Originally posted by: anjs
When Shivam said why didnt Riya confide in him, that time Bunty had a chance of saying that its his anger that scares Riya from confiding in him...and again his anger is destroying their love and marriage.
Maybe that wudve knocked some sense into his thick brain...
I wish Chanda is smitten by Amit, since she has money m sure Amit will switch on his charm full-on...
Wish Raghav remembers how he saw Shivam distraught without Riya and tells so to Shantiya... Kaushalya is pathetic, she knows Shivam loves Riya but just to be in the good books of Shanti, she is keeping mum n letting Shanti play with her husband's feelings and her own son's life...
What a worthless mother Kaushalya is...
It's not only Bunty who has told Shivam that its his anger that puts Riya off confiding in him- Riya herself has told him this a few times. She has even asked him to not overreact before telling him something important- for example when Nimmi took money from Bunty- she had stressed to him that he shouldnt fly off the handle and find out all the facts first. He said he would listen and be calm, he told her to trust him- and what did he do?? He ended up slapping his sister without once asking for an explanation. This guy needs anger management big time- that AND to be kept away from all romantic situations. He's awful at being romantic. Anway,I dont think its his anger that is destroying his marriage- its his lack of love for his wife. His daddi has made him angry many times when he watched her ill-treat his mother- I dont remember him flipping out and screaming at his daddi because of it. This cheesehead loves his family so much that even if his daddi is stomping on his mums head he would find a way to defend it. And all because his mother would beg him to listen to his daddi, his mum just has to turn on the waterworks and even if she is the one being mistreated she will be able to convince him to back off. Why? Because he loves his mum- no matter what he will do as she pleads and cries and begs. He loves her more than his sisters or his wife or anyone. He is a major mummys boy and you can practically see him hiding under her skirts whenever he has to make an adult decision. So pitiable. You know... I would just say he doesnt even love his mum. If he loved his mum he wouldnt have stood back and watched shanti treat her the way she has. He would have got her out of that hell hole and taken care of her himself. No... its probably worse than even loving his mum above all else. I think he is just a coward. A scared little boy who cant make decisions for himself, who cant speak up to his dad, who cant defend his mother or his wife, who cant defend himself, who cant choose courage and love over "looking good" infront of his clueless father, who cant do anything but nod moronically to his daddi and father.
Rani is dong my head in too to be honest- so I agree with you if thats what you intended to say about wishing Chanda being smitten with Amit. I want to see how much this Rani will take from Amit until she tells him to go to hell. Lets see how much more she is willing to be insulted and made a fool of by her husband. She forced herself on him, insisting on marrying this loser who clearly hates her and loves himself- now he is flirting with Chanda. So yes, I hope Chanda reciprocates his feelings. I want to see what other stupid antics Rani will stoop to now to get his attention. I like how she gives her MIL as good as she gets- but when it comes to Amit, I dont find her much different to Riya, except that she threatens to sort the problem out with some form of violence- like throwing food at Chanda or beating her up with a broom. Yes she called the police and that was at least partly clever but you know...blah blah blah... it reeks of the usual desperation in this serial of women degrading themselves for men who dont give a damn about them.
It doesnt matter what Raghav says to Shanti about Shivam and Riya- the woman has a stone heart, she doesnt care for her own son's insult, never mind Shivam's ""heartache"" LOL I use that term very loosely. Crying on his motorbike for two minutes before telling Riya to get the hell out of his house does not equal heartache to me. Hes a confused little boy.
Khushia has an empty skull; she allows Khushia and Sarla to fill that empty space with whatever pleases them. She has been completely manipulated and used and you know what? She likes it. She has said as much previously- that no matter how it seems, her ammaji is right. Her ammaji is god to her. Her ammaji can never be wrong. Even if ammaji throws a baby into the fire and calls it a sacrifice for the good of her family- ammaji will be right. Khushia is so far beyond pathetic and sad and stupid that she is practically as evil as shanti. NO ONE can be that easily molded that they agree to every single stupid thing someone else shoves down their throat- you have to be PURPOSEFULLY blind and choosing ignorance over common sense to be THAT imbecilic. I dont buy it, I dont believe Khushia is this naive little thing that doesnt know any better (not that Im saying you do anjs!) I dont think she is this poor lady who has been deceived. No, she has ALLOWED herself to be used and manipulated and thats a big difference. She wont even entertain the POSSIBILITY that shanti is insane. Even after seeing the way she treats her's and Sarla's children differently, even after seeing her looking for old decrepit widowers to marry off to her daughters, even after watching her lock nimmi up in cupboards, even after taunting and making fun of her children- Khushia has chosen to look the other way. She is worse than shanti to me. She is the mother, the one who should have been protecting her children and she gave that responsibility to shanti and shanti being psychotic has destroyed her kids' lives because of it. Khushia isnt allowed to slap her own children (not that I believe in that kind of thing) but Shanti is allowed. HA! What a farce of a mother. She was just a baby making machine and the house slave it seems. Khushia is NOT a mother, never mind a worthless one, she isnt even that.