. His mom went to hit Priti.

Riya to get into the good books of Shanti supported Vyoms marriage with Priti.She never understood Priti's love. She only threatened Pritiya.

Riya is like a chameleon.

At least the catering order she did not even wash vesssels.Leave alone help in cooking.

She is all ready to play Pappi singh and Chummi singh for repairing disgusting Sarl's life. Alll to get into the good books of Shanti.

She does not even care for the coin she lets her pallu fly around and is lost in talking to Buntiya.She is that careless.

Why would she understand Pritiya's feelings. She would only blame her for everything. and support Nandu who is the most selfish lecherous guy in the world.

What is so good about him. What has he done in life other than the lecherous selfish Pyaar for Pritiya which ruined her life.

I am saying that the show directors have the chance to redeem all of Riya's wrong and ignorant actions. She is trying to play by Dadi's rules, but there has to be a breaking point where Riya disagrees too much with Dadi and has to oppose her.

If the show creators take advantage of it, they can restart the story again with Nandu leaving and both sisters living with their family. Riya could then oppose Dadi like the show promised (the battle of ideals) in the beginning.

The way that the creators have ruined Riya's character, they have a chance to fix it. I mean, who in this drama is entirely a "good" character?

Anyways, my main reason for thinking this is that Riya acknowledged in the past episodes (while talking with Shivam) that the family needs to understand Preeti's side because she has been through a lot in this whole situation.

The show creators can take this single acknowledgement by Riya and change the entire problematic equation in the entire story.

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pyaaribehna

@pyaaribehna

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: easyname

I am saying that the show directors have the chance to redeem all of Riya's wrong and ignorant actions. She is trying to play by Dadi's rules, but there has to be a breaking point where Riya disagrees too much with Dadi and has to oppose her.

If the show creators take advantage of it, they can restart the story again with Nandu leaving and both sisters living with their family. Riya could then oppose Dadi like the show promised (the battle of ideals) in the beginning.

The way that the creators have ruined Riya's character, they have a chance to fix it. I mean, who in this drama is entirely a "good" character?

Anyways, my main reason for thinking this is that Riya acknowledged in the past episodes (while talking with Shivam) that the family needs to understand Preeti's side because she has been through a lot in this whole situation.

The show creators can take this single acknowledgement by Riya and change the entire problematic equation in the entire story.

I totally understand your point. And that is what I am talking about.

Riya started out as something and turned into something else. But her basic qualities did not change. She has become more lax more careless with pallu flying about.

She talks rubbish she calls Shivam by name loudly. Nothing wrong. She is the one who irritated everyone by calling Shivam Maalik earlier making fun of Kusiya. She has no fear or regard for kusiya or Shanti Devi.

She is willing to do easy things like playing Pappi chummi singh (disgusting drama) and trying to repair disgusting Sarla's disgusting married life,. She fell into Shanti's trap too easily trap about uttaradhikari. She is not worried about big catering order where everyone in the house slogs away including Priti.

Riya was what she was because of her upbringing from an educated household. Father who treated her very well.

But after she tried to come back to SS after Chanda episode she left her job and is all set to please Shanti Devi.nothing else.

We had high hopes of her. But she disappointed every one right from the time of Pritiya Vyom marriage fiasco.

On top of everything else she lacks understanding of Prii's feelings. Priti who is no so lucky as her.

But Riya is selfish. She got Shivam back. Now she is willing to do anything to stay in the good books of Shanti Devi.

Why would she feel for Priti and what she went through. It is just about being friendly with the right kind of people for your own selfish reasons than to be sensitive and understanding.

That would put her in a bad spot in SS. Especially when the whole household is sympathising with and feels indebted to Nandu for his" magnanimity" towards Priti.

Sad thing is everybody is expecting Priti to be feeling "shy" towards Nandu and flirt with him just because they are married.

Nobody understands why Priti hates Nandu it would be for any reason. He got Priti 75% off on a sale. and that is it.

It matters nothing to Riya how Priti feels. She only cares for Shivam who turned out to be even more useless than Nandu.

Edited by pyaaribehna - 8 years ago

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easyname

@easyname

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Posted: 8 years ago

With your argument: 😆😆😆

I am just offering a suggestion at what could be done with the show if the directors care about the premsis that they came out with - and SP should supervise it since their motto is "nayi soch".

Isn't it amusing how SP never used a character from MAM to promote their new brand logo? 😆😆😆

Anyways, if the channel people care enough, they will give Riya a reason. It isn't so hard since they have done it so many times before - for example, Mohit suddenly becoming negative 😕.

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